How do I make sure my sister doesn't grow up into a slut?

[ImpulsE69]

Don't let yourself or your dad molest her.

 

[John Connor]

I have no idea. Woman to me are like she-devils and I'm Pan. LOL!

All I know is that you don't want to push. Maybe teach her about herpes and all that nasty shit. The responsibility of being a parent, etc.

 

[Fanatical Meat]

Go old school and beat the crap out of guys trying to date her. Keep doing thus until she is in college.
Should be easy at first since the guys are all younger than you it gets harder when they are older but by then you'll have plenty of experience giving out beat downs.

Being serious, don't worry let your Sister live her life. Help her out with important stuff but don't get involved in minutiae ir over analyze things. She needs to learn to navigate the world on her own.

 

[dawp]

you aren't josh duggar, are you?

 

[John Connor]

The minion knows all!

 

[Ruptga]

Are you serious? She's my sister, not some random person in the street. If I want her to live a good respectable life and not end up on Teen Mom, what's wrong with that?

Yeah but you don't want to be a helicopter brother. She's a kid, she'll either figure it out or she won't, and if not then you'll be there for her. If being an idiot kid that has no idea how life works were damnable then nobody would ever make it through their twenties, and many wouldn't even make it that far.

 

[Pulsar]

I have a little sister who turned 12 last month. Now that she's no longer the kid she used to, and is approaching puberty, obviously there are going to be physical ans well as mental changes.

You all must have seen the girls at your school/college who are labelled as "sluts". They'll sleep with loads of guys, have no self respect, are full of themselves and stuck up. I don't want my sister to turn that way. (BTW, she quite a cute girl, i can tell that by the time she turns 18 or 19 she'll be a very beautiful woman(hot, if you will).

So my question is, as her elder brother and guardian(we do have parents, but they both work and she's kinda close to me), what should i do that she grows up to be a good girl with morals and gets good grades and not one one of those sluts/bitches..

Not a damn thing. You aren't her parent. In addition, children have their personality set by age 12. Be there for her when she messes up.

 

[blankslate]

Education is key.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L0jQz6jqQS0
^this?

/shrug


....

 

[JMapleton]

Serious advice:

Mention to her casually that boys are not to be trusted. Most teenage boys are not to be trusted. Explain this to her. You are a male. Tell her you know what it's really like and the vast majority do not care about her, they only want one thing (you know, ahem). Don't go overboard with it, just tell her these boys that this age have not developed a sense of morality yet.

But don't be weird about it. Be casual when you talk to her. Don't make it awkward. Just be like "oh btw....."

 

[JMapleton]

Not a damn thing. You aren't her parent. In addition, children have their personality set by age 12. Be there for her when she messes up.

Worst advice ever. Seriously.

 

[BoomerD]

Just explain to her that sex is fine...sex with lots of men is fine...as long as she makes good money doing it. Giving it away is stupid...


OR, you could just keep your nose out of her business and let her live her life.

 

[Jeff7]

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[Sonikku]

 

[Ns1]

You memorize this shit word for word.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=x4pIJtt48g4

 

[Humpy]

The question is not "Is your sister a slut"? Rather, it's "How big a slut is your sister"? To establish this, we need to introduce a new value, ¿ <- Which is the greek letter for "Slut". This will come in handy when asking questions such as "Is my sister gonna suck 15 dicks at the Halloween party tonight?". To answer this, all you need to do is find ¿ in the equation ¿= X+Y*n, where X is the number of jaeger shots your little sister has downed, Y is the amount of dicks at the party in integers, and n is the "BBC factor".

Say for example that there are 25 dicks, your sister has had 7 jaeger shots, and there are 2 Jamals walkin' around. This gives us

25+7*2= 39

In any case where ¿>10, your sister is going to suck greater than 1 dick that night with a 95% statistical probability.

 

[Ns1]

dude ATOT, we fucking failed.



Pics of sister? We'll tell you if you need to worry or not.

:giggity:

 

[smackababy]

Start having sex with her. Obviously, she will only be a slut if she isn't getting it good. Just give it to her good.

 

[Fenixgoon]

dude ATOT, we fucking failed.



Pics of sister? We'll tell you if you need to worry or not.

:giggity:

how did it take this long?

obviously we need pics to provide proper advice.

i had older sisters, so i don't know what to tell you. probably just be there for her, and try not to be patronizing?

 

[HTFOff]

How many men has your mom slept with?

We'll need to know if she's genetically predisposed to this type of behavior.

We're going to need a pic of the mom, too.

 

[John Connor]

Sick bastards pedophiles, she's 12!

 

[SketchMaster]

Honestly? Lead by example.

A young person subconsciously looks at those closest to them for cues on what "normal" is.

If they are surrounded by people who are cheerful and in healthy relationships (romantic or not), they will look for the same traits in others to bring into their life.

Live your life as good as you can, don't associate with trashy people (male or female), show her that you value the women you date for more than just their looks: How smart they are, how talented they are, kindness, etc... Drop little things every now and then like, "Man, I really like how smart *blank* is at XYZ." Or, "It's awesome that *blank* took time to travel to ABC and learned about their culture." and "*Blank* has got her life goals in check." Stuff other than how they look.

Use every opportunity you have to build up her self confidence. When she gets an A in a class, say something like "Man, my little sis is going to kick ass in college!". If she brings home an art project say something good about it! Wants to try a sport? Show up and cheer. Show her that she is a person, and should be appreciated for more than looking nice.

Do all that, and without thinking she will filter out all the sleazy people trying to get into her life.

 

[Ns1]

Sick bastards pedophiles, she's 12!

You're killing the fantasy bro.

 

[master_shake_]

Use the shitty lock adage.

You know a penis or key that can open a lot of locks is a good key or penis.

A lock or vagina that can be opened by a lot of keys is a shitty lock.

 

[SNJ]

Your her big brother. Your only responsibility is to protect her. Teaching morals and values is your parents job. Some guy mistreats her open a can of whupass on em. Someone starts spreading ugly rumors do the same. Your only job is to defend her from people that may want to hurt her nothing more. Try to be the parent and she will hate you. Let her hate your parents we live for that kind of stuff.

I know damn well that its my job is to protect her, and i'm not shying away from that. The thing is, if tomorrow she starts getting involved with drug dealers and hardcore thugs, would you still expect me to get into physical altercations with them?

I'd rather see her grow up into the kind of woman that doesn't do those things.

 

[SNJ]

Not a damn thing. You aren't her parent. In addition, children have their personality set by age 12. Be there for her when she messes up.

Of course. But I'd also train her so as to keep the "messing up" part to a minimum.