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How do you make decisions?

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manlymatt83

Lifer
OK.... I don't understand what's happening, but recently, I can't make decisions. I used to have no problem making them, I was a "whatever" kind of person.... but now, its hard!

Like for instance, I live in South Jersey. Recently, I made the decision that I want to move now that I am graduating. I decided that since I grew up in Hillsborough, but am going to be working in the central jersey area, off the parkway, I would move halfway... south plainfield. This would put me about 20 minutes from my friends growing up, and 20 minutes from work.... and not TOO far from South Jersey if I wanted to go visit my friends down there.

So I thought I hade made my decision.

Then I read reports that the air quality in South Plainfield is horrible, the worst in NJ. And then, I spent yesterday and today in Tom's River, which is about 30 minutes SOUTH of where I'll be working, and about 40 minutes NORTH of where I live now. I've been having a crap load of fun here, so now of course, I'm like ... maybe I should move here? Then, I think .... well, if I move to South Plainfield like I wanted to originally, I'll be 20 minutes from my parents, 20 minutes from my friends that I grew up with, 20 minutes from work, and about 30 minutes from Toms' River... so the best of both worlds.

So now I don't know what to do, and why I can't make decisions. I think its because I've been so BORED in south Jersey that I want to make sure I move to a place I am happy with so I don't have to go through what I went through the past few years again.

So should I just move to South Plainfield, which is where I was originally planning on moving to all along, for a year, get settled, save up some money, and see where I spend most of my time? And then ater a year, I can re-evaluate where I want to move to? Or should I do something else, like put all the places I want to move (Toms River, South Plainfield, maybe Bridgewater which is closer to my parents) in a hat and pick one at random? I just don't know, these decisions are so hard....

good advice would help.

-Matt
 
So what would everyone else do? Just take a risk? My instinct is to move to South Plainfield, becaues its in the middle of everything and would give me a year to figure out where I want to go.
 
do whatever you want, and if you dont want to do anything dont do anything

life is so simple i dont understand how people get worked up about most things...
 
I make a table by 3 x 3 on a piece of paper . At leas it islarge enough to wrote down possible decisions for myself and set up a blindfold. Used my right index finger, and twirl my arm around in the air and after counting 10 secs. I let my finger fall onto to one of the 9 boxes filled with decisions. That's how I decide stuff...


jk 😀
 
Originally posted by: Powermoloch
I make a table by 3 x 3 on a piece of paper . At leas it ist large enough to wrote downt possible decisions for myself and used set up a blindfold. Used my right index finger, and twirl my arm around in the air and after counting 10 secs. I let my finger fall onto to one of the 9 boxes filled with decisions. That's how I decide stuff...


jk 😀
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Good idea thanks! 😛 I made my decision by realizing the fact that there are negatives to every choice 🙂 I just sucked up the fact that I'll have lung cancer 10 years from now 🙁
 
Step 1: I ponder the question at hand while vigorously pleasuring myself
step 2: I create a thread asking for input on the topic
step 3: I vigorously Pleasure myself again whhile waiting for responses
step 4: I read all the responses and do the opposite of what they recommend I do
steps 5-8: I vigorously pleasure myself 3 more times
step 9: I call my ex girfriend and ask if she still has feelings for me
step 10: I create a thread about an ex girlfriend that will be somehow tied into the deicision from step 4
step s11-28: repeat steps 5-8
step 29: I Come out of the closet and move to hoboken with my new lover.
 
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