Viper (and Whisper),
I'm not sure about what the policies are at different schools, but here at the University of Kansas you were required to list your parents financials unless you were over 25 or married (I'm not 100% sure on those but I think that's right). However, they had a process for those who didn't meet either of the two criteria but were completely financially independent. It was called "Self-Supporting Student Status" or something similar. They had an application form for it and everything. There were several requirements applicants had to meet (for instance, one was that you had to show proof that you earned enough during the past year to pay for minimum living expenses [they calculated it based on a couple of factors]--basically proves that you had no need for monetary support from your parents). There were some other things, but I know that it saved some friends of mine from having to drop out of school. Same situation as yours--they worked full-time but wanted to go to school full-time but their parents wouldn't help and wouldn't cosign. It seems ludicrous to have to include your parents financial information in cases like that. So they applied for it and had to have an interview and submit proof, etc. When they got the call that they were approved, they simply brought a FAFSA form in, and someone in the FAO signed a line approving a waiver of requiring the parental info... if you look on the FAFSA you should see that line on there somewhere.
In any case, those of you who don't fit the usual criteria for being independent but have extenuating circumstances and support yourselves (and aren't claimed as a dependent like Viper), you should definitely contact your financial aid office and inquire about a similar program. For obvious reasons, it's not something they advertise, but if you do a little investigating, you'll probably find a way to get the financial aid that you need.
Good luck to you all. I miss college sometimes (not around finals though)... 🙂
l2c