How does same-sex marriage affect religious freedom?

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aeroguy

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Gay marriage today... polygamy tomorrow. That's why I'm against it.

What gives you the right to not let 3... 5... or 100 people get married. They are all consenting adults. Boy, that would really mess with the tax code and health care benefits that companies extend to significant others. Very interesting problem if you think about it.
 

n0cmonkey

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Originally posted by: aeroguy
Gay marriage today... polygamy tomorrow. That's why I'm against it.

What gives you the right to not let 3... 5... or 100 people get married. They are all consenting adults. Boy, that would really mess with the tax code and health care benefits that companies extend to significant others. Very interesting problem if you think about it.

Ooooh snowball!
 

nakedfrog

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Originally posted by: lobadobadingdongJesus wan't all about loving everyone (and was certainly not tolerant), he was all about saving the sinners from a devils hell, you have to accept Jesus as your personal saviour, and ask forgiveness of your sins, (and do your best to sin no more) someone living a sin, and intending on continuing in that sin will not be saved. (I'm sure there are people more versed on scripture than me who can point out the details)...and there is only ONE path of Christianity (read the book of Acts if you don't believe me), although there are several doctrines.

There's only one path? Is that why we have different sects of christianity?
Jesus wasn't all about loving everyone? What's this mean then?
 

skace

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Originally posted by: FlyLice
You've been blinded by the media, who blame the Christian right for preventing pro-gay "rights" legislature. Ask a Jew, a Muslim, a Shihk, a Hindu, a Buddhist, a Native American if he thinks human society should change the definition of marriage to mean union of two people, same sex included. Like I said, it's not a "Christian" thing, it's a human society issue. If you spoiled lefties were to demand such things outside this country, you would be laughed at and them stoned to death.

But because this country was based on "Christian" principles, we protect your rights and beliefs, no matter how stupid they may be. But when a minority group of people start shoving their beliefs to the rest of society, don't think society will just stay put and take it up the ass (no pun intended).

- You had the balls to say I've been blinded
- You paint every religion but your own in a negative light
- You go on to threaten me that if I lived in another nation I'd be dead
- You champion "Christian principles" as if you are protecting me from anything other than yourself
- You end your post with a stupid gay pun

How would you feel if some rogue religion/jacked your ritual/customs and called it their own? Marriage is a scared institution for religious people. Don't you think if some f@gs started getting "married" and said hey look at me I'm the same as you, people would be like wtf bitch you're not the same DlAF.

- Where the hell do you think marriage came from
- I loved your sacred typo, made your whole post make sense
- More gay bashing

It appears you fall into lobadobadingdong's camp. You probably havn't even read the bible yet you use it as a weapon for your own rage on homosexuals. I mean you can't even go 2 posts without insulting a gay person. It is sad that these threads always end up as arguments with people such as yourself. Are you all the 'majority' has to show for defenders of same-sex marriage?
 

shortylickens

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So far as the Liberal/Conservative thing goes: apparently its acceptable to say something simple and cute in place of intelligent arguments. I guess this is why my country is going downhill slowly.

Back to the topic:
Its been touched on before but god/spiritualism is Person A believing in something. Religion is Person A making Person B follow his beliefs.
Religious freedom is making the government do your job for you.

I would like to see a lot more god and a lot less religion, just to see how it would work. :)

Holy Crap! In the two minutes it took to get my view in, 6 more people posted.
 

skace

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Originally posted by: aeroguy
Gay marriage today... polygamy tomorrow. That's why I'm against it.

What gives you the right to not let 3... 5... or 100 people get married. They are all consenting adults. Boy, that would really mess with the tax code and health care benefits that companies extend to significant others. Very interesting problem if you think about it.

The right is not given because of the mess it would create. Wow you answered your own post and I had to point it out. It is only a problem because you pretend it to be. You fall into the "if it isn't white, it's black" camp. If we don't keep it 1 way, we have to do it every way, is some amazingly pitiful logic.
 
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Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: lobadobadingdongJesus wan't all about loving everyone (and was certainly not tolerant), he was all about saving the sinners from a devils hell, you have to accept Jesus as your personal saviour, and ask forgiveness of your sins, (and do your best to sin no more) someone living a sin, and intending on continuing in that sin will not be saved. (I'm sure there are people more versed on scripture than me who can point out the details)...and there is only ONE path of Christianity (read the book of Acts if you don't believe me), although there are several doctrines.

There's only one path? Is that why we have different sects of christianity?
Jesus wasn't all about loving everyone? What's this mean then?
I meant that loving everyone wasn't all there was to him. :roll: doctrinal differences don't make the religion different, simply applications of certain rituals. (like baptism, some churches sprinkle water, some do full emersion, etc.) and yes there is only one path, believing in christ jesus, and repenting of your sins. (go to any/all christian churches and you will get the same answer)
 

Red Dawn

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Originally posted by: lobadobadingdong
yes there is only one path, believing in christ jesus, and repenting of your sins.
At least according to you and your Priests.

