How to deal with tailgaters?

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kjacobs

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Tap the brakes ONCE. They usually back off but 90% of the time they come back for more. I figure they have been warned. THEN just slow down and smile and blow them a kiss in the rear view mirror. Most can't get it through their SUV-guzzling, cell-phone yakking head that after two or three miles I do not speed up. Hey, THEY are the ones in a hurry, not I. Just because they want to get there 30 seconds earlier is NO reason to risk MY safety.

And yes I drive the speed limit. That is what it is for, isn't it?

And for the interstate for all the yo-yos that quote the "Slower traffic keep right" there is ALSO the sign that says SPEED LIMIT! And do not tell me that you have to go with the flow even if it is speeding. BALONEY! No I do not get in the left lane on the interstate. But if they are three lanes I stay in the middle.

Gee I feel better.

My Honda is a patriotic gas-sipping car. Is yours?
 

alkemyst

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Originally posted by: kjacobs
Tap the brakes ONCE. They usually back off but 90% of the time they come back for more. I figure they have been warned. THEN just slow down and smile and blow them a kiss in the rear view mirror. Most can't get it through their SUV-guzzling, cell-phone yakking head that after two or three miles I do not speed up. Hey, THEY are the ones in a hurry, not I. Just because they want to get there 30 seconds earlier is NO reason to risk MY safety.

And yes I drive the speed limit. That is what it is for, isn't it?

And for the interstate for all the yo-yos that quote the "Slower traffic keep right" there is ALSO the sign that says SPEED LIMIT! And do not tell me that you have to go with the flow even if it is speeding. BALONEY! No I do not get in the left lane on the interstate. But if they are three lanes I stay in the middle.

Gee I feel better.

My Honda is a patriotic gas-sipping car. Is yours?

I agree with you except on the 'flow' part. If someone is causing an obvious blockage they should get out of the way, even if that means pulling off the road. To me a stream of 10 or so cars is a blockage.

However I have also dealt with idiot drivers that will not pass and insist that you speed up. I usually give it about 5 mins before I go in to insanity mode.

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flipperspit

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I speed all the time so I rarely get tailgated. When someone does tailgate me here is what I do.

Put your car down into the next lower gear so that when you let off the gas your car will decelerate immediately but slowly.

Keep watch on the tailgater, and when they notice they are catching up with you and hit the brakes, you press the gas, leaving them several car lengths behind.

Then when they go to catch back up wait until they get close again and just let off the gas and repeat.

Gently repeat this cycle over and over again slowing down 5mph speeding up 5mph until they get tired working so d@mn hard for no reason. The longer they try to keep tailgating the more fun it is. Add more fun to it by very gently putting your foot on the brake right as you switch from the slow down phase to the speed up phase. Just enough to activate the brake lights which will put even more distance between you and them...
 

DWW

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Originally posted by: kjacobs
Tap the brakes ONCE. They usually back off but 90% of the time they come back for more. I figure they have been warned. THEN just slow down and smile and blow them a kiss in the rear view mirror. Most can't get it through their SUV-guzzling, cell-phone yakking head that after two or three miles I do not speed up. Hey, THEY are the ones in a hurry, not I. Just because they want to get there 30 seconds earlier is NO reason to risk MY safety.

And yes I drive the speed limit. That is what it is for, isn't it?

And for the interstate for all the yo-yos that quote the "Slower traffic keep right" there is ALSO the sign that says SPEED LIMIT! And do not tell me that you have to go with the flow even if it is speeding. BALONEY! No I do not get in the left lane on the interstate. But if they are three lanes I stay in the middle.

Gee I feel better.

My Honda is a patriotic gas-sipping car. Is yours?

patriotic? are you for real?
 

Nebor

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If someone's tail gating me, then they're really hauling ass, and I'm more than willing to play their game. I'll stomp on the gas and make them get small in the rear view mirror. If they want to try and keep up, then all the more fun. My solution to someone tailgating me is, I'm going slower than the person behind me... They aren't doing anything to hurt me, but I'm doing something to hurt them (they aren't going as fast as they want to be) so I speed up. It's that simple.

As far as me BEING a tailgater, no, I don't. I know how people drive, they'll just stand on the breaks for no reason. But I'll pass you if you're going to slow for my tastes. What I REALLY hate is when people on a 5 lane (2 lanes each way and a turn lane in the middle) get right next to someone going the same speed. What the hell? WHy don't they get behind them? Why cow up the road? Anyways, that's caused me to make many a highspeed pass in the turn lane. And yes, it's important to me to be able to drive as fast as I want, and get where I want to be a few minutes earlier. I've gotten a lot of speeding tickets for that reason. But it's worth it to me.

