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How many really really good friends do you have?

moshquerade

No Lifer
Nov 1, 2001
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And by really really good I mean friends that have seen you at your best and at your worst and still want to hang out with you. Friends that allow you to be yourself around them totally, and not have to pretend to be someone you aren't just to please them.

How many friends can you say fall into this category?
 

Blackjack200

Lifer
May 28, 2007
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2, and I don't live near either of them. I also have my brother who I have that level of comfort with, but I don't live near him either. :(
 

nageov3t

Lifer
Feb 18, 2004
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I'd say 4... 2 friends from high school and 2 friends from college. there used to be a 5th, but he dropped me like a bad habit after he got married.
 

meltdown75

Lifer
Nov 17, 2004
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a couple chicks, a few guys.

that said, i don't put on a front for anyone. except work people cuz i sorta have to.

edit: also i just wanted to say that i do consider some forum buddies to be real life friends even though i haven't met them - recently i was a f*cking asshole and deleted them all from facebook and stuff. i'm sorry :(
 

Platypus

Lifer
Apr 26, 2001
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There are definitely two types of friends in my opinion. One group consists of social acquaintances who you might meet up with regularly and have some drinks or get dinner. You share similar interests and most of the times they wont go too far out of their way to help you with anything or 'be there' if you need them. That group is about 99%

The other 1% are the people who would gladly give up their comfort or safety to help you and vice versa. They become family. These people are truly hard to come by no matter who you are.

That said, I have 2 friends like that.
 

Scouzer

Lifer
Jun 3, 2001
10,358
5
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My girlfriend and one or two guy friends. For a long time it was the GF only... only rediscovered some friends recently.