asian wedding w/ 220-ish ppl, 10 years ago, $29k, made back $21k in gift money.
And since I have it handy:
Favors $200.00
Wedding Cake $440.00
Florist $240.00
Rings $540.00
Stamps $55.00
Invitations $399.00
Ceremony Priest $300.00
Ceremony Musician $225.00
Wedding Dress $662.61
DJ $1,130.00
Sheraton $18,544.18 (reception)
Fox Hollow $1,000.00 (ceremony)
Eternal Wedding $4,500.00 (limo, photo/video guys, tux/bridesmaid dresses, flowers, wedding albums)
Bridal Shoes $115.00
Dance Lessons $230.00
Tips $370.00
Marriage License $40.00
Ring Pillow/Baskets $85.00
Vases $16.00
Planting Fields (pics venue) $120.00
TOTAL $29,211.79
My wife's brother is getting married and looked into the same venue. Instead of $500/table, they now charge $1k minimum.