I'm not afraid to come out and say, I believe my time is more important than the other peoples' on the roads. Or the other people anywhere. I yell at people in restaraunts, I yell at people in drive thrus (employees and customers), I'm an ass. And I'm fine with that. I don't really care what the public thinks about me. I'll do what I want when I want. Sometimes I want to drive a little agressive, cut people off. I'm gonna do it. I'll pay for a ticket if I have to.

I'm not some kind of badass. I'm just a regular person. But I value myself above others. I guess that means I'm selfish. I'm a selfish ass. I have absolutely no problem with that. :D
 

BatmanNate

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When I had my truck, I'd just punch the brakes. Now, I either slow way the hell down or if I'm in a muddy/gravely area I give the rear wheels a nice workout. People that tailgate are making a decision to flirt with death so I'll be damned if I'm sorry when they get it.
 

BatmanNate

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On a related note, after I'd moved out of my apartment I was bringing back the last load of stuff to my new place, a load which consisted basically of the BBQ. It wasn't tied down because it was a pretty short trip, and I didn't bother emptying the ashes first either. Well, I'm cruising along at about 30 in a 25 zone and this riced out civic full of dickwad teenagers with blue fog lights pulls right up on my bumper. (there is no tailgate on that truck, just the net) We flipped the bird of warning and they refused to back off, so I put it in 2nd and dropped the clutch. Over tips the BBQ, and the civic is now ash grey instead of blue. So sad. I sure hope they hadn't done the all popular cold air intake ricer mod and forgone the filter, that would have been dually unfortunate. :)
 
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look, doing 56 in on a 55 one lane road is wrong, and UNFAIR! if you're the type of driver who does 56 in a 55 zone, you;re probably not going to do well with all this , slow down type stuff, just pull aside and let the driver pass.
 

XZeroII

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Originally posted by: tanzaniandevil
look, doing 56 in on a 55 one lane road is wrong, and UNFAIR! if you're the type of driver who does 56 in a 55 zone, you;re probably not going to do well with all this , slow down type stuff, just pull aside and let the driver pass.

Explain how it's unfair. 55 is a very generous limit on this road. I'm following the law, what's wrong with that? If you have somewhere to go in a hurry, you should have left earlier. If you can't plan ahead, then you suffer the consequences until you are late so many times that you actually learn to leave earlier.
 

mindless1

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Don't let tailgaters affect your driving or cause you to strap any extra crap to your vehicle (which BTW may get you into trouble if you did end up causing an accident with your rigged "equipment", or even being in an accident that was the other driver's fault).

If you're going too slow, impeding traffic, you need to speed up REGARDLESS of whether someone is tailgating. I do not mean till the tailgater is happy, backing off, but within REASONABLE limits. You should never need to exceed the speed limit by more than 5 MPH or enough to feel unsafe, and if that doesn't get the tailgater off your ass then just slow to the speed limit and stay there.... stay at a constant speed so the tailgater can then decide what they're going to do, whether it be backing off or planning when to pass based on your constant speed... causing (or being in) an accident one time out of 1000 is way too often.

If you're in the left lane and the right lane is open, you need to get in the right lane, the left lane is for PASSING ONLY. If you're stuck behind someone who shouldn't be in the left lane, flash your lights and/or honk, give them a few seconds then pass on the right, IF it is safe to do so. If traffic is hectic enough that you can't safely pass on the right you definitely shouldn't be tailgating.

If it's nightime and a tailgater is blinding you with their lights, you should slow down to a speed that is safe for YOU while being partially blinded... not faster or slower.

If you're in such a hurry to get to the (store or wherever) you ought to have your ass thrown in jail for a while to reflect on time-management... There have been plenty of BS hypotheticals posed for reasons to tailgate but we know that's not the typical reason. The typical reason is immaturity. If there is some life-or-death situation causing you to tailgate then you should have hazzard lights on, be flashing headlights and honking the horn like crazy... odds are that will get people out of your way, though if you do that of course you become more obvious to police so I wouldn't suggest doing so if it's not an emergency.

The bottom line is to act courteous and respectful on the road. Don't tailgate, thinking you'll MAKE someone change their driving style, and don't depart from an as-safe-as-possible a driving style to affect the actions of the tailgater... As-safe-as-possible means consistent speed appropriate for the road, NOT slowing down unless the tailgater is making your driving more difficult for (whatever reason). If they're following close enough to make you nervous then perhaps you SHOULD slow down a slight bit as you are not going to be as capable a driver while nervous as when calm.

This is coming from someone who usually exceeds the speed limit but does not tailgate, though I think there is a middle ground here, approaching a vehicle from behind but staying back a bit does let the driver in front know that they're somewhat 'in the way', but close enough to be a tailgater is just plain stupid because if you have a larger distance you can be accelerating towards that car when you do end up with a chance to pass them, making the passing easier.

