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I can't see the point behind getting married nor having kids.

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Dude, get laid first. This is like a kindergartener asking the relevancy of Shakespeare when he hasn't learned his Alphabets yet.

With the quality of this thread I'm wondering, without any intent of malice, mind you, if you've ever had any girlfriends even . . ..
 
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: Baked
Then you will die a lonely old man. Might as well... oh nm, this thread's pointless.


Dude I have a big-a$$ family it's not like Ihave nobody. Everyone in my family loves and I love them back.

You have sex with your family?? wtf

Only kidding. 😀

I can understand why you wouldn't want to have kids, but if you don't believe in premarital sex, why wouldn't you want to get married?

Marriage = fine.

But only a idiot would have kids. Most people have kids unplanned, so they're sort of stuck with them, and they brag about the virtues if having kids only because they love their kids so much, which is understandable. But deep down, most people would be happier without kids, especially because most kids are trouble makers. They won't tell you that, but it's true.


Again becasue I don't have that much sexual desire in me as I said, and my sexual desire as minor as it is is not enough of an incentive for me to get married, or maybe becasue I can control my instincts so much I don't know.
 
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: Tikloos
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: Baked
Then you will die a lonely old man. Might as well... oh nm, this thread's pointless.


Dude I have a big-a$$ family it's not like I have nobody. Everyone in my family loves me and I love them back.

he mean no sex or children


I am really not a sex driven beast like the rest of the ppl I see around, I don't have this gigantic desire in me, and I think with my head, (ya the one that is on top not the bottom one like many others)

I think I get it now. He is asexual. I read an article about asexuals not too long ago. They aren't attracted to either sex and have no sex drive at all. Really sad.

Wikipedia article on asexuality
 
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Again becasue I don't have that much sexual desire in me as I said, and my sexual desire as minor as it is is not enough of an incentive for me to get married, or maybe becasue I can control my instincts so much I don't know.

You have no desire to bury your wire in someone's garden patch?
 
Originally posted by: Dissipate
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: Tikloos
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: Baked
Then you will die a lonely old man. Might as well... oh nm, this thread's pointless.


Dude I have a big-a$$ family it's not like I have nobody. Everyone in my family loves me and I love them back.

he mean no sex or children


I am really not a sex driven beast like the rest of the ppl I see around, I don't have this gigantic desire in me, and I think with my head, (ya the one that is on top not the bottom one like many others)

I think I get it now. He is asexual. I read an article about asexuals not too long ago. They aren't attracted to either sex and have no sex drive at all. Really sad.


I wouldn't call myself an asexual, but I am mildly attracted to girls sexually , hence not enough incentive to get married.
 
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Again becasue I don't have that much sexual desire in me as I said, and my sexual desire as minor as it is is not enough of an incentive for me to get married, or maybe becasue I can control my instincts so much I don't know.

You have no desire to bury your wire in someone's garden patch?


I never said no, but how can I put this, whenver the thought comes to mind I can think of half a dozen things that would be more entertaining for me, I don't know maybe driving an M6 or something like that , or putting together an a$$ kicking rig something along that line.
 
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
I never said no, but how can I put this, whenver the thought comes to mind I can think of half a dozen things that would be more entertaining for me.

No offense, but are you just insecure or fearful to be around girls?
 
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
I never said no, but how can I put this, whenver the thought comes to mind I can think of half a dozen things that would be more entertaining for me.

No offense, but are you just insecure or fearful to be around girls?


Not at all. I have alot of female friends I just didn't go that extra step to the bed 😉
 
Originally posted by: The Linuxator

I wouldn't call myself an asexual, but I am mildly attracted to girls sexually , hence not enough incentive to get married.

Only mildly attracted to girls sexually? I think that qualifies as being quite asexual. You might want to go see a psychologist or a counselor about this. And I don't think it is something you should hide from your parents. Tell them about your asexuality and maybe they will understand why you don't want to get married.
 
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: Baked
Then you will die a lonely old man. Might as well... oh nm, this thread's pointless.


Dude I have a big-a$$ family it's not like Ihave nobody. Everyone in my family loves and I love them back.

You have sex with your family?? wtf

Only kidding. 😀

I can understand why you wouldn't want to have kids, but if you don't believe in premarital sex, why wouldn't you want to get married?

Marriage = fine.

But only a idiot would have kids. Most people have kids unplanned, so they're sort of stuck with them, and they brag about the virtues if having kids only because they love their kids so much, which is understandable. But deep down, most people would be happier without kids, especially because most kids are trouble makers. They won't tell you that, but it's true. But having kids who are very smart and mature and who aren't trouble makers wouldn't be so bad.

You are a clueless moron. That is perhaps the dumbest thing I've ever read in my life. Please ban yourself because you clearly don't know WTF you're talking about.
 
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
What's wrong with my logic?

Nothing is wrong with your logic.

If more people thought like you, and spent their time wisely trying to improve themselves first instead of following society's push to get married and have kids as fast as possible, then this world would be a better place.
 
Originally posted by: Dissipate
Originally posted by: The Linuxator

I wouldn't call myself an asexual, but I am mildly attracted to girls sexually , hence not enough incentive to get married.

