rudeguy
Lifer
I always try to be nice and do what I can for people. I work in a high stress environment, so a lot of times that is letting someone vent about a shitty customer or the stupid things that corporate does. I'm also pretty good with the program we use for billing and such, so its not uncommon for people to ask for advice on how to do something. I always do what I can since I do like to help.
BUT....but there are a few people that seem to thrive on pestering others. These are the kind of people that always want to complain about everything in their lives. The only time the even hint at smiling is when they are complaining. They will even interrupt other people's conversations to start complaining. These are almost always the same people that always need help using the computer. We all use the same program, every single day. But these people will interrupt whatever you are doing because they need immediate help. But the thing they need help with is something simple and they just didn't want to figure it out for themselves. They also didn't want to take the time of using the tools they have to figure it out. Much easier to make it someone else's problem.
How do you deal with these kinds of people? Of course I avoid them at all costs, but since they don't wait for you to start a conversation, its not an easy thing to do. Telling them to STFU isn't an option since that will result in a trip to HR.
BUT....but there are a few people that seem to thrive on pestering others. These are the kind of people that always want to complain about everything in their lives. The only time the even hint at smiling is when they are complaining. They will even interrupt other people's conversations to start complaining. These are almost always the same people that always need help using the computer. We all use the same program, every single day. But these people will interrupt whatever you are doing because they need immediate help. But the thing they need help with is something simple and they just didn't want to figure it out for themselves. They also didn't want to take the time of using the tools they have to figure it out. Much easier to make it someone else's problem.
How do you deal with these kinds of people? Of course I avoid them at all costs, but since they don't wait for you to start a conversation, its not an easy thing to do. Telling them to STFU isn't an option since that will result in a trip to HR.