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ThePresence said:
That's what you think. Wait until you have a good-looking woman willing to... make you feel good. All your careful reasoning will go out the window in an eyeblink.
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Good looking women scream and/or run when they see me. The ones that don't run either have more facial hair than me or aren't capable of running due to obesity or other serious health issues. That and I don't/can't talk to people so my chances of hooking up with an atractive female are practically zero.
 
EliteRetard said:
Good looking women scream and/or run when they see me. The ones that don't run either have more facial hair than me or aren't capable of running due to obesity or other serious health issues. That and I don't/can't talk to people so my chances of hooking up with an atractive female are practically zero.
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Don't know you, but I'm reasonably certain there are many worse looking people than you with decent chicks. What you lack is self-confidence, nothing more. Probably.
 
SaDiZTiKStyLeZ said:
I've been going to Chicago a lot over the past year meeting new people and such, only got dead-ends when it came to romance stuff. Suburbs are rather uneventful to find stuff to do, so trying to date locally hasn't really gone anywhere.
Since I've been single, I generally have to deal with rejection every 6 months. I suppose it does take me that long to mend my broken ego & self-esteem enough to go out of my way looking for something.
Last year between finding out my ex got married, then realized how close it was to the 2 year mark I went into panic mode & ended up in the hospital.
With the whole hospital, jail & homeless then spending this year just recovering from it all, haven't really been able to put any focus into much of anything outside of work.
I don't drink often any more, let alone go to bars.
However, I am thinking offering to be designated driver for some pretty females may go over well. Maybe. I'd hope.
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The bolded is the root of your problem. It would be REALLY EASY to have a three year dry spell if you're only going after one woman every six months. You really need to get over your fear of being turned down. Chances are if you went around a busy bar asking every attractive woman to have sex with you, chances are by the end of the evening you'd be getting some. Your problem is not your lack of attractiveness but your fear of being turned down.

This was posted in an L&R thread a while ago, but try out something like the 30-day rejection challenge. Make people turn you down. Get used to the feeling, and make yourself realize that being turned down is actually a success, because it means that you took action.
 
I just browsed the NYC area and nearly vomited. I hope for your sake that the hookers in your neighborhood are far better looking.
 
I found some female I had friended on MySpace many years ago. But we never spoke. Kinda crushed on her back then.
I sent her a text to see about something in the future. :hmm:

I had actually found this site from a tranny I found off Craigslist.
Their ad didn't have anything about "being generous" or paying for sex. When they asked about getting paid I'm like, alright, this doesn't sound right & proceeded to end the call.
Googled their number & found it on that backpage site.

W4M is dead on CL, pretty much. I'm so desperate for some, yea, I might get better luck fucking a dude.

I've been trying to be sly & fuck my ugly fat pregnant friend, but she hasn't been wanting to do shit past few weeks. Lame.
I think she's caught onto me though.
 
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What are the odds of the person showing up actually being the person in the photos on there? I swear some listed in my city look like they stole the pics of a hot porn stars website.

Some others I clicked on though... D:
 
That's a shame to hear you guys are down on your luck, and down on yourselves. Not that I doubt you have any reason to feel that way. Go to the L&R forum and get some advice and work on meeting people. I didn't talk to people here but I spent a few years getting good at talking girls up and I don't fear rejection anymore.

I'd say it boils down to a few things. Take care of your hygiene, practice talking to people at bars or wherever you like, men and women, spend some money now and then on good clothes, and never be afraid to walk away. You're not a commodity.
 
Browsing the Detroit section now..
What an epic fail...
Majority of these wemens should be paying me like thousands for consideration...
WTF? Whores in Detroit must be starving...
 
ThePresence said:
Don't know you, but I'm reasonably certain there are many worse looking people than you with decent chicks. What you lack is self-confidence, nothing more. Probably.
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LuLz...nobody has more self confidence than me, I'm elite!

I saw the pity party going on here and thought it would be fun to crash in.

The main problem I think is that I actually have some ethics and morals, really gets in the way with todays society. And sex seems so extremely akward...Im not sure how I would react even if I did have the oportunity. Getting naked with somebody else and slaming yourselves together untill fluids are forced from your body...

Or maybe its because my standards are impossibly high, I'd want to find a female that also had some morals and ethics. One that hasn't taken advantage/abused her body or fucked around...probably needs to be a real virgin. Have a good personality, intelligence, and common sense. And we would have to be genuinely attracted to eachother in all aspects.

