How do you ask a woman is she has a boyfriend / husband?

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zendari

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Originally posted by: BlueFlamme
Originally posted by: jlbenedict
hmmm... possibly: single mother + kids = Stay the FVCK Away!

So how many single mothers do you know that don't have kids? :roll:

Well, the father could have custody, which makes things a bit better.....
 

meltdown75

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Originally posted by: maximus maximus
What happned next was absolutely amazing... she just handed me a peice of paper with her phone number on it and asked me to call her. :)
lol
 

Pepsei

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dude, if you play your cards right, and is providing fun and excitement to her life, she WILL NOT mention the bf to ruin that fun.
 

her209

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"Are you in a relationship?"

"Are you currently seeing anybody?"

"When was the last time you got some?"
 

b0mbrman

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For future reference:

Her I like plants (or any phrase at all, really)
You I bet that drives your boyfriend crazy...
Her No, he's cool with it or I have no boyfriend
 

gsellis

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Originally posted by: maximus maximus
bumping for update # 2
Great update!

BTW, a single mom does not want you to raise her kids. I married one and know.

 

Rumpltzer

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Originally posted by: maximus maximus
bumping for update # 2
I think I saw this episode on Seinfeld.

It's gonna be cool when she brings her hubby on the date with you!
 

IceBergSLiM

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dinner and a movie first date = :thumbsdown:


Originality 0/10

Economical 1/10

Fun Factor 1/10

Low Pressure 0/10

Cool factor 0/10

balls/effort to ask 5/10

Total: you fail but good luck anyways
 

gsellis

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Originally posted by: IcebergSlim
dinner and a movie first date = :thumbsdown:


Originality 0/10

Economical 1/10

Fun Factor 1/10

Low Pressure 0/10

Cool factor 0/10

balls/effort to ask 5/10

Total: you fail but good luck anyways
Not sure I agree with you. It is all in public places and fairly safe, which is important to a girl on a first date. Especially one that has kids and been through it before. With a movie and dinner, there is some flexibility to adjust for taste.

What do you recommend instead?

 

jhayx7

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Originally posted by: maximus maximus
Need to ask a lady this question. Wondering how to ask it?
Any ideas / suggestions? :D

P.S: She does not have a ring on any of her ring fingers.

UPDATE # 1
Sorry to bump this thread.. but I have some updates...

I followed the suggestion given in ATOT and asked her what her plans were for the weekend. She again mentioned bout her kid, but nothing about her BF / husband. I asked her where she lived and turned out that she lived pretty close to my place..

What happned next was absolutely amazing... she just handed me a peice of paper with her phone number on it and asked me to call her. :)

I am planning to ask her out on a date next weekend (maybe dinner and a movie... any suggestions???)
I will keep you guys updated as things progress. Wish me luck.

Ohhh.. and no pics for the time being.. will get some pics soon though. ;)

UPDATE # 2
Called her and spoke to her for about half an hour or so. She asked me if I was single (whic of course I was).. I did not ask anything about her for the time being. I did not feel comfortable discussing it over the phone.

I asked her out for movies and dinner for the coming frinday and she agreed. That I guess, pretty much confirms that she does not have a SO.

Boy-o-boy.. I am totally excited. :D

Can't wait till Friday. ;)

Quick! Take the Halo 2 t-shirt to the dry cleaners so you will have it back before Friday!
 

maximus maximus

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Originally posted by: jhayx7
Originally posted by: maximus maximus
Need to ask a lady this question. Wondering how to ask it?
Any ideas / suggestions? :D

P.S: She does not have a ring on any of her ring fingers.

UPDATE # 1
Sorry to bump this thread.. but I have some updates...

I followed the suggestion given in ATOT and asked her what her plans were for the weekend. She again mentioned bout her kid, but nothing about her BF / husband. I asked her where she lived and turned out that she lived pretty close to my place..

What happned next was absolutely amazing... she just handed me a peice of paper with her phone number on it and asked me to call her. :)

I am planning to ask her out on a date next weekend (maybe dinner and a movie... any suggestions???)
I will keep you guys updated as things progress. Wish me luck.

Ohhh.. and no pics for the time being.. will get some pics soon though. ;)

UPDATE # 2
Called her and spoke to her for about half an hour or so. She asked me if I was single (whic of course I was).. I did not ask anything about her for the time being. I did not feel comfortable discussing it over the phone.

I asked her out for movies and dinner for the coming frinday and she agreed. That I guess, pretty much confirms that she does not have a SO.

Boy-o-boy.. I am totally excited. :D

Can't wait till Friday. ;)

Quick! Take the Halo 2 t-shirt to the dry cleaners so you will have it back before Friday!

I had my "nice shoes.. wanna fcuk?" shirt ready. ;)