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NaOH

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Yeah, that confidence thing seems to be a tough one for a lot of people. Some of my friends act like such retards when they are falling for a girl. Sigh...all leaving notes on her desk at the university library like we are back in middle school. =X
 

ngvepforever2

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Oct 19, 2003
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Originally posted by: Airsofter
The reason these techinques don't work so well on average girls is because they are not used to being hit on by guys every minute. If I start joking around and teasing them, they'll probably think I am really making fun of them. That is why the higher up the scale you go, the less compliments you give them. If you tell a girl that is a 6 or 7 that she is hot, she'll be flattered. The knockouts will just be disgusted though.

You can't argue with results. They are working for me. I am a junior in high school btw and I don't play on the football team. I gave my older brother some tips and the calls are pouring in for him. I don't think girls are plotting against me at all. You basically just have to show that you aren't intimidated.

Oh, you should retract your statement, "the 'just cute' girls are intelligent beings" My current gf is in my AP calculus actually. Are you trying to say that hot girls can't be smart. When I rate a girl, I give 6 for looks and 4 for personality.

I admit that the post comes off as cocky as can be, but that is how confident you have to be. If you look at a girl and think she is too good for you, then you have no shot. You'll probably be lucky to be her friend that hopes he'll get with her someday.

You are in HS....:disgust:...WTF do you know about girls buddy? ...btw just taking a calculus class doesn't qualify you as intelligent, especially in hs.
Also, WTF is it with HS kids and their ratings, "I give her a 6 or a 6.5"... hopefully you don't talk like that in the real world because it is idiotic, really. Now go back to do your hw.

Regards

ng
 

jlbenedict

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Originally posted by: Airsofter
What, I am not in middle school. I am 17 actually and probably have more experience than most guys on here. But Amdualy, you summed it up pretty nice. I knew there would be some haters on here, so I was reluctant to post it. I guess ATOTers really love those YAGT threads.

I wouldn't consider myself an expert yet, but I made a lot of progress. I was just sharing the tips that seemed to work for me. I am glad to have figured out some of this stuff while I am still young.

:thumbsdown:
 

NaOH

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Originally posted by: ngvepforever2
Originally posted by: Airsofter
The reason these techinques don't work so well on average girls is because they are not used to being hit on by guys every minute. If I start joking around and teasing them, they'll probably think I am really making fun of them. That is why the higher up the scale you go, the less compliments you give them. If you tell a girl that is a 6 or 7 that she is hot, she'll be flattered. The knockouts will just be disgusted though.

You can't argue with results. They are working for me. I am a junior in high school btw and I don't play on the football team. I gave my older brother some tips and the calls are pouring in for him. I don't think girls are plotting against me at all. You basically just have to show that you aren't intimidated.

Oh, you should retract your statement, "the 'just cute' girls are intelligent beings" My current gf is in my AP calculus actually. Are you trying to say that hot girls can't be smart. When I rate a girl, I give 6 for looks and 4 for personality.

I admit that the post comes off as cocky as can be, but that is how confident you have to be. If you look at a girl and think she is too good for you, then you have no shot. You'll probably be lucky to be her friend that hopes he'll get with her someday.

You are in HS....:disgust:...WTF do you know about girls buddy? ...btw just taking a calculus class doesn't qualify you as intelligent, especially is hs.
Also, WTF is it with HS kids and their ratings, "I give her a 6 or a 6.5"... hopefully you don't talk like that in the real world because it is idiotic, really. Now go back to do your hw.

Regards

ng


I think what he is trying to say that not all 8-10 girls are idiots who drop out or something. Calculus is still a pretty tough class when you are a junior, especially when you have other work loads. Also, I've never seen the number system used so much by one person...I just go by, hot, cute, pretty, or ugly and the traditional HELLA UGLY.

We used to refer to my ex-roommates GF as the troll. LOL
 

ondarkness

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Originally posted by: ngvepforever2
...I hope you know that it's the cute ones with brains that are the most difficult to get (though the effort is worth it). I 've used many of the supposedly "techniques" you posted and although they do work most of the time, they make you feel like a jerk in the end.


Regards

ng

lol, it's funny bcuz its true
 

GuitarDaddy

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Nov 9, 2004
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Gotta love all the teenage love doctors around here:)


Now if you would write a masturbation manual that might be useful
 

neovan

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Here are the cliffnotes:

SPEAK UP!!! You won't land a girl if you don't talk!
 

DivideBYZero

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Originally posted by: Airsofter
What, I am not in middle school. I am 17 actually and probably have more experience than most guys on here. But Amdualy, you summed it up pretty nice. I knew there would be some haters on here, so I was reluctant to post it. I guess ATOTers really love those YAGT threads.

I wouldn't consider myself an expert yet, but I made a lot of progress. I was just sharing the tips that seemed to work for me. I am glad to have figured out some of this stuff while I am still young.