 

BigToque

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Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: lobadobadingdongthere is a difference between marriage and unions....the main one being religion. if you thing all religions are myths and cults then get a union from the state, not a religious mariage. :roll:

I could care less if gay folks get unions from the state, but I'll be dasmned if they can get married in a Christian (or other religions that consider gayness a sin) setting, it simply isn't acceptable, niether are the so called gay christian churches.

this topic belongs in P&N, everytime it gets brought up.

"so called gay christian churches?"
That sounds mighty tolerant :roll:
Seems to me Jesus was all about loving everyone, and I thought that the primary basis for christianity was the belief that Jesus was the son of god, and died for our sins. Sounds like a valid christian church to me.
If there was only ONE path of christianity, your argument might hold water, but it seems to me that there's more than one christian church, because they disagree on certain things. Are they all not valid as well? Or do you know which branch of christianity is the right and true one?

lol... here we go. It only took 43 posts :)

Guys, DON'T GO OFF-TOPIC IN MY THREAD! I asked something very specific.
 
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Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Originally posted by: lobadobadingdong
yes there is only one path, believing in christ jesus, and repenting of your sins.
At least according to you and your Priests.
no that's according to the bible (repeated numerous times in the New Testament), and my particular doctrine doesn't have priests. edit: sorry this is going off topic with the naysayers. you pobably shouldn't have posted this in OT to begin with though.
 

n0cmonkey

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Originally posted by: lobadobadingdong
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: lobadobadingdongJesus wan't all about loving everyone (and was certainly not tolerant), he was all about saving the sinners from a devils hell, you have to accept Jesus as your personal saviour, and ask forgiveness of your sins, (and do your best to sin no more) someone living a sin, and intending on continuing in that sin will not be saved. (I'm sure there are people more versed on scripture than me who can point out the details)...and there is only ONE path of Christianity (read the book of Acts if you don't believe me), although there are several doctrines.

There's only one path? Is that why we have different sects of christianity?
Jesus wasn't all about loving everyone? What's this mean then?
I meant that loving everyone wasn't all there was to him. :roll: doctrinal differences don't make the religion different, simply applications of certain rituals. (like baptism, some churches sprinkle water, some do full emersion, etc.) and yes there is only one path, believing in christ jesus, and repenting of your sins. (go to any/all christian churches and you will get the same answer)

If you followed Christ, wouldn't you want to be part of the religion he started (Catholicism) instead of the ones started by men (protestant)?
 

Red Dawn

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Originally posted by: lobadobadingdong
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Originally posted by: lobadobadingdong
yes there is only one path, believing in christ jesus, and repenting of your sins.
At least according to you and your Priests.
no that's according to the bible (repeated numerous times in the New Testament), and my particular doctrine doesn't have priests.
Same thing, different name.
 
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Originally posted by: n0cmonkey
Originally posted by: lobadobadingdong
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: lobadobadingdongJesus wan't all about loving everyone (and was certainly not tolerant), he was all about saving the sinners from a devils hell, you have to accept Jesus as your personal saviour, and ask forgiveness of your sins, (and do your best to sin no more) someone living a sin, and intending on continuing in that sin will not be saved. (I'm sure there are people more versed on scripture than me who can point out the details)...and there is only ONE path of Christianity (read the book of Acts if you don't believe me), although there are several doctrines.

There's only one path? Is that why we have different sects of christianity?
Jesus wasn't all about loving everyone? What's this mean then?
I meant that loving everyone wasn't all there was to him. :roll: doctrinal differences don't make the religion different, simply applications of certain rituals. (like baptism, some churches sprinkle water, some do full emersion, etc.) and yes there is only one path, believing in christ jesus, and repenting of your sins. (go to any/all christian churches and you will get the same answer)

If you followed Christ, wouldn't you want to be part of the religion he started (Catholicism) instead of the ones started by men (protestant)?
I thought Constantine (he was a man wasn't he) started the catholic church? at least thats what the history books say.
 

nakedfrog

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Originally posted by: Stefan

lol... here we go. It only took 43 posts :)

Guys, DON'T GO OFF-TOPIC IN MY THREAD! I asked something very specific.

Well, I think the only potentially valid answer came up on the first page (about a christian potentially having to sign a piece of paper). I don't even know how valid that is, because it's still not the religious ceremony itself, just the civil portion required by the government. So the person signing the paper wouldn't be condoning the marriage, just fulfilling his duty.

Oh, and anyone harping on the "marriage has meant xxx for a really long time!" argument needs to recognize that the definitions of words change over time as necessary. Why, not a hundred years ago, gay meant happy! WTF?!?
 

