alkemyst
No Lifer
- Feb 13, 2001
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1.5 hours away is the wrong move for a 1st g/f....you also say you don't plan on jumping into a serious realtionship...yet haven't had a g/f yet?!?!
Is she a regular dater? If so you may bore her anyway....although some women love virgins.
You say ICQ for a long time, does she contact you or is it you long on and wait 30 mins then IM her or she logs on and you wait wait wait then IM her...I have had a lot of that and those girls telling others they are my G/F.
I say as a freshman in college go to many 18 and under clubs and date 'girls'...not trying to be offensive but by freshman college most girl are women and despite what 'you see/hear' are semi to very sexually active.
There was one girl in my comp sci classes this guy lusted after, she was all 'la petit' and all claiming no time, busy, etc to him....turns out she was living with a 40 year old guy and they ended up leaving for Paris or some otherworld. So we knew exactly why she was 'busy'....
Good luck with dating.....however you are starting late and that's hard. My advice is to mess around and date younger chicks (16-18) and get a feel for how it works first.
A woman does want a nice guy, but also a bad boy too at the same time. Nice guys don't finish last, only push overs and 'kids' do. Keep her happy in bed and respected and on her toes in public and she will keep coming back....boar her in bed and disrespect her or be a push over in public and you will wonder when she is coming home.
also don't try and start dating a woman 1.5 hours away...it's not going to work out really....if you had history and stuff then yeah, but not starting off....you want a woman within 15 mins or less at most 30 mins.
As you date more and more you reach a point when you look back and understand it all.
Is she a regular dater? If so you may bore her anyway....although some women love virgins.
You say ICQ for a long time, does she contact you or is it you long on and wait 30 mins then IM her or she logs on and you wait wait wait then IM her...I have had a lot of that and those girls telling others they are my G/F.
I say as a freshman in college go to many 18 and under clubs and date 'girls'...not trying to be offensive but by freshman college most girl are women and despite what 'you see/hear' are semi to very sexually active.
There was one girl in my comp sci classes this guy lusted after, she was all 'la petit' and all claiming no time, busy, etc to him....turns out she was living with a 40 year old guy and they ended up leaving for Paris or some otherworld. So we knew exactly why she was 'busy'....
Good luck with dating.....however you are starting late and that's hard. My advice is to mess around and date younger chicks (16-18) and get a feel for how it works first.
A woman does want a nice guy, but also a bad boy too at the same time. Nice guys don't finish last, only push overs and 'kids' do. Keep her happy in bed and respected and on her toes in public and she will keep coming back....boar her in bed and disrespect her or be a push over in public and you will wonder when she is coming home.
also don't try and start dating a woman 1.5 hours away...it's not going to work out really....if you had history and stuff then yeah, but not starting off....you want a woman within 15 mins or less at most 30 mins.
As you date more and more you reach a point when you look back and understand it all.
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