LMFAO! Just STFU now! HAahahahahahaha. Actually, please go on! :D
 

GuitarDaddy

Lifer
Nov 9, 2004
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Originally posted by: MisterJackson
I'm 29 and it took me until now to learn most of that. Look guys, don't dismiss this stuff, because he does make some excellent points. The whole "ask her along, not ask her out" thing, or the "So what's your week look like" question beforehand are really productive ideas if you use them right.

You haven't truly mastered the art of "picking up women" until you don't NEED to "pick up women". In essence you should reach a zen like enlightenment where they will come to you if you just be yourself. Being comfortable with who you are is key. Women can sense insecurity like Rossman can sniff out a hot deal.

remember, there is no spoon.


:thumbsup: I loved it, especially the zen part where the women mysteriously come to you. Reminds me of a B&B episode "Come to Butthead"
 

NaOH

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Next someone will make a "How to have Sex Guide". Which will include tips on how to sneak in a donkey punch.
 

ngvepforever2

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Originally posted by: AMDUALY
Originally posted by: ngvepforever2
Originally posted by: Airsofter
The reason these techinques don't work so well on average girls is because they are not used to being hit on by guys every minute. If I start joking around and teasing them, they'll probably think I am really making fun of them. That is why the higher up the scale you go, the less compliments you give them. If you tell a girl that is a 6 or 7 that she is hot, she'll be flattered. The knockouts will just be disgusted though.

You can't argue with results. They are working for me. I am a junior in high school btw and I don't play on the football team. I gave my older brother some tips and the calls are pouring in for him. I don't think girls are plotting against me at all. You basically just have to show that you aren't intimidated.

Oh, you should retract your statement, "the 'just cute' girls are intelligent beings" My current gf is in my AP calculus actually. Are you trying to say that hot girls can't be smart. When I rate a girl, I give 6 for looks and 4 for personality.

I admit that the post comes off as cocky as can be, but that is how confident you have to be. If you look at a girl and think she is too good for you, then you have no shot. You'll probably be lucky to be her friend that hopes he'll get with her someday.

You are in HS....:disgust:...WTF do you know about girls buddy? ...btw just taking a calculus class doesn't qualify you as intelligent, especially is hs.
Also, WTF is it with HS kids and their ratings, "I give her a 6 or a 6.5"... hopefully you don't talk like that in the real world because it is idiotic, really. Now go back to do your hw.

Regards

ng


I think what he is trying to say that not all 8-10 girls are idiots who drop out or something. Calculus is still a pretty tough class when you are a junior, especially when you have other work loads. Also, I've never seen the number system used so much by one person...I just go by, hot, cute, pretty, or ugly and the traditional HELLA UGLY.

We used to refer to my ex-roommates GF as the troll. LOL

Intelligence is not measured only from book smarts, hell most book smart kids in hs are still lost in their own little world. I know this for a fact, and I am a CS Major and I also took a bunch of AP classes in hs. When I said cute and intelligent, I meant a person that I can actually carry a conversation without getting bored to death, somebody that can match my wits. Any girl that falls for the "techniques" the OP posted does not fall into that category. Why? because those techniques make you a jerk. In my book any girl that 'd fall for jerk is not intelligent by default. It is true that you have to be confident to get girl, that's a given.I stated before most of the "techniques" do work but you won't get nothing more than the "hs kid relationship", most of the people look for something more than that.
Regarding the ratings, there was another thread with another hs kid that also used ratings, I posted how annoying it was and I will do it every time another dumb high schooler does it again.

Regards

ng
 

ngvepforever2

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Originally posted by: AMDUALY
Next someone will make a "How to have Sex Guide". Which will include tips on how to sneak in a donkey punch.

just wait till the OP gets to college :laugh:

Regards

ng
 

Airsofter

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Originally posted by: neovan
Here are the cliffnotes:

SPEAK UP!!! You won't land a girl if you don't talk!

I agree that you need to talk to them if you want any shot, but it is not the end all solution. In my school, the popular guys are the ones that aren't afraid of chatting with them. They think they are playing it cool, but really the girls are just using them as an emotional tampon. The "just friends" category is almost as bad not talking to them in the first place.

Back to ng, from my experience the average looking girls are even more boring to talk to. All I ever get out of them are one word answers. And, I am not saying to act like a jerk at all. Just treat the girl like she is your friend not like you are trying to score with her.

I do have a serious problem with those ratings. Whenever I type about a girl, I have to assign her a number. Its not like I go around talking like that in real life though. "Hey 8.4, do you know if 9.12 has a bf? Cuz, I'll ask 9.008 if she does."
 

thehstrybean

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I think I just busted my gutt laughing. I've never had a girlfriend, which is fine with me, but I've tried this stuff and...yeah, all it did was get sluts. No way. No intelligent woman would go for this, believe me.
 

gigapet

Lifer
Aug 9, 2001
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Originally posted by: Airsofter
Originally posted by: neovan
Here are the cliffnotes:

SPEAK UP!!! You won't land a girl if you don't talk!

