You know, I was reading through my op and some of the replies. I think I may have given off the wrong message to some people. You don't want to act phony around a girl. A real alpha male doesn't need to brag about himself or talk real loud. Nor do you have to put the girl down. It's a hard concept to explain, but I'll try in this post.
Many people say the best advice is to just be yourself. Depending on how you interpret it, it can be the best advice or the worst advice. Most people will assume that it means to act how you normally do around girls. However, obviously this isn't very successful for most people and there are plenty of guys to back that up.
The reason for this is because they normally act phony around girls. They are not really acting themselves when they compliment every little thing they do, agree with them about everything, and go over their house to watch Desperate Housewives. You have to act the way you normally do around friends.
Far too often I see guys try to act funny and playful around girls, but make jacka$$es of themselves. When you are telling a joke, don't laugh as soon as you are done telling it. When you are teasing her, don't smile and say you were kidding right after. This just shows her that you are pu$$y. Don't be her emotional tampon and listen to all her drama when she starts talking about her friends.
Now, the only problem with this is she might put you into the friend's category. So, you have to let her know you are interested. It's pretty simple really. Touching works extremely well. Don't be afraid to play with her hair or even go in for a kiss on the first meeting. You know you want to. You just have to be fearless and not give a fvck.
Of course you will probably pick up most girls if you practice the techniques in the thread, but don't make them a priority. Just use them as little confidence boosters and start talking to whatever girl you want. Being confident sounds easy, but most guys just think they are confident. I mean it usually works, but real confidence in yourself will get you a lot further and help you in every aspect of life.
If you have seen Wedding Crashers, you know what I mean. Will Ferrel got with tons of hot girls, but he is such a loser in the movie. Take away the women and he has nothing. If I had to classify my personality, it would be a cross between Bobby Abreu and Tom Cruise. Those are some real alphas. Abreu had this blazing hot fiance who cheated on him on live tv in a reality show. He just dropped her, acted indifferent, and took out his anger on the field where he had the best season of his career. If you have seen Cruise's escapades on Oprah and such, you will know that he couldn't care less what people think.
You would not believe how far a little confidence goes. Just walk up to a girl and be fearless. You can't be intimidated by her. Hot girls are a dime a dozen at my school and the beach, don't put them on a pedastol. Just because they read Seventeen while you were out playing with the guys when you were younger doesn't mean that you have to be manipulated by them.
Believe, girls will go crazy over you once they see that their stuff doesn't work on you. A player captures a woman's body and seduces her. I capture a woman's heart and let her seduce me.
Hopefully, I got the point across. Maybe I'll clean up the op and add this info. It really is priceless. I am thinking of taking a video of myself in action to give you some ideas. A picture is worth a thousand words but a video is worth a million words.