Originally posted by: halik
Originally posted by: Dead Parrot Sketch
"i would never even think about doing stuff like that. Its completly off limits to me... its not even option in my head. See I wouldnt do it just because of the consequnce, i wouldnt do it because its not right. Same way id never steal money from my parents (im cosigned on all our accounts). I think they call it TRUST "
That's because of who YOU are, not how good your parents were at parenting.
uh uh, unless you believe that people as individuals come pre-programmed to be criminals or do stupid stuff, its your parents and environment thats shapes you into being you. I would never do it because me entire life i was taught that this is unacceptable and wrong. If you kid doesnt follow or understand that, you've messed up at some point
To some extent people, as individuals, will have pre-programmed personalities. But yes, environmental factors probably influenced this the most. But the parents are still not to blame.
I'd blame 15 year-old hormones long before I'd think about pointing a finger at the 'rents. Sometimes, hormone-raging kids will get together and plan to do something stupid because they think it would be fun, even if they've been raised well and taught better.
I mean, I did stupid stuff too when I was that age, even though I knew what the consequences would be if I were caught....toilet papering houses for example. IMO, sometimes the potential for fun will outweigh the potential for risk/consequences in these kids' minds...especially if they get to impress some girls at the same time.
The parents
trusted that the kids were asleep. Who wouldn't?!