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Kadarin

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Originally posted by: Genx87
Originally posted by: jpeyton
It's a shame this still happens in some places. Luckily, most Muslims will agree with you that this practice needs to be abolished.

I'd love to believe that. But when video's of girls being ambushed by hundreds of muslim men then stoned to death in public because she dishonored her family. I think we as a world and they as a religion need to wake the eff up.

btw the one incident I am speaking of, the family, yes, the family lied to her to get her to come back so this ambush could take place.

You may be referring to the murder of Du'a Khalil Aswad, who was a Yezidi. She was killed by a mob of other Yezidis for the "crime" of falling in love with a Muslim.
 

magomago

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Originally posted by: Kadarin
Originally posted by: Genx87
Originally posted by: jpeyton
It's a shame this still happens in some places. Luckily, most Muslims will agree with you that this practice needs to be abolished.

I'd love to believe that. But when video's of girls being ambushed by hundreds of muslim men then stoned to death in public because she dishonored her family. I think we as a world and they as a religion need to wake the eff up.

btw the one incident I am speaking of, the family, yes, the family lied to her to get her to come back so this ambush could take place.

You may be referring to the murder of Du'a Khalil Aswad, who was a Yezidi. She was killed by a mob of other Yezidis for the "crime" of falling in love with a Muslim.

bwahah i was going to post that ;)


Originally posted by: Jaskalas
If they are so eager to follow Islamic law, perhaps the man who shot at her should be buried neck deep and then stoned to death in front of his village.

Its not Islamic Law and there is no justification for it.

Originally posted by: Nitemare
Originally posted by: Rainsford
How many threads do we really need finding a bad story involving Muslims and then bashing the entire religion?

are there any good heart warming stories coming out of Muslim nations?

It doesn't bring in the money like stories about fear and death do. It comes down to what is reported

Originally posted by: TallBill
Originally posted by: Skoorb
What the hell kind of skull does she have for bullets to shatter on impact?

Not sure, but suprised that she wasn't knocked out from the concussion, regardless of the round used.

seriously...reminds me of a friend who has a head as hard as a rock. I swear if she wanted to she could bang her head on a block of concrete and come out unscathed.


Originally posted by: Baloo
Originally posted by: Hayabusa Rider
At least this can't be blamed on Islam. This is completely a cultural phenomenon. I'm not saying it's right, but if someone wants to start a "muslim" thread, they can look elsewhere.

Cilture and religion are not seperate things. Religion is a part of culture, not seperate from it. While I can appreciate where you are going with this, this cultural phenomen is derived from Islam, a perverse interpretation of it, but of it none-the-less. There was a time when christians burned or drowned women accused of witchery, a cultural phenomenon derived from a perverse interpretation of christianity.

Originally posted by: maluckey
...that doesn't mean we should go after other "believers" who aren't behaving in a violently anti-social manner.

True to an extent, but if the culture is so pervasive within a certain group, you truly have to wonder why? What is it about a certain group that foments this sort of behavior. In other communities or groups, this type of behavior would end in the assailant being torn to pieces.

You get the audience that you deserve is a statement that comes to mind.



Culture and religion are not completely separate, but there is a gradient of separation where you descend into pure culture and pure religion. Islam itself is not a culture on its own. What Islam does is (ideally) integrate into a culture and squash bad things (honor killings) in culture while trying to emphasize and raise others. If I had to make a comparison - I would say that cul;ture could be any morphology that exists, and Islam is a mask that depresses some areas, raises others, and leave other things alone. This is why Muslims around the world still have different culture.
That said - this is a relic from Pre Islamic days in Arabia. Women back then (in a period that is referred to as Jahaliyah) had no rights at all. At all. Islam was very radical in that change that it brought...but certain aspects were not depressed fully as the mask was applied. I would not hesitate to even say that the "mask" of Islam was removed and features were allowed to dominate again.
This is the main problem. An interesting thing to point out is that they killed her because "she dishonored the family"...or "didn't listen to the tribe" bla bla bla, religion often comes afterwards as a justification only if you prod them and counter their main thrust...because invoking god on your side is the ultimate trump card ;)
This phenomenon of honor killings doesn't exist soley within Muslims....other groups in the Middle East also have a similar type of stigma - which shows that perhaps screaming at religion alone is probably barking at the wrong tree. If anything , the emphasis of religion would actually alleviate problems.
Its like promoting the idea that Confucius was all for homosexual relations because it was something that, although not formally sanctioned in Chinese culture, tolerated and accepted to a degree. The reality is that a confucian ideology does not accept it. The ironic part is you'd have Confucian scholars entertaining males masquerading as females even though a pure confucianist (although that definition is actually relative to the time we are considering) would not tolerate that at all. Does it mean a Confucian supports promotes homosexuality? Nope. But does it mean that people often selectively cherry pick what to follow? Yup (and interestingly this was what Prophet Mohammed warned the most about ...not homosexuals, but people who selectively follow aspects and make things out of thin air as they go...its different between synthesizing a sound interpretation based on a text vs. pulling sh|t out of your ass :p)
 

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Honor so often becomes the ego's pretense to be the opposite of what we feel, that we are the most worthless in the world. We kill so we won't feel how we feel.
 

