Nothing wrong with anything in moderation.
I'd say I get drunk once a week (10+ drinks), and have 1-3 drinks on half the other days of the week with dinner.
The definition of binge drinking is consuming 5 or more drinks :roll:
As far as drinking while keeping in shape, it really doesn't seem to affect me. I Lift 3-4 times a week, jog 4 miles on my off-days, and box 2 times a week (i.e. I need all the calories I can get). If you are trying to lose weight, stick to light beers or straight liquor (vodka on the rocks, whiskey on the rocks, etc...). Avoid wine, mixers, and high-carb beer.
My workout schedule:
M: Jog 4 miles, box
T: Lift (chest, squats), Yoga
W: Jog 4 miles
R: Lift(back, deadlifts)
F: Jog 4 miles, box
Sa: Rest (usually my night to get drunk is friday night, so I am hungover on saturdays...)
Su: Lift (accessory... abs, cleans, etc...)
During the week i'll usually have a beer or two or a glass or two of wine/whiskey or something around dinner time.