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How To Increase Your Game

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DAGTA

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Addendum to #1:
The vast majority of women do not know the difference between Arrogance and Confidence. Be an arrogant asshole and you will get laid all you want as most women will just think you're very confident.
 

Booster

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However it would be pretty simple for that guy with all the money, to seduce a woman by saying, "Wanna go back to my place?" while waving $1000.

Don't you see how retarted that is? Of course, money can buy you a woman. But I see it as a completely pointless endeavour. If all you want is to get laid, maybe that would work. But why the heck would you need this? If you're 18, of course, sex is all you want maybe. But if you're a little older, you want a serious relationship which will be mutually rewarding, it won't help I guess. If the woman doesn't like you.
 

meltdown75

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well. hehehe. finally got a chance to read that, and i have to say i'm glad my dating *cough hack manwhore* days are behind me!!
 

icejunkie

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Originally posted by: Booster
No sh!t. "picking up a girl" is easy. Just smile alot and talk, even if what comes out of your mouth makes no sense. And be positive at all times.

That would only work if you have the potential to pick up someone. For you it's easy, for another person it would be easier to make a million $ than to seduce a woman.

I mean, there's some conspiracy. Women nowadays only like tall dark-haired guys with big muscles even if they are disgustingly stupid. I could never get that. If you're not that big and happen to be blonde at the same time, you're destined to be left out in the cold no matter what you do. You can bang your head against the wall, follow a million tips precisely, do whatever you want, it won't help you. Currently that's not the fashion. I once asked a girl, why she only dated big guys. She answered something to the effect of "I don't know, everybody does that". So please stop pouring salt on people's wounds and don't mention any instructions.

Yes, I agree. The best approach is to just sit at home, typing message after message about how some of us are destined to fail so we shouldnt even try and just continue masturbating furiously 24/7. I mean, it seems to work for you! :roll:

edit - /sarcasm for the slow
 

Hyperblaze

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Sounds like something to keep in mind! I know I've screwed up with girls because of certain things. Will not repeat mistakes (as best as I can)
 

SupaDupaPan

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Originally posted by: Booster
However it would be pretty simple for that guy with all the money, to seduce a woman by saying, "Wanna go back to my place?" while waving $1000.

Don't you see how retarted that is? Of course, money can buy you a woman. But I see it as a completely pointless endeavour. If all you want is to get laid, maybe that would work. But why the heck would you need this? If you're 18, of course, sex is all you want maybe. But if you're a little older, you want a serious relationship which will be mutually rewarding, it won't help I guess. If the woman doesn't like you.

The OP was talking about picking up women in general, not really being picky per se. If you're looking for a woman and a relationship that is more rewarding, I don't think you'd really be picking up women like that in general. Plus, with the OP, when you're "upping your game" ... sounds like you're (saying generally, not YOU) you're just looking to score rather than find a good relationship.
 

Booster

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Originally posted by: icejunkie
Originally posted by: Booster
No sh!t. "picking up a girl" is easy. Just smile alot and talk, even if what comes out of your mouth makes no sense. And be positive at all times.

That would only work if you have the potential to pick up someone. For you it's easy, for another person it would be easier to make a million $ than to seduce a woman.

I mean, there's some conspiracy. Women nowadays only like tall dark-haired guys with big muscles even if they are disgustingly stupid. I could never get that. If you're not that big and happen to be blonde at the same time, you're destined to be left out in the cold no matter what you do. You can bang your head against the wall, follow a million tips precisely, do whatever you want, it won't help you. Currently that's not the fashion. I once asked a girl, why she only dated big guys. She answered something to the effect of "I don't know, everybody does that". So please stop pouring salt on people's wounds and don't mention any instructions.

Yes, I agree. The best approach is to just sit at home, typing message after message about how some of us are destined to fail so we shouldnt even try and just continue masturbating furiously 24/7. I mean, it seems to work for you! :roll:

edit - /sarcasm for the slow

Look, you gotta know it's not that simple. It's not like you see a potential object every day. Sometimes you have to wait a week, sometimes a month. She would appear. Yes, I don't go to bars often. They are not only filled with hookers, if you were a little more in the theme you'd realize that bars and other public places are the last place you should look for a woman if you want to succeed and not only have a one night affair. I'm not intrested in it.
 

QuitBanningMe

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I've never had any problem picking up women and imo most of that post is BS.

I know someone said confidence is BS but that is really all I had in my dating days. No stability, no trendy clothes, an old car, very little money, not very good looking......
 