Nitemare

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Originally posted by: magomago
Originally posted by: Nitemare

are there any good heart warming stories coming out of Muslim nations?

It doesn't bring in the money like stories about fear and death do. It comes down to what is reported

The same can be said about American news, yet even good stories make it through occasionally.

Rarely do we hear about anything good at all coming from a Muslim nation except for the occasional article that gets leaked, where someone is going to be punished for breaking Shariah law and catches a break. Usually, it is a backward retarded repressive rule and the victim is going to get like 200 lashes or going to be beheaded. The story gets leaked and the "Muslim regime" says no, we are nice people, we won't punish her for doing something a man can do legally....although it greatly disrespects Islam.

A few weeks go by and a fundie takes care of what the government couldn't because it got called out.

Some years ago 50 women tried to make a statement by driving a car in Saudi Arabia. they were jailed, had their passports revoked and were all fired from their jobs.

A senior councilman suggested that older women be allowed to drive locally by themselves and chaperoned by a male guardian while traveling. There were calls for his removal and his being stripped of his citizenship.

Honor killings are legal in:
Jordan (laws are based on Islam)
Syria (Muslim country)
Morocco(Muslim country)
Haiti(French-African it is pardonable)

Honor killings are not legal, but are common in:
Turkey(Muslim country)
Pakistan(Muslim country, police and prosecutors ignore them over 1200 of them in 2003)
Iraq(Muslim country, happens nearly everyday)

Yeah, you can make the argument that the religion doesn't tell them to go kill women and that it is all tribal. Almost all of these honor killings occur in either a Muslim country or by a Muslim hand.
 

fskimospy

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Originally posted by: yuppiejr
Originally posted by: Rainsford
How many threads do we really need finding a bad story involving Muslims and then bashing the entire religion?

That's a good point, obviously by the community standards here it's allowed if we're talking about Christians, the US Military, the police, etc... but god forbid we discuss a story that paints some Muslims in a bad light...

Yeah, because that's a really big problem here. The same 2 or 3 people post story after story similar to this one. Often there are several threads on the main page alone talking about how Islam is bad because a Muslim did something bad.

Christianity, the US military, the police, don't get bashed half as much on here as Islam does. So.. you can dispense with the right wing persecution complex.
 

Nitemare

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Originally posted by: eskimospy
Originally posted by: yuppiejr
Originally posted by: Rainsford
How many threads do we really need finding a bad story involving Muslims and then bashing the entire religion?

That's a good point, obviously by the community standards here it's allowed if we're talking about Christians, the US Military, the police, etc... but god forbid we discuss a story that paints some Muslims in a bad light...

Yeah, because that's a really big problem here. The same 2 or 3 people post story after story similar to this one. Often there are several threads on the main page alone talking about how Islam is bad because a Muslim did something bad.

Christianity, the US military, the police, don't get bashed half as much on here as Islam does. So.. you can dispense with the right wing persecution complex.

They get their fairshare, but once again, give me some feel good news coming out of Muslim countries. I'll even take Al Jazeera articles.
 

Rainsford

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Originally posted by: eskimospy
Originally posted by: yuppiejr
Originally posted by: Rainsford
How many threads do we really need finding a bad story involving Muslims and then bashing the entire religion?

That's a good point, obviously by the community standards here it's allowed if we're talking about Christians, the US Military, the police, etc... but god forbid we discuss a story that paints some Muslims in a bad light...

Yeah, because that's a really big problem here. The same 2 or 3 people post story after story similar to this one. Often there are several threads on the main page alone talking about how Islam is bad because a Muslim did something bad.

Christianity, the US military, the police, don't get bashed half as much on here as Islam does. So.. you can dispense with the right wing persecution complex.

Yes thank you, that was my point. It's not the content so much as the repetition, and the fact that virtually none of the discussion is NEW. The exact same "Islam is evil" thread could be repeated 10 or 11 times, with only the initial story changing from thread to thread.

But who's talking about "community standards"? I'm just a guy posting his opinion on the topic...
 

datalink7

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Originally posted by: Skoorb
What the hell kind of skull does she have for bullets to shatter on impact?

I don't know, but some weird things happen with bullets sometimes.

I have a buddy over here in Iraq that got shot in the head. It penetrated his Kevlar helmet, bounced off his skull, and still had enough velocity to penetrate back out the side of the Kevlar. He only had a nasty gash. Lucky bastard :p
 

fskimospy

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Originally posted by: Nitemare
Originally posted by: eskimospy
Originally posted by: yuppiejr
Originally posted by: Rainsford
How many threads do we really need finding a bad story involving Muslims and then bashing the entire religion?

That's a good point, obviously by the community standards here it's allowed if we're talking about Christians, the US Military, the police, etc... but god forbid we discuss a story that paints some Muslims in a bad light...

Yeah, because that's a really big problem here. The same 2 or 3 people post story after story similar to this one. Often there are several threads on the main page alone talking about how Islam is bad because a Muslim did something bad.