I agree that you need to talk to them if you want any shot, but it is not the end all solution. In my school, the popular guys are the ones that aren't afraid of chatting with them. They think they are playing it cool, but really the girls are just using them as an emotional tampon. The "just friends" category is almost as bad not talking to them in the first place.

Cliffs Notes: goto http://www.fastseduction.com and Read the F**kin manual
 

gigapet

Lifer
Aug 9, 2001
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Originally posted by: thehstrybean
I think I just busted my gutt laughing. I've never had a girlfriend, which is fine with me, but I've tried this stuff and...yeah, all it did was get sluts. No way. No intelligent woman would go for this, believe me.

no one is going to believe you.....
.


you didnt try anything that involved leaving your parents basement.
 

NaOH

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Mar 2, 2006
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Originally posted by: ngvepforever2
Originally posted by: AMDUALY
Originally posted by: ngvepforever2
Originally posted by: Airsofter
The reason these techinques don't work so well on average girls is because they are not used to being hit on by guys every minute. If I start joking around and teasing them, they'll probably think I am really making fun of them. That is why the higher up the scale you go, the less compliments you give them. If you tell a girl that is a 6 or 7 that she is hot, she'll be flattered. The knockouts will just be disgusted though.

You can't argue with results. They are working for me. I am a junior in high school btw and I don't play on the football team. I gave my older brother some tips and the calls are pouring in for him. I don't think girls are plotting against me at all. You basically just have to show that you aren't intimidated.

Oh, you should retract your statement, "the 'just cute' girls are intelligent beings" My current gf is in my AP calculus actually. Are you trying to say that hot girls can't be smart. When I rate a girl, I give 6 for looks and 4 for personality.

I admit that the post comes off as cocky as can be, but that is how confident you have to be. If you look at a girl and think she is too good for you, then you have no shot. You'll probably be lucky to be her friend that hopes he'll get with her someday.

You are in HS....:disgust:...WTF do you know about girls buddy? ...btw just taking a calculus class doesn't qualify you as intelligent, especially is hs.
Also, WTF is it with HS kids and their ratings, "I give her a 6 or a 6.5"... hopefully you don't talk like that in the real world because it is idiotic, really. Now go back to do your hw.

Regards

ng


I think what he is trying to say that not all 8-10 girls are idiots who drop out or something. Calculus is still a pretty tough class when you are a junior, especially when you have other work loads. Also, I've never seen the number system used so much by one person...I just go by, hot, cute, pretty, or ugly and the traditional HELLA UGLY.

We used to refer to my ex-roommates GF as the troll. LOL

Intelligence is not measured only from book smarts, hell most book smart kids in hs are still lost in their own little world. I know this for a fact, and I am a CS Major and I also took a bunch of AP classes in hs. When I said cute and intelligent, I meant a person that I can actually carry a conversation without getting bored to death, somebody that can match my wits. Any girl that falls for the "techniques" the OP posted does not fall into that category. Why? because those techniques make you a jerk. In my book any girl that 'd fall for jerk is not intelligent by default. It is true that you have to be confident to get girl, that's a given.I stated before most of the "techniques" do work but you won't get nothing more than the "hs kid relationship", most of the people look for something more than that.
Regarding the ratings, there was another thread with another hs kid that also used ratings, I posted how annoying it was and I will do it every time another dumb high schooler does it again.

Regards

ng

True, that is a good point. But I do think some of his points are valid about having your own life. Girls dig guys who have a good self esteem and have their own things going for them besides sitting at home and jacking off.
 

ngvepforever2

Golden Member
Oct 19, 2003
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Originally posted by: Airsofter
Originally posted by: neovan
Here are the cliffnotes:

SPEAK UP!!! You won't land a girl if you don't talk!

I agree that you need to talk to them if you want any shot, but it is not the end all solution. In my school, the popular guys are the ones that aren't afraid of chatting with them. They think they are playing it cool, but really the girls are just using them as an emotional tampon. The "just friends" category is almost as bad not talking to them in the first place.

Back to ng, from my experience . the average looking girls are even more boring to talk toAll I ever get out of them are one word answers. And, I am not saying to act like a jerk at all. Just treat the girl like she is your friend not like you are trying to score with her.

I do have a serious problem with those ratings. Whenever I type about a girl, I have to assign her a number. Its not like I go around talking like that in real life though. "Hey 8.4, do you know if 9.12 has a bf? Cuz, I'll ask 9.008 if she does."

Well, you need more experience then.

Regards

ng