Originally posted by: frankgomez75
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Originally posted by: frankgomez75
Really?
I bet you are either:
white
middle to upper-class
have never lived in poverty
If not.... please explain how you made it out of? Its no cake walk.
I had a helluva time finding work in the ghetto. When you do get one... its either minimum wage or dangerous. I lived in a town with 100,000 people.... no bus transportation. A city that once held the headquarters of the KKK.
I dropped out of school to help out cuz my mom couldn't pay all the bills, even though she worked 2 jobs.... paying minimum wage cuz my low life father split before I was born.... The only reason I'm alive is because another person (white caucsian/middleclass) social worker decided to make a difference in my life. I watched all my friends either die from gang violence, drugs, or go to prison cuz they didn't get an opportunity like me. Someone reached out to help me in a time of need at 16yrs old and was not afraid to come into my neighborhood... even though he could have been shot.
With his help I was able to get my GED, but only because he would take me (again no public transportation in my neighborhood).... and I'm now wrapping up my senior year in college getting my business degree.
Its so easy to tell people what to do when you're on top. Get off your high horse and help someone rather than say "Get a job"
You think its so easy.....
I am not gonna play... let's top this... with who had a worse life or a harder time... i am older than you and had a head start. And i dont feel the need to air all my horror stories on an open forum.
I will say, however... that your mom chose to have a child with a man who did not stand by her. your father chose to walk out on his family. If the ppl in your family were only capable of min wage jobs, my guess would be that there was no higher education there.. despite the long list of availbility out there.
Society, the white man or the government did not make the choices, your parents did. It is nice that you had someone to give you a helping hand. But i do not for one minute believe that you could not have done it without him. i think if you wanted it, you would have gotten it.
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I want to believe that... but I just can't. I think of my life much in the same way of the Africans who were enslaved. The ones who wanted to be free but couldn't do so on thier own. The ones who made it out were helped by Harriet Tubman and a string of sympathetic white people who believed in the cause of freedom. It took a Civil War to change things.
I believe it actually may take another... but this time it will be "The haves vs The have nots"
Substitute the chains on the slaves as my oppression. I was born a slave. I was in a situation that I had no control over. I once harbored anger at my mother and father... but people are human and make mistakes. I forgave my mother.... my father I will prolly never forgive as I yet to have met him. But had I not had a Harriet Tubman like person and a support structure to help me out.... I would forever have been enslaved into a life of poverty and oppression.
I know many people feel this way... and many people who have not been there can sympathize.
Only becuase you would have otherwise quite literally 'known no other way', not because of any other listed predeterminations. It's great that there are people willing to help, irregardless. 🙂
We forget that we need to have a basic level of education in order to be able to conceptualize the value of education. A lot of people simply cannot grasp the concept that education will lead to furthered success in the future. One may make the case that there is an ever increasing push toward education in both the media and early gradeschools, however it's hard to heed that advice when you don't always have dinner on the table back at home.