If your life is so busy that you feel you need to speed up drivers that're already going the speed limit, to get to your destination quicker, I suggest you cut back on the caffeine and come to the realization that there is almost no difference in travel times resulting from tailgating... if you don't have a minute extra to get where you're going then you don't have time to post here at AT either. If you just have a need for speed, save your pennies and buy a game or two.

 

NeoPTLD

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Originally posted by: mindless1
Don't let tailgaters affect your driving or cause you to strap any extra crap to your vehicle (which BTW may get you into trouble if you did end up causing an accident with your rigged "equipment", or even being in an accident that was the other driver's fault).

I guess the good old hitch behind a Dodge RAM 3500 does the trick without being illegal.

My friend's dad have a RAM 3500 and he got rear-ended in a traffic jam soem time back. I can't exactly remember what was damaged on it, but the damage wasn't visible. The small pickup that ran into him lost a windshield and front end completely screwed. My friend says the guy was taken away in an ambulance.

A subcompact isn't going to be in a very happy shape if it runs into a full-size pick up with a trailer hitch.






 

ucdbiendog

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Well here's the deal with slamming on your breaks (if this is a repeat, i appologize, i dont have time to read 5 pages:():
you have to find a REASON to slam on the breaks.. a dead animal, you think you saw a kid running out, but if you slam on the breaks for no reason, the accident is almost always your fault.
The best thing to do for tailgaters imho is to let off the accelerator til they back off some. Then speed back up. If its a situation where they can pass you, i do the same, but when they go to pass me, i accelerate my balls off so they cant.

The brick is a good idea
The wiper fluid is also solid. (i actually did this once on accident and when the guy passed me up he waved to me=/)
 

NeoPTLD

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Originally posted by: ucdbiendog
Well here's the deal with slamming on your breaks (if this is a repeat, i appologize, i dont have time to read 5 pages:():
you have to find a REASON to slam on the breaks.. a dead animal, you think you saw a kid running out, but if you slam on the breaks for no reason, the accident is almost always your fault.
The best thing to do for tailgaters imho is to let off the accelerator til they back off some. Then speed back up. If its a situation where they can pass you, i do the same, but when they go to pass me, i accelerate my balls off so they cant.

The brick is a good idea
The wiper fluid is also solid. (i actually did this once on accident and when the guy passed me up he waved to me=/)

How is that any better than slamming on your brake for no reason? Deliberately preventing someone from passing by acceleration is indeed causing an accident.

 

Ultima

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Originally posted by: ucdbiendog
Well here's the deal with slamming on your breaks (if this is a repeat, i appologize, i dont have time to read 5 pages:():
you have to find a REASON to slam on the breaks.. a dead animal, you think you saw a kid running out, but if you slam on the breaks for no reason, the accident is almost always your fault.
The best thing to do for tailgaters imho is to let off the accelerator til they back off some. Then speed back up. If its a situation where they can pass you, i do the same, but when they go to pass me, i accelerate my balls off so they cant.

The brick is a good idea
The wiper fluid is also solid. (i actually did this once on accident and when the guy passed me up he waved to me=/)

This is even dumber than the slamming on the brakes. WHY do you want to prevent them from passing you? Do you get some sort of sick satisfaction from keeping them behind you?
 

ucdbiendog

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Originally posted by: Ultima
Originally posted by: ucdbiendog
Well here's the deal with slamming on your breaks (if this is a repeat, i appologize, i dont have time to read 5 pages:():
you have to find a REASON to slam on the breaks.. a dead animal, you think you saw a kid running out, but if you slam on the breaks for no reason, the accident is almost always your fault.
The best thing to do for tailgaters imho is to let off the accelerator til they back off some. Then speed back up. If its a situation where they can pass you, i do the same, but when they go to pass me, i accelerate my balls off so they cant.

The brick is a good idea
The wiper fluid is also solid. (i actually did this once on accident and when the guy passed me up he waved to me=/)

This is even dumber than the slamming on the brakes. WHY do you want to prevent them from passing you? Do you get some sort of sick satisfaction from keeping them behind you?

i wouldn't call it "sick". I am returning their favor of being a complete A$$HOLE. Yah, i can be a real dick on the road. The funny part is, it ends up pissing THEM off, and when they finally do get by me I am the one laughing.
 

mindless1

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Originally posted by: ucdbiendog
i wouldn't call it "sick". I am returning their favor of being a complete A$$HOLE. Yah, i can be a real dick on the road. The funny part is, it ends up pissing THEM off, and when they finally do get by me I am the one laughing.
Or when you slam on the breaks they hit you and cause hundreds to thousands in damage so you're without your car for however long it takes to fix (probably a half-a$$ed repair too from the bodywork I've seen on friend's cars recently) or it results in either one of you or an innocent passerby getting hurt, or once s/he gets by you and sees you laughing, they slam on the breaks and throw THEIR brick out. Most people are not expecting to get hurt in a car accident until it happens, are pretty confident and then BOOM. I'm not trying to put you down here, it could easily be you getting hurt, and if not in an accident, then some punk kid with a gun.... it happens.

