How do you ask a woman is she has a boyfriend / husband?

[maximus maximus]

Need to ask a lady this question. Wondering how to ask it?
Any ideas / suggestions?

P.S: She does not have a ring on any of her ring fingers.

UPDATE # 1
Sorry to bump this thread.. but I have some updates...

I followed the suggestion given in ATOT and asked her what her plans were for the weekend. She again mentioned bout her kid, but nothing about her BF / husband. I asked her where she lived and turned out that she lived pretty close to my place..

What happned next was absolutely amazing... she just handed me a peice of paper with her phone number on it and asked me to call her.

I am planning to ask her out on a date next weekend (maybe dinner and a movie... any suggestions???)
I will keep you guys updated as things progress. Wish me luck.

Ohhh.. and no pics for the time being.. will get some pics soon though.

UPDATE # 2
Called her and spoke to her for about half an hour or so. She asked me if I was single (whic of course I was).. I did not ask anything about her for the time being. I did not feel comfortable discussing it over the phone.

I asked her out for movies and dinner for the coming frinday and she agreed. That I guess, pretty much confirms that she does not have a SO.

Boy-o-boy.. I am totally excited.

Can't wait till Friday.

 

[Skiddex]

i always find asking what exciting plans she has for the weekend usually brings up bf/husband because they usually have plans with/for them

 

[GrammatonJP]

does ur husband care if we go out for drinks ? hahaha

 

[MercenaryForHire]

"sup bitch, single?"

- M4H

 

[martensite]

Originally posted by: GrammatonJP
does ur husband care if we go out for drinks ? hahaha

 

[iamme]

Originally posted by: Skiddex
i always find asking what exciting plans she has for the weekend usually brings up bf/husband because they usually have plans with/for them

:thumbsup:

 

[maximus maximus]

Originally posted by: Skiddex
i always find asking what exciting plans she has for the weekend usually brings up bf/husband because they usually have plans with/for them

I asked her about it and she brought up somethign about her kids.. Nothing about bf/husband.

So I am kinda confused.

 

[lytalbayre]

Just ask her out and she will decline if she has a husband/boyfriend. If she doesn't decline, then she's fair game.

 

[krunchykrome]

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
"sup bitch, single?"

- M4H

Was it here on ATOT that I read something like

"Sup b!tch, prom?"

I dont remember where I read that but It made me laugh hard.

 

[DaShen]

Originally posted by: Skiddex
i always find asking what exciting plans she has for the weekend usually brings up bf/husband because they usually have plans with/for them

Yup. So you have any plans this week? If she has someone she is faithful to, she will mention her SO.

 

[MoPHo]

Just wear a shirt that says "Single? let's mingle" and see if she takes the bait.

 

[MaxDepth]

"So... getting any lately?"

 

[SirChadwick]

Just ask her out and she'll let you know real quick.

 

[SampSon]

"So, you married yet?"

 

[nakedfrog]

Originally posted by: krunchykrome

Originally posted by: MercenaryForHire
"sup bitch, single?"

- M4H

Was it here on ATOT that I read something like

"Sup b!tch, prom?"

I dont remember where I read that but It made me laugh hard.

I think it was bash.org

 

[phantom309]

She knows why you're talking to her. If a woman is truly "off the market", she'll usually let you know very quickly.

 

[jlbenedict]

Originally posted by: maximus maximus

Originally posted by: Skiddex
i always find asking what exciting plans she has for the weekend usually brings up bf/husband because they usually have plans with/for them

I asked her about it and she brought up somethign about her kids.. Nothing about bf/husband.

So I am kinda confused.

hmmm... possibly: single mother + kids = Stay the FVCK Away!

 

[Nebor]

Are you married?
If she responds with "Yes" or "I have a boyfriend" follow up with:
How good is the relationship/marriage?

It's worth a shot.

 

[BlueFlamme]

Originally posted by: jlbenedict
hmmm... possibly: single mother + kids = Stay the FVCK Away!

So how many single mothers do you know that don't have kids? :roll:

 

[iamme]

Originally posted by: BlueFlamme

Originally posted by: jlbenedict
hmmm... possibly: single mother + kids = Stay the FVCK Away!

So how many single mothers do you know that don't have kids? :roll:

:laugh:

 

[Skiddex]

Originally posted by: maximus maximus

Originally posted by: Skiddex
i always find asking what exciting plans she has for the weekend usually brings up bf/husband because they usually have plans with/for them

I asked her about it and she brought up somethign about her kids.. Nothing about bf/husband.

So I am kinda confused.

well if you want to score big points and really want to do somethig with her, ask her about her kids. something is bound to come up about a husband/ex/loyal bf/how hard it is raising kids with no one around

 

[maximus maximus]

Originally posted by: Nebor
Are you married?
If she responds with "Yes" or "I have a boyfriend" follow up with:
How good is the relationship/marriage?

It's worth a shot.

Nope. I am single.

 

[ruffilb]

Originally posted by: Skiddex
i always find asking what exciting plans she has for the weekend usually brings up bf/husband because they usually have plans with/for them

Originally posted by: maximus maximus

Originally posted by: Skiddex
i always find asking what exciting plans she has for the weekend usually brings up bf/husband because they usually have plans with/for them

I asked her about it and she brought up somethign about her kids.. Nothing about bf/husband.

So I am kinda confused.

BAIL NOW.

 

[ruffilb]

dp, sorry.

 

[Nebor]

Originally posted by: maximus maximus

Originally posted by: Nebor
Are you married?
If she responds with "Yes" or "I have a boyfriend" follow up with:
How good is the relationship/marriage?

It's worth a shot.

Nope. I am single.

And retarded?