How do I fix an abusive mother?

evolvedbullet

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I am a 16/17 year old kid who is independent. When I say independent, I mean thinking wise and I can do anything that will please me. My mother threatens me that she will take away my computer and anything of value from me if I disobey her. I really can't wait to get out of this house; She is acting like a tyrant without a leech. I am a very wise kid and I only use reason to get me out of situations. I really don't like to be violent with my mother but she starts it. I talk back to her and she slaps me in the face.

She is saying that I am back talking her. I think back talking is the only way to question one's actions but she wants everything she says done. I have things that need to be done and she intrudes into my schedule; I get very upset and unorganized if someone screws with my daily schedule. I really don't know what to do guys; if you think I should wait her out, say a way how I can live with this or if there is a way to straighten her out, can you tell me please.

What started my mother's PMSing is my brothers apatite. He is as thin as a twig and he eats feasts worth of food. My mother is paralyzed (broken arm and leg; there getting better and she is walking around, waving orders left and right) and can't go to work so the food can get into short supply (my mother has enough money to buy a load of groceries every two weeks, 100 or 200 dollars worth of food; my brother calls a snack eating two packs of hot dogs and a gallon of V8 Fusion Light). When I am out of Reese's Peanut butter, I get very agitated when it comes down to food. I would eat something else but having a tongue that rejects alot of flavors can make eating difficult. He eats all the food and my only meal available is Snack Packs and Fruit and Grain bars. What should I do guys? Thank you for reading.
 

SmoochyTX

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Originally posted by: evolvedbullet
I am a 16/17 year old kid who is independent. When I say independent, I mean thinking wise and I can do anything that will please me. My mother threatens me that she will take away my computer and anything of value from me if I disobey her. I really can't wait to get out of this house; She is acting like a tyrant without a leech. I am a very wise kid and I only use reason to get me out of situations. I really don't like to be violent with my mother but she starts it. I talk back to her and she slaps me in the face.

She is saying that I am back talking her. I think back talking is the only way to question one's actions but she wants everything she says done. I have things that need to be done and she intrudes into my schedule; I get very upset and unorganized if someone screws with my daily schedule. I really don't know what to do guys; if you think I should wait her out, say a way how I can live with this or if there is a way to straighten her out, can you tell me please.

What started my mother's PMSing is my brothers apatite. He is as thin as a twig and he eats feasts worth of food. My mother is paralyzed (broken arm and leg; there getting better and she is walking around, waving orders left and right) and can't go to work so the food can get into short supply (my mother has enough money to buy a load of groceries every two weeks, 100 or 200 dollars worth of food; my brother calls a snack eating two packs of hot dogs and a gallon of V8 Fusion Light). When I am out of Reese's Peanut butter, I get very agitated when it comes down to food. I would eat something else but having a tongue that rejects alot of flavors can make eating difficult. He eats all the food and my only meal available is Snack Packs and Fruit and Grain bars. What should I do guys? Thank you for reading.
Don't be such a picky eater?
 

evolvedbullet

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I do not hit my mother. My mother hits me. I don't hit her back, I just be a little devil and deny every rule she implies against my will. I want to be left alone; I don't need her pissing and mourning.
 

IronWing

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That was pretty good, 7/10. You'd a gotten an 8 but you were trying too hard with the title and subtitle.
 

Kirby64

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Hahahaha... this thread is going places.

/lawnchair

PS: This space for rent, PM for pricing details.
 

JulesMaximus

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Okay, assuming you are serious, do you have a job? If not, get one and move out on your own STAT.

\thread
 

SmoochyTX

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Originally posted by: evolvedbullet
I do not hit my mother. My mother hits me. I don't hit her back, I just be a little devil and deny every rule she implies against my will. I want to be left alone; I don't need her pissing and mourning.
Who is she mourning? :confused:
 

xSkyDrAx

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let's see...

appetite*
they're*

as for tips: toughen up or move out, her house her rules what else can you do and honestly that is FAR from abusive...from what I've read you're just whiny.
 

IronWing

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Originally posted by: SmoochyTX
Originally posted by: evolvedbullet
I do not hit my mother. My mother hits me. I don't hit her back, I just be a little devil and deny every rule she implies against my will. I want to be left alone; I don't need her pissing and mourning.
Who is she mourning? :confused:

The kid she coulda had, had she not been drinking during pregnancy.
 

potato28

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Save money, as soon as your 18 LEAVE. If you want to leave now, it might be a little tough at first but you'll survive.
 

jagec

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Originally posted by: evolvedbullet
She is acting like a tyrant without a leech.

I thought that this was the best sentence.

Fun post to read, I rated it 5 stars.
 

TheChort

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Originally posted by: jagec
Originally posted by: evolvedbullet
She is acting like a tyrant without a leech.

I thought that this was the best sentence.

Fun post to read, I rated it 5 stars.

There was too much continuous reading and not enough spacing. Hard on my eyes, you know.
I gave it 4 stars.
 

evolvedbullet

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:/ ; I would appreciate it if you don't criticize me on what I do not know. You have the right to imply something but this kind of situation is a hard thing to manage. I do no have a job, I want one though, and my school work weighs alot on my mind. I fear that I won't be able to play my video games anymore; I grew up with video games and having them taken away from me is something I don't know if I can't live without. I don't find anything else entertaining then playing video games. Well.. there is the possibility of having conversations with a girl but I got rejected three times in a row last week; that was to much pressure for me to handle (I quit with women!). I have alot of issues to sort out :(.

*This is real, no story.
 

Squisher

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As I look over at my sarcasm meter I see it's moving in an erratic fashion and my shens detector has smoke coming out of the back, yet my arm seems to have assumed a position that it does just before I turn someone over my knee.
 

IronWing

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Okay, I change my opinion. W/ that addition I'm raising my rating to 9/10. Why not see if there is a video game version of Pyscho. Then you could address all your female troubles in a video game. Heaven on earth.
 

SmoochyTX

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Originally posted by: evolvedbullet
:/ ; I would appreciate it if you don't criticize me on what I do not know. You have the right to imply something but this kind of situation is a hard thing to manage. I do no have a job, I want one though, and my school work weighs alot on my mind. I fear that I won't be able to play my video games anymore; I grew up with video games and having them taken away from me is something I don't know if I can't live without. I don't find anything else entertaining then playing video games. Well.. there is the possibility of having conversations with a girl but I got rejected three times in a row last week; that was to much pressure for me to handle (I quit with women!). I have alot of issues to sort out :(.

*This is real, no story.
So are you 16 or 17? You can't be both as you stated in your OP. PLEASE tell me you don't have a drivers license.
 

Sinsear

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Originally posted by: evolvedbullet
I am a 16/17 year old kid who is independent. When I say independent, I mean thinking wise and I can do anything that will please me.

Herein lies the problem; and it's a problem with alot of today's youth. You think you know everything and can do whatever you please without consequence. Grow up, respect your mother, and stop your fscking whining.