how important to you is sex in a relationship?

[Semidevil]

so lets say you meet this wonderful chick, everything is good....has almost every physical, emotional, mental quality you want in a girl, and you want to marry her....

unfortunately, one thing that is not perfect is that her sex drive is lower then yours. she doesn't like you putting the moves so much on her....ofcourse, she is willing to bone you, but the thing is that, just not as often as you want....

will this be a major factor in whether or not you will be marrying this girl??

 

[Baked]

No sex? Dump.

 

[dug777]

very important

but nowhere near as important as your first paragraph...

 

[isasir]

Well this depends on how much of a difference we're talking about. If I want it 5x/week, and she wants it 3x, then we're in an ok spot. If it's 5x vs. 1x/week, then there could be problems.

 

[Sluggo]

Maybe you are a lousy lay and she gets tired of putting on the big show.

 

[MidasKnight]

Originally posted by: dug777
very important

but nowhere near as important as your first paragraph...

agreed.

 

[Semidevil]

Originally posted by: isasir
Well this depends on how much of a difference we're talking about. If I want it 5x/week, and she wants it 3x, then we're in an ok spot. If it's 5x vs. 1x/week, then there could be problems.

um....dunno, take your sex drive, divide by 2, square root that value, and x 2

 

[hippy]

If you think sex is a relationship... you should think much harder.

 

[kd2777]

Since you said "marry her" I say not much.

Coming from a happily married guy of almost six years and has kids, your drive will also slow.

Work, Mortgage, appointments, the kids have things to do, and not to mention your "me" time. One of the last things you will be thinking about in a day - is getting your freak on. It still happens but those times are different when you get older.

kd

 

[Malak]

I've never had sex, so it's obviously not important to me in a relationship at all.

 

[thirdlegstump]

Sex is everything in a relationship. Without it, there is nothing but affection and companionship. I hate that crap.

 

[EGGO]

Originally posted by: dug777
very important

but nowhere near as important as your first paragraph...

I like I like.

 

[notfred]

Originally posted by: malak
I've never had sex, so it's obviously not important to me in a relationship at all.

I've never owned a house so obviously it doesn't matter to me at all :roll:.

 

[Mrvile]

Originally posted by: malak
I've never had sex, so it's obviously not important to me in a relationship at all.

Wait, and I thought I was the youngest ATOTer.

 

[Pacfanweb]

If you already think she won't give it up enough, get rid of her....it will only get worse after marriage.

 

[Promethply]

In my late teens to mid twenties -- extremely

late twenties to mid thirties -- somewhat

late thirties to late forties -- couldn't be bothered ... oops haven't got there yet

 

[Jfrag Teh Foul]

Originally posted by: dug777
very important

but nowhere near as important as your first paragraph...

Word.

 

[Koing]

I would go celibate for my gf until marriage...

Koing

 

[NightTrain]

Originally posted by: kd2777

Coming from a happily married guy of almost six years and has kids, your drive will also slow.

Promises promises...married 16 years with two kids and haven't noticed a damn thing yet.

 

[Argo]

On a scale from 1 to 10... about a 9.999999999999999999999999...

 

[Accipiter22]

Originally posted by: Sluggo
Maybe you are a lousy lay and she gets tired of putting on the big show.

pwned

 

[bmacd]

my gf's sex drive is probably twice that of mine. I just dick her down and deal with it. I hate when she wakes me up in the middle of the night for a quickie.

-=bmacd=-

 

[azazyel]

For me, not very important. In all honesty for the past few weeks a good night sleep was more important than sex.

 

[FeuerFrei]

Hasn't been an issue for me so far. But I don't think it would be a deal breaker.

 

[StageLeft]

If you ain't getting much now you'll get NONE when she doesn't "have to" give it to you, like when you're married. Cut and RUN TRUST ME.