But thats creepy as hell, because esentially what Id want is a female version of myself...and thats just gay.

So I havn't had sex, and most likely never will. I just don't see it being possible.
But honestly whats the point? What do people really get out of sex? I don't understand it...

That brings up the real question, what the hell is the point of life? What do people really want? America seems be saying theyd be perfectly content poping into existence just to be wasted on drugs/alcohol and have something attractive jumping on their genitals for 60years and then pop out of existence. I have no idea what I really want, but I definately want something much better than that.

HA! I think I just figured it out!!! You all feel like its a waste spending those 60 years trying to figure out a real purpose, your affraid of failing or not getting anything done...so you just take the easy path...try to cloud your mind and get as much easy "pleasure" as you can.

Wow...

Well Im gonna go do a couple things right now.
 
I really haven't been in position to be dating anyway. At least women that are worth their dirt.
Unable to find employment. Figured post break-up would be short term. After losing all my friends when I quit doing drugs & then my girlfriend, I turned all my focus & attention to finishing school & attaining employment.
Finishing school wasn't shit, compared to getting steady employment, that at least pays for cost of resolving living situation.
Living at home with mom, homeless, or now currently with my grandma isn't really a good look, females prefer someone that has they own place, independent & such.
Shit. If had my own place to invite someone over, would be boost to self-esteem there. I see too many missed opportunities on that alone right there.
Not sure how to invite female to do something, but dodging that whole dilemma. Or go about getting them to invite me to their place. Although the whole going to Chicago for stuff already kind of implies they would be hosting. Directly stating something about getting a room seems like it'd put off some that I'm interested in.
Seems they usually catch onto my lame before it really goes anywhere though...
 
EliteRetard said:
Or maybe its because my standards are impossibly high.
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"Most your standards drop down a notch when loneliness drinks at the bar you set too high."

After my ex, I've found she set the bar for looking for someone that's too good for me.
She was from a wealthy & supportive family. Nice neighborhood, $700K home. All her family was well educated. Smoke & drug free. Other stuff am forgetting.
Where my family both parents had been drug users, mostly my dad. My mom was the crazy cat lady. Neither really gave a shit about me growing up, no guidance, didn't really start getting an idea of direction until all the trial & error when not having any idea of what fuck I was doing.
Not a situation I felt comfortable introducing anybody to, friends or other.
Ex-girlfriend put me down a lot for that, even though it was out of my control. I shrugged it off during our relationship, but it didn't really hit until we were over & I was alone.

I don't really know how I was lucky to score someone as good as her. Scared I'll never come across another opportunity like that again.
 
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ThePresence said:
Uhh, no. DO NOT go around a bar asking women to have sex with you.
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Why not? As long as you accept no as a valid answer there is nothing un-ethical about it, and it is actually likely to work, as opposed to what he has been doing.

EliteRetard said:
LuLz...nobody has more self confidence than me, I'm elite!
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<------------ Nope, still just Senior Member. You need to post a lot more to become Elite!

Or maybe its because my standards are impossibly high, I'd want to find a female that also had some morals and ethics. One that hasn't taken advantage/abused her body or fucked around...probably needs to be a real virgin. Have a good personality, intelligence, and common sense. And we would have to be genuinely attracted to eachother in all aspects.
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How old are you? Because if you are older then 20, it is impossible standards. You are looking for a woman that is all these great things, and has never had sex, but is willing to with you.

But thats creepy as hell, because esentially what Id want is a female version of myself...and thats just gay.
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It can't be gay if she is a woman. That is what all of us want.

So I havn't had sex, and most likely never will. I just don't see it being possible.
But honestly whats the point? What do people really get out of sex? I don't understand it...
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Sounds like you are asexual.

That brings up the real question, what the hell is the point of life? What do people really want? America seems be saying theyd be perfectly content poping into existence just to be wasted on drugs/alcohol and have something attractive jumping on their genitals for 60years and then pop out of existence. I have no idea what I really want, but I definately want something much better than that.
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Like what?
Build a building? It will just be torn down so someone else can build a bigger one.
Plant a tree? It will be cut down to make toilet paper.
Write the great American Novel? It will be made into a made for TV movie staring a talentless pop star.
Make music? It will just end up playing softly in an elevator being just slightly annoying.

Do great things because they make you happy, not because you are afraid how people are going to judge you.
 
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