I am scared of telling people where I am from.

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imported_Tomato

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One of my good friends in college was Afghani. His parents lost their home and all their possessions to the Taliban. I miss Mr. Hakimzada... *sigh* He wasn't really discriminated against afer 9/11, but then again, I suppose things are different on college campuses vs. the "real world"...

Peace,
Dezign
 

nd

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Yes, you are worrying about nothing.

Canadians are becoming more and more common -- don't worry so much.
 

TommyVercetti

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Originally posted by: PipBoy
My boss is from Iraq but he just tells people he's from Persia.

How is that any different? I have learned that people who have hatred against certain nationalities/ethnicities, they are pretty much intollernt of everyone else too. I think I just contradicted myself!
 

sandorski

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Actually, I don't think he is being paranoid, depending on where he's from. That said though, I would think that in most social situations it would be best to reveal the truth, though some may react to it I think you'd find that only a very few(probably so few that you would be unlikely comne across them) would react in a really negative way. I'm sure that many will be somewhat cautious, but they are likely to be open-minded about it and will be accepting of you.

 

yowolabi

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You are a person and are not responsible for any bad things that have come from your country. If it worked like that, everyone would go around ashamed because every country has some things in it's history it isn't proud of. If people think less of you because of where you happened to be born that's their problem. Life's too short to worry about pleasing idiots which you'll probably never see again anyway. I think you should say proudly where you're from so that those that are ignorant can know that everybody from one place isn't only one thing. You can love your country and not love it's ideology. That's the case with me and America. I don't think you have to worry about rocks, because while half of this country might be psycho, less than 1% is violently psycho*.



*National Journal of American Psychological Health
 

jjones

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I hate everyone equally so no need to fear a disproportionate amount of abuse from me.
 

Peetoeng

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Originally posted by: PipBoy
My boss is from Iraq but he just tells people he's from Persia.

Some people prefer the old, historic and grander name. Some country names are anglicized/westernized name given during the colonial period. So, it could be for the matter of pride. I usually tell people the island I come from instead of the country; because they most likely have heard the island name. Guess what?:p

EDIT: I forgot to guess where TV is from. From the avatar, could he be an ausie footballer? Americans hate australian-rule football. WTH is that?
 

PoPPeR

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being Taiwanese (chinese if you are ignorant and believe there is no difference between chinese/taiwanese, which in that case I guess i'll call every american british), I also receive my fair share of racism, mostly directed towards my academics and family. I've heard em all, they don't even make me feel bad anymore. I actually make fun of myself a little bit because i find it humorous how much stereotyping invaded our culture. Granted, these are only to my friends, I wouldn't make any of these jokes around people I didn't know.
 

EbonyExperience

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Originally posted by: TommyVercetti
Here is the situation. I speak with a slight foreign accent, so naturally one question I get a lot is "So where are you from?". I really dread that question. Its not that I hate to answer it, I am just confused how I am supposed to answer it. I grew up in a country which does not really have a very good reputation in the US and I am afraid what people might think of me. Now people at work and friends, I tell them the truth where I am from. But its just people, like friends' friends, people you meet at bars, parties (usually girls) and just those people whom you probably don't meet all the time. I have made up that I am from Mauratius (a small unknown island country in the Indian Ocean) and that I am a native Mauratian. Most people don't know where that is, so they just believe me. Its not that I am ashamed of where I really am from, I am scared that someone might suddenly turn hostile towards me, starts throwing racial slurs at me and physically harm me. I don't think that has ever happened, but I am just scared. What are your thoughts? Am I just scared of nothing?

No I am not going to reveal where I am from, and its not that country which starts with an A and ends with an N.


I think it would be better to stick with the Mauratius storry if you don't want to get into fights. There are too many ignorant people still in this "free country."

But if you can fight and kick some azz, you should go ahead an stand up for your heritage.
 

CraigRT

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Originally posted by: thawolfman
I have a Dutch accent. Ishn't that vierd?

:D

i love goooooooooooold.....
the schmell of it, the feeeeeeeeel of it, the texxxxxture of it

i love goooooooooooold!
 

bmacd

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You don't have to be ashamed of being Canadian...lots of people are ;)

-=bmacd=-
 

axelfox

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Well, if you are going to tell someone you are from Mauritius be sure you know how to spell it :)

Enough of the spelling lesson. I know of several people from Mauritius, and they know English as well French. Just hope that you don't run into a Mauritian, or it might turn into the episode of the Simpsons where Homer and Bart break into the school to steal the grease and Willy walks in.

BTW, I think you are paranoid, but that's just me.
 

SlowSS

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French???:)

Hey dude, it is your choice, you don't have to reveal it if you don't want to, but living in fear and lie isn't healthy at all.