NikPreviousAcct

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Originally posted by: Hyperblaze
Sounds like something to keep in mind! I know I've screwed up with girls because of certain things. Will not repeat mistakes (as best as I can)

I think even you'd be better at relationships than ... well ... "others" in this thread. ;)
 

meltdown75

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Originally posted by: QuitBanningMe
I've never had any problem picking up women and imo most of that post is BS.

I know someone said confidence is BS but that is really all I had in my dating days. Noability, no trendy clothes, an old car, very little money, not very good looking......

it was the giant schlong wasn't it?
 

QuitBanningMe

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Originally posted by: meltdown75
Originally posted by: QuitBanningMe
I've never had any problem picking up women and imo most of that post is BS.

I know someone said confidence is BS but that is really all I had in my dating days. Noability, no trendy clothes, an old car, very little money, not very good looking......

it was the giant schlong wasn't it?

nope. I'm not exactly lacking in that area but I didn't whip it out and hypnotize them with it either

 

Hyperblaze

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Originally posted by: Nik
Originally posted by: Hyperblaze
Sounds like something to keep in mind! I know I've screwed up with girls because of certain things. Will not repeat mistakes (as best as I can)

I think even you'd be better at relationships than ... well ... "others" in this thread. ;)

Probably. But it's always a learning experience. Only way to learn is to experience it.

 

meltdown75

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Originally posted by: QuitBanningMe
Originally posted by: meltdown75
Originally posted by: QuitBanningMe
I've never had any problem picking up women and imo most of that post is BS.

I know someone said confidence is BS but that is really all I had in my dating days. Noability, no trendy clothes, an old car, very little money, not very good looking......

it was the giant schlong wasn't it?

nope. I'm not exactly lacking in that area but I didn't whip it out and hypnotize them with it either

wow, you're a tough crowd. you actually thought i was asking a serious question! lighten up QBM!!! :p don't take anything i say seriously. ;)
 

SupaDupaPan

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Originally posted by: QuitBanningMe
Originally posted by: Tomato
Originally posted by: The Boss
What makes you think we want a whore's advice?

I'd watch what you say, kid. My fiance reads the forums, and I'm sure he wouldn't appreciate that.

:roll:

Kid... haha ... And he's going to reach his arm through the cable wire and strangle him for that. Because you know, this internet is some serious business!
 

Hyperblaze

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Originally posted by: Tomato
Originally posted by: The Boss
What makes you think we want a whore's advice?

I'd watch what you say, kid. My fiance reads the forums, and I'm sure he wouldn't appreciate that.

With all due respect Tomato...I don't think he (The Bioss) really cares.

 

imported_Tomato

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Sep 11, 2002
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Originally posted by: Nik
I refuse to accept any advise from someone who's engaged 6 weeks after meeting the guy.

Over a year and a half later, we're still together and happily wedding planning.

I was just trying to help, and hope some guy on here will find what I posted useful.

So much for trying to help around here, it's become such a hostile place for my fiance and I that I hardly post at all anymore.
 

imported_Tomato

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Originally posted by: Hyperblaze
Originally posted by: Tomato
Originally posted by: The Boss
What makes you think we want a whore's advice?

I'd watch what you say, kid. My fiance reads the forums, and I'm sure he wouldn't appreciate that.

With all due respect Tomato...I don't think he (The Bioss) really cares.

I believe Macbaine was banned for several weeks for throwing around the same insult completely unnecessarily.

Honestly, I'm not sure why I'm targeted for such bullsh!t... if any other female on the forums was called a "whore", there would be an instant outrage. I don't understand why, as an engaged and 110% committed female, I am targeted for such vicious and unnecessary attacks when I've never purposely tried to hurt anyone else on ATOT.
 

NikPreviousAcct

No Lifer
Aug 15, 2000
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Originally posted by: Tomato
Originally posted by: The Boss
What makes you think we want a whore's advice?

I'd watch what you say, kid. My fiance reads the forums, and I'm sure he wouldn't appreciate that.

Oh NO! Everybody be careful what you say or her boyfriend will ... will uh...

:confused:

Wait what's he gonna do over the internet?


...:roll:
 

Orsorum

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Originally posted by: Tomato
Originally posted by: The Boss
What makes you think we want a whore's advice?

I'd watch what you say, kid. My fiance reads the forums, and I'm sure he wouldn't appreciate that.

As rude as his comment was, you have little recourse. What is your fiance going to do? Reach through his computer and defend your honor with a pimp slap?

That being said, I'd like to believe what you have to say. Not sure I do at this point in my life.