BigToque

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Originally posted by: lobadobadingdong
Originally posted by: n0cmonkey
Originally posted by: lobadobadingdong
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: lobadobadingdongJesus wan't all about loving everyone (and was certainly not tolerant), he was all about saving the sinners from a devils hell, you have to accept Jesus as your personal saviour, and ask forgiveness of your sins, (and do your best to sin no more) someone living a sin, and intending on continuing in that sin will not be saved. (I'm sure there are people more versed on scripture than me who can point out the details)...and there is only ONE path of Christianity (read the book of Acts if you don't believe me), although there are several doctrines.

There's only one path? Is that why we have different sects of christianity?
Jesus wasn't all about loving everyone? What's this mean then?
I meant that loving everyone wasn't all there was to him. :roll: doctrinal differences don't make the religion different, simply applications of certain rituals. (like baptism, some churches sprinkle water, some do full emersion, etc.) and yes there is only one path, believing in christ jesus, and repenting of your sins. (go to any/all christian churches and you will get the same answer)

If you followed Christ, wouldn't you want to be part of the religion he started (Catholicism) instead of the ones started by men (protestant)?
I thought Constantine (he was a man wasn't he) started the catholic church? at least thats what the history books say.

I'm not sure what history books you've read, but Jesus started the catholic church and appointed Peter as the first pope.
 

n0cmonkey

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Originally posted by: lobadobadingdong
Originally posted by: n0cmonkey
Originally posted by: lobadobadingdong
Originally posted by: nakedfrog
Originally posted by: lobadobadingdongJesus wan't all about loving everyone (and was certainly not tolerant), he was all about saving the sinners from a devils hell, you have to accept Jesus as your personal saviour, and ask forgiveness of your sins, (and do your best to sin no more) someone living a sin, and intending on continuing in that sin will not be saved. (I'm sure there are people more versed on scripture than me who can point out the details)...and there is only ONE path of Christianity (read the book of Acts if you don't believe me), although there are several doctrines.

There's only one path? Is that why we have different sects of christianity?
Jesus wasn't all about loving everyone? What's this mean then?
I meant that loving everyone wasn't all there was to him. :roll: doctrinal differences don't make the religion different, simply applications of certain rituals. (like baptism, some churches sprinkle water, some do full emersion, etc.) and yes there is only one path, believing in christ jesus, and repenting of your sins. (go to any/all christian churches and you will get the same answer)

If you followed Christ, wouldn't you want to be part of the religion he started (Catholicism) instead of the ones started by men (protestant)?
I thought Constantine (he was a man wasn't he) started the catholic church? at least thats what the history books say.

No they don't. Read the bible.
 

aeroguy

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Originally posted by: skace
Originally posted by: aeroguy
Gay marriage today... polygamy tomorrow. That's why I'm against it.

What gives you the right to not let 3... 5... or 100 people get married. They are all consenting adults. Boy, that would really mess with the tax code and health care benefits that companies extend to significant others. Very interesting problem if you think about it.

The right is not given because of the mess it would create. Wow you answered your own post and I had to point it out. It is only a problem because you pretend it to be. You fall into the "if it isn't white, it's black" camp. If we don't keep it 1 way, we have to do it every way, is some amazingly pitiful logic.

You don't have to be so mean. Some people are incapable of carrying on intelligent debate without putting down others. I was just giving my opinion. I disagree when you say rights shouldn't be given because it would be a mess. "Because it's hard to accomplish" is not a good reason to limit peoples rights, wouldn't you agree?
 

broon

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Sorry I had to step away...

Red Dawn - you missed my point. Both liberals and conservatives can have their way.

Marriage=religious institution only recognized by the "church". Said church can marry whomever they choose. If it's part of their religious belief, humans could marry animals...or it could be limited to heterosexual couples. Now conservatives get what they want.

Civil Union=state institution only recognized by the state. Basically take the rights of what we call married folk today and apply that to civil union. So what if the church says I'm married. The state doesn't recognize my union until I get a civil union license. Only then can I get the benifits of what today is called marriage. The state gets to determine who qualifies for the civil union. If the state votes for same sex civil unions, then same sex couples get unionized, or what today we call "married". It's all semantics.
 

Ronstang

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This is an argument that is never going anywhere towards any kind of a GENERAL consensus in the US at least.......well, it does but not with the results that the most vocal on the subject want to hear. From what I have seen something like 80% of the people in the US are against gay marriage. If it went to a general vote it would be banned rather easily. The Congress is not going to make gay marriage legal if they are truly a "government of the people" either. Religion isn't even the important factor here considering the number of people against it. This is merely an issue of a small minority making an attempt to rewrite the rules that society has upheld for centuries upon centuries when the majority of the people want the rules to remain the same. Using the argument that just because it has been someway for centuries doesn't mean it should remain that way is BS also considering Democracy would dictate that it should stay the same since the vast majority disagrees with gay marriage.
 

BigToque

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lobadobadingdong,

Link

Here is the first link I found. It seems like it might not be biased based on the name of the domain. They say "our site deals with all Christian denominations and all other religions".