People will irritate you/me/everyone, it's a fact of life. Whether you realize it or not there's a pretty good chance you also irritate someone without even knowing it, though through their mercy and thick skin it goes unmentioned, good will on their part... there is no real justice, no point trying to force it on the road, and you can't teach someone who isn't willing to learn.
 

alkemyst

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Originally posted by: NeoPTLD
Originally posted by: ucdbiendog
Well here's the deal with slamming on your breaks (if this is a repeat, i appologize, i dont have time to read 5 pages:():
you have to find a REASON to slam on the breaks.. a dead animal, you think you saw a kid running out, but if you slam on the breaks for no reason, the accident is almost always your fault.
The best thing to do for tailgaters imho is to let off the accelerator til they back off some. Then speed back up. If its a situation where they can pass you, i do the same, but when they go to pass me, i accelerate my balls off so they cant.

The brick is a good idea
The wiper fluid is also solid. (i actually did this once on accident and when the guy passed me up he waved to me=/)

How is that any better than slamming on your brake for no reason? Deliberately preventing someone from passing by acceleration is indeed causing an accident.

I vote tool.....

I have never ever ever heard of anyone being at fault for hitting their brakes, even with nothing in the road. Maybe the law is different elsewhere, but I'd be hard-pressed to believe that. Should everyone be second-guessing if there is indeed a kid or dog in the road or perhaps it was just a shadow after all....let me think is it a shadow and if I hit my brakes I will be at fault or it it's a kid and I hit them I will be ...SPLAT! .... oops!

Doesn't make sense your conclusion....if you follow a safe distance you should never ever ever hit someone else unless you are at fault, even if they run into a fixed object and stop dead instantly.

I think you are the guy on the road that's always pissed off, yet thinks you get everyone else in a bunch.

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Ultima

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Originally posted by: alkemyst
Originally posted by: NeoPTLD
Originally posted by: ucdbiendog
Well here's the deal with slamming on your breaks (if this is a repeat, i appologize, i dont have time to read 5 pages:():
you have to find a REASON to slam on the breaks.. a dead animal, you think you saw a kid running out, but if you slam on the breaks for no reason, the accident is almost always your fault.
The best thing to do for tailgaters imho is to let off the accelerator til they back off some. Then speed back up. If its a situation where they can pass you, i do the same, but when they go to pass me, i accelerate my balls off so they cant.

The brick is a good idea
The wiper fluid is also solid. (i actually did this once on accident and when the guy passed me up he waved to me=/)

How is that any better than slamming on your brake for no reason? Deliberately preventing someone from passing by acceleration is indeed causing an accident.

I vote tool.....

I have never ever ever heard of anyone being at fault for hitting their brakes, even with nothing in the road. Maybe the law is different elsewhere, but I'd be hard-pressed to believe that. Should everyone be second-guessing if there is indeed a kid or dog in the road or perhaps it was just a shadow after all....let me think is it a shadow and if I hit my brakes I will be at fault or it it's a kid and I hit them I will be ...SPLAT! .... oops!

Doesn't make sense your conclusion....if you follow a safe distance you should never ever ever hit someone else unless you are at fault, even if they run into a fixed object and stop dead instantly.

I think you are the guy on the road that's always pissed off, yet thinks you get everyone else in a bunch.

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Uh, if a car stops dead instantly you're going to hit them no matter what if you don't swerve, unless you were a good 25 car lengths (maybe more!) behind them. Stopping distance is LONG at highway speeds.

BTW, maybe the insurance wouldn't consider you at fault for braking but around here the police may give you a ticket, and they would DEFINATELY give you a ticket if an accident was caused by preventing someone from passing. Neither the police nor insurance would be on your side.

A coworker of mine was involved in a very minor sideswipe accident.. he was merging on to the highway and the guy on the highway didn't let him in. It was already too late for him to slam on the brakes because of traffic and he was forced to merge because of the lack of shoulder, so he ended up sideswiping the guy. Because of the relative sideways speeds there was practically no damage. The police came and said it was the highway guy's fault because he didn't let him merge.

 

Homerboy

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Originally posted by: virtueixi
Really, is your car disabled or something? If you do this in the left lane someone should use a real laser and kill you.

Read his post(s) moron. Its a single lane highway.