I've been to perhaps a couple hundred concerts of different types over the years, from small local bands to some of the biggest names in rock & roll and country/western, to classical music from at least a dozen different symphonies/ensembles. I LIKE music...but don't listen to it all the time. I don't own any mp3 player of any kind, don't download music, don't buy CD's on a regular basis, rarely listen to music when I'm at home, other than at dinnertime, and in the car, I'm as likely to listen to news/traffic as I am to any music channel.
I definitely prefer music that doesn't include vocals...the whole "My voice is my instrument," really doesn't appeal to me...MOST of the time.