Originally posted by: Leros
This is probably a stupid question, but I'm gonna ask anyway.
I was thinking about couples with significantly different incomes. Say person A makes $125k and person B makes $40k. Clearly person A makes a lot more money than person B. This couple could afford a nice large house but person B won't be able to contribute anywhere near their fair share. Would it be demeaning to person B if they got a nice house way outside of what person B can equally pay for?
Wow, the income situation is exactly same for us..
My wife makes around $125k, while I make around $45k.
We have a joint account for everything.
Her job is more demanding, so I take care of our kid. I stayed with my current job, because of the flexibility. I can leave anytime I want, as long as I fill my 40 hours.
It seems to work great for us. We have an agreement that, anything over $100, we have to agree on it. Heck, she buying me a $10k bike for our anniversary.
Here's the deal..
When we were first dating, we shared our ideas of what kind of future we wanted. My wife wanted to work, she likes the idea of working and not staying home. I wanted to stay home and take care of my wife and kids. Our plan is working so far. Our future plan is, next year, we will have another kid and I will stay home and maybe find a part-time job.