Only mildly attracted to girls sexually? I think that qualifies as being quite asexual. You might want to go see a psychologist or a counselor about this. And I don't think it is something you should hide from your parents. Tell them about your asexuality and maybe they will understand why you don't want to get married.

It's not that I don't have the desire it's just htat IU have mentally trained myself that it's not important to me as much as people want to convince me that it is, and since I was a kid I really felt good about being able to have control over such a desire.
 
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

You are a clueless moron. That is perhaps the dumbest thing I've ever read in my life. Please ban yourself because you clearly don't know WTF you're talking about.

That's funny, I don't see anyone refuting my comment.
 
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: Dissipate
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: Tikloos
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: Baked
Then you will die a lonely old man. Might as well... oh nm, this thread's pointless.


Dude I have a big-a$$ family it's not like I have nobody. Everyone in my family loves me and I love them back.

he mean no sex or children


I am really not a sex driven beast like the rest of the ppl I see around, I don't have this gigantic desire in me, and I think with my head, (ya the one that is on top not the bottom one like many others)

I think I get it now. He is asexual. I read an article about asexuals not too long ago. They aren't attracted to either sex and have no sex drive at all. Really sad.


I wouldn't call myself an asexual, but I am mildly attracted to girls sexually , hence not enough incentive to get married.


ASEXUAL>>>>LOLOLOL
ASEXUAL----reproduce WITH NO OXYGEN!
 
For some strange reason I feel celibacy is not a choice you voluntarily made. Please post a pic so I can verify my theory. I'm picturing, a MONSTEROUS geek.
 
Originally posted by: SagaLore
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
What's wrong with my logic?

Nothing is wrong with your logic.

If more people thought like you, and spent their time wisely trying to improve themselves first instead of following society's push to get married and have kids as fast as possible, then this world would be a better place.


Thank you.
 
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

You are a clueless moron. That is perhaps the dumbest thing I've ever read in my life. Please ban yourself because you clearly don't know WTF you're talking about.

That's funny, I don't see anyone refuting my comment.

It is so outrageous, why would anyone waste their time refuting it?
 
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus


You are a clueless moron. That is perhaps the dumbest thing I've ever read in my life. Please ban yourself because you clearly don't know WTF you're talking about.

JM is correct...

I can't believe I just said that 😕

JLGatsby please just STFU already...
 
Originally posted by: JLGatsby

But only a idiot would have kids. Most people have kids unplanned, so they're sort of stuck with them, and they brag about the virtues if having kids only because they love their kids so much, which is understandable. But deep down, most people would be happier without kids, especially because most kids are trouble makers. They won't tell you that, but it's true. But having kids who are very smart and mature and who aren't trouble makers wouldn't be so bad.

Wow, you're a moron, aren't you? Studies clearly show that married adults 30+ with kids report highers levels of happiness (don't know if I'm wording it correctly) vs. no kids.

If you're serious about this, go sit down with your parents and ask them if they would have been happier without you in their life. Well for them, they might say yes, with good reason, but for any parents with normal, well adjusted kids, they would not hesitate to say no.
 
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: The Linuxator
Again becasue I don't have that much sexual desire in me as I said, and my sexual desire as minor as it is is not enough of an incentive for me to get married, or maybe becasue I can control my instincts so much I don't know.

You have no desire to bury your wire in someone's garden patch?


I never said no, but how can I put this, whenver the thought comes to mind I can think of half a dozen things that would be more entertaining for me, I don't know maybe driving an M6 or something like that , or putting together an a$$ kicking rig something along that line.

This absolutely reeks of sour grapes that you can't get any.

There is no reason that you cant drive an m6 while getting some, or putting together a killer rig while getting some.

Youre like a milder, more easy to swallow version of imtim83.

I just find it sad that youll never get to experience some of the greatest things in life because you already harbor discontent about them.

Youll never get to wake up in the morning snuggling your SO. Youll never see your kids smile. Youll never feel that special connection with someone because youve already decided that its not worth it, when you arent even in a position to properly judge that because youve never experienced it.

And youll never understand that while your SO may not be perfect and may irritate you sometimes, and your kids are snotty little ungrateful bastards, in the end, the good outweighs the bad.

I feel sorry for you.
 
Originally posted by: JackBurton
For some stange reason I feel celibacy is not a choice you voluntarily made. Please post a pic so I can verify my theory. I'm picturing, a MONSTEROUS geek.


No really you couldn't tell I am a geek from a picture or anything like that, in social events I am just like everyone else, but you see it's just the way I look at things that make that different from others that's all. and for those of you who are thinking "He has a small one" be assured I pack enough weapons for the job 😉
 
Originally posted by: Dissipate
Originally posted by: JLGatsby
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus

You are a clueless moron. That is perhaps the dumbest thing I've ever read in my life. Please ban yourself because you clearly don't know WTF you're talking about.

That's funny, I don't see anyone refuting my comment.

It is so outrageous, why would anyone waste their time refuting it?

It is not outrageous, I merely explore into untrodden teritorries of truth others before me had never dared to go.
 
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