how important to you is sex in a relationship?

[lavagirl669]

If sex is important to YOU but not so much to her now....it WILL become a problem later, no doubt.

Consider that before proceeding despite all her other wonderful qualities.

 

[Kadarin]

Originally posted by: Semidevil
so lets say you meet this wonderful chick, everything is good....has almost every physical, emotional, mental quality you want in a girl, and you want to marry her....

unfortunately, one thing that is not perfect is that her sex drive is lower then yours. she doesn't like you putting the moves so much on her....ofcourse, she is willing to bone you, but the thing is that, just not as often as you want....

will this be a major factor in whether or not you will be marrying this girl??

Yes, it would be a major factor: I would not marry her. Sexual compatibility is very important.

 

[troglodytis]

39.6

 

[blahblah99]

Originally posted by: Skoorb
If you ain't getting much now you'll get NONE when she doesn't "have to" give it to you, like when you're married. Cut and RUN TRUST ME.

OOOOOOOOOOHhhh the truth comes out!

Of course, the "wonderful" chick is done being a slut and now wants to find a guy to marry... only after she's done banging everyone but the OP.

 

[Siddhartha]

Originally posted by: Semidevil
so lets say you meet this wonderful chick, everything is good....has almost every physical, emotional, mental quality you want in a girl, and you want to marry her....

unfortunately, one thing that is not perfect is that her sex drive is lower then yours. she doesn't like you putting the moves so much on her....ofcourse, she is willing to bone you, but the thing is that, just not as often as you want....

will this be a major factor in whether or not you will be marrying this girl??

Are you taking the time needed to get her excited and to make sure she gets hers?

Her not wanting to have sex and you wanting it is a big problem now and will be a major problem after you are married.

Before you two get married, I recommend you talk to a therapist, you know someone who really knows what they are talking about, about this.

 

[mhillary]

It is important but not as important as love and understanding.

 

[Promethply]

Originally posted by: ribbon13
Having a bisexual polyamorous mindset with matching significant other == priceless.

Wow Ribbon, can't wait until you turn 35😛

 

[Mallow]

very important... I've dumped a girl b/c she said she was unable to orgasm before.

If she can't orgasm she definitely won't be as interested in sex as me and well... that's a long term problem.

 

[JulesMaximus]

Originally posted by: NightTrain

Originally posted by: kd2777

Coming from a happily married guy of almost six years and has kids, your drive will also slow.

Promises promises...married 16 years with two kids and haven't noticed a damn thing yet.

Married 12 years with one kid and I haven't noticed any decrease in sex drive either-if anything hers has increased.

I think the no sex after marriage thing is a myth perpetuated by guys with fat ugly wives. :laugh:

 

[spaceman]

im a once a weeker myself.
i dunno, sex is overrated.

 

[kami333]

Equally important as the other qualities you have listed.

 

[0roo0roo]

you might as well remain friends if you touching her practically disgusts her lol🙂

course theres always the marriage of convenience. you just want kids and the whole shebang...

 

[Fritzo]

Sex is like steak.

The first few times you have it, yumm yumm yumm!!!!! Then after having the same steak day after day for years, you get like "oh...steak again."

I gotta get some different seasonings 🙂