Bignate603
Lifer
- Sep 5, 2000
- 13,897
- 1
- 0
Well, someone with a wife and kids could always say the same thing about you.... Living on your own isn't always to the benefit of everyone excluding one's self. You are right to an extent but your last post made it seem like the money the kid had wasn't even theirs at all which is why I was so appalled at it.
I have a wife, no kids yet but my wife doesn't work (she's doing grad school right now). So what exactly is your point? I still pay all our bills. I chose to get married and chose to take on all the responsibilities that went with that, financial or otherwise. Out on my own I'm free to control how I live my life and need to fully support the choices I make. If I chose to get married, have kids, buy a house, a car, or any other thing that affects me financially it's completely within my control. Any other adult on their own is in the same boat. They can chose what they want to do with their lives and need to pay (literally) for their choices.
While it's commendable that a kid goes out and gets a job to save up some cash it's still no where near comparable to someone supporting themselves. They can chose to save up for years without paying a dime for anything because they have no expenses when mommy and daddy cover all the necessities.
And no, legally the money that a teenager earns is not their own. While they are a minor their parents can control their finances. Most parents chose to let kids keep what they earn but they don't have to. I had friends in highschool that had to help support their families. A few hundred bucks a month from a minimum wage job helped pay their family's rent, food or any of the other expenses.
