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KC5AV

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Originally posted by: Lola

Thats an awesome story! may i ask why you stopped fighting AFTER you got married? what changed?

The short answer: I grew up.
 

ohtwell

Lifer
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Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: teh 3v1L
am i the only one here that can't seem to be able to settle?

I don't think the people responding in this thread feel they "settled"
Agreed! You shouldn't ever "settle" and I hope that no one here feels they were "settled" for. :)


: ) Amanda
 

arcenite

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I met my Fiance in highschool approximately 6 years ago. We've been dating for 2.5 years, and have decided we're gonna marry in 2008 :) She was the type of girl you had a crush on even when you had a girlfriend ;)

Bill
 

ohtwell

Lifer
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Originally posted by: arcenite
I met my Fiance in highschool approximately 6 years ago. We've been dating for 2.5 years, and have decided we're gonna marry in 2008 :) She was the type of girl you had a crush on even when you had a girlfriend ;)

Bill
That's sweet! 2008 isn't that far away. Sounds like you two are happy together. That's great! :D


: ) Amanda
 

aircooled

Lifer
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Originally posted by: ohtwell
Originally posted by: aircooled
I'm on #2 and doubt that will last much longer....
Why do you think your relationship is heading down hill?


: ) Amanda

we are more like 'room-mates' than a 'couple' both of us have grown completely different directions over the years (and that's OK), but neither one of us has had the balls to initiate the process.
 

ohtwell

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Originally posted by: aircooled

we are more like 'room-mates' than a 'couple' both of us have grown completely different directions over the years (and that's OK), but neither one of us has had the balls to initiate the process.
You think she feels the same way? Have you talked to her? Is this making you really unhappy?


: ) Amanda
 

Geekbabe

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Originally posted by: aircooled
Originally posted by: ohtwell
Originally posted by: aircooled
I'm on #2 and doubt that will last much longer....
Why do you think your relationship is heading down hill?


: ) Amanda

we are more like 'room-mates' than a 'couple' both of us have grown completely different directions over the years (and that's OK), but neither one of us has had the balls to initiate the process.

Wow, that's sad.

As for me, nobody can make me laugh more than my honey,the man should be on tv he's so funny :)
 

Feldenak

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I don't know that I can answer that. We just "mesh" well. She's a counterbalance to my complete off-the-wallness. All I know is that we've been together 5.5 years, engaged for 2.5, will be getting married 2 weeks from today and we still have as much fun as we did at the beginning. She is easily the best thing that happened to me.
 

Fritzo

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Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: aircooled
Originally posted by: ohtwell
Originally posted by: aircooled
I'm on #2 and doubt that will last much longer....
Why do you think your relationship is heading down hill?


: ) Amanda

we are more like 'room-mates' than a 'couple' both of us have grown completely different directions over the years (and that's OK), but neither one of us has had the balls to initiate the process.

Wow, that's sad.

As for me, nobody can make me laugh more than my honey,the man should be on tv he's so funny :)

That could be a bad thing if he's naked....
 

Zenmervolt

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I'm just waiting to find out if my own intuition is right or if I'm out of what's left of my mind. I'll get back to you in 4-5 years.

ZV
 

Ausm

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Originally posted by: aircooled
Originally posted by: Ausm
Originally posted by: aircooled
I'm on #2 and doubt that will last much longer....



Join the club!


Ausm


Best of luck to you.



No best of luck to you! I am already a 2 time loser in the marriage dept.

Never again it is to financially damaging.

Ausm
 

aircooled

Lifer
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Originally posted by: Ausm
Originally posted by: aircooled
Originally posted by: Ausm
Originally posted by: aircooled
I'm on #2 and doubt that will last much longer....



Join the club!


Ausm


Best of luck to you.



No best of luck to you! I am already a 2 time loser in the marriage dept.

Never again it is to financially damaging.

Ausm

I understand.... I have a kid with wife #1 and a house with wife #2 I send alot of money to my first wife every month as it is....
 

spidey07

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yep, next one has to be a locktite pre-nup agreement.

If she agrees, then she must be the one.