If you are being serious then you seriously don't understand what I am saying. For example, what is wrong with saying I understand how people can be offended by certain words or phrases?
There's nothing wrong with saying that you understand how people can get offended by certain words or phrases. I haven't noticed anyone here disagreeing with that notion. I also understand that that happens. That's not
all you're saying though. You're actively supporting the suppression of such words, merely because
some people get offended by them, as if being offended is some catastrophic violation of human rights.
For example, what you say here:
Ghettos don't need to be acknowledged as ghettos, they can be referred to as poor neighborhoods...
I suppose you'll claim that the above quote is not you advocating the avoidance of the term ghetto because
some people find it offensive?
You are just don't want to deal with the baggage that comes with using certain words. Sorry, this is reality, and we have just as much a right to criticize you as you do to use those words.
Again, you want to criticize others for using words that
you or
some people find offensive. Your focus, again, is on the fact that
some people find it offensive, therefore anyone who uses those words should expect incoming (and justified) criticism.
Ghetto has been used in the past to mean black neighborhoods. Sorry, that means that the word ghetto has the potential to be used pejoratively. If it can be used pejoratively, then someone can assume you are using it pejoratively even if you aren't or think you aren't. Again, deal with it.
And one more time for good measure, you're not merely pointing out that you "understand how people can be offended by certain words or phrases", you're implying it's wrong, and because
some people
may be offended, those words shouldn't be used.