Christianity, the US military, the police, don't get bashed half as much on here as Islam does. So.. you can dispense with the right wing persecution complex.

They get their fairshare, but once again, give me some feel good news coming out of Muslim countries. I'll even take Al Jazeera articles.

Why would that matter in the slightest? Certainly you aren't trying to argue that nothing good happens in Muslim countries, as that would be retarded. Posting the good things that happen there would not in any way address the problem, which is that people are finding something bad a Muslim did and attacking a whole religion because of it.
 

Nitemare

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Originally posted by: eskimospy
Originally posted by: Nitemare
Originally posted by: eskimospy
Originally posted by: yuppiejr
Originally posted by: Rainsford
How many threads do we really need finding a bad story involving Muslims and then bashing the entire religion?

That's a good point, obviously by the community standards here it's allowed if we're talking about Christians, the US Military, the police, etc... but god forbid we discuss a story that paints some Muslims in a bad light...

Yeah, because that's a really big problem here. The same 2 or 3 people post story after story similar to this one. Often there are several threads on the main page alone talking about how Islam is bad because a Muslim did something bad.

Christianity, the US military, the police, don't get bashed half as much on here as Islam does. So.. you can dispense with the right wing persecution complex.

They get their fairshare, but once again, give me some feel good news coming out of Muslim countries. I'll even take Al Jazeera articles.

Why would that matter in the slightest? Certainly you aren't trying to argue that nothing good happens in Muslim countries, as that would be retarded. Posting the good things that happen there would not in any way address the problem, which is that people are finding something bad a Muslim did and attacking a whole religion because of it.

Let me break it down....

There is good and there is bad...

We hear bad bad bad bad bad bad bad and more bad and ask for a single(1, uno, un) good article and I get...(crickets and tumbleweed)

Give me something good, just 1 thing.

If all someone hears is 100 bad things that someone or a group of people did and nothing good to counter it, then guess what unless they are incredibly naive they are going to believe that that group is bad.

In the court of public opinion, guess what?
 

fskimospy

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Originally posted by: Nitemare

Let me break it down....

There is good and there is bad...

We hear bad bad bad bad bad bad bad and more bad and ask for a single(1, uno, un) good article and I get...(crickets and tumbleweed)

Give me something good, just 1 thing.

If all someone hears is 100 bad things that someone or a group of people did and nothing good to counter it, then guess what unless they are incredibly naive they are going to believe that that group is bad.

In the court of public opinion, guess what?

This is a dumb question. What do you even mean by something good happening? Do you want a Muslim saving a kitten from a tree? How about the fact that Turkey's economy has expanded rapidly since 2001, attracting lots of foreign investment, and massively reducing inflation that was once a big problem? As shown here. That's great news for Turkey, as they may be able to enter the EU soon, and the quality of life of their citizens is going up. Or how about tales of incredible compassion and decency coming out of Iraq where whole neighborhoods are banding together to help people injured? As shown here?

Just asking for good things coming out of Muslim countries is really dumb. Any anecdotes I give you (and certainly there are millions upon millions) are just as stupid and worthless as the ones you are basing your opinions on. That's not how you make an informed opinion.

To take a bunch of unrelated bad things that people do in a religion that has a billion people in it, and to try and make a larger point about them using anecdotal evidence is stupid. Really really stupid. It doesn't take a naive person not to use 100 anecdotes to make a decision on a religion of a billion, it takes a person with a functional brain.

I did notice in your post now that you're trying to say that it's just a function of what people hear... that betrays the fact that you know the point you're trying to make is dishonest.
 

Rainsford

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Originally posted by: Nitemare
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Let me break it down....

There is good and there is bad...

We hear bad bad bad bad bad bad bad and more bad and ask for a single(1, uno, un) good article and I get...(crickets and tumbleweed)

Give me something good, just 1 thing.

If all someone hears is 100 bad things that someone or a group of people did and nothing good to counter it, then guess what unless they are incredibly naive they are going to believe that that group is bad.

In the court of public opinion, guess what?

eskimospy already outlined how silly that question is from a factual perspective, but it's also a little disingenuous the way you present it. You say "we hear bad bad bad..." implying that there is just this information out there that "we" randomly sample, so any random selection of news stories should be representative of what's really going on. Ignoring for the moment that the news focuses on bad things in general, nobody is randomly sampling anything. There is a dedicated, and rather large, group of people who actively seek out negative news stories about Muslims in an attempt to paint a picture. Call it confirmation bias or whatever you like, but the fact is that when you select stories based on how well they illustrate your point, it would be foolish for anyone else to accept such anecdotal evidence as proof of anything.
 

Nitemare

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Originally posted by: eskimospy
Originally posted by: Nitemare

Let me break it down....

There is good and there is bad...

We hear bad bad bad bad bad bad bad and more bad and ask for a single(1, uno, un) good article and I get...(crickets and tumbleweed)

Give me something good, just 1 thing.

If all someone hears is 100 bad things that someone or a group of people did and nothing good to counter it, then guess what unless they are incredibly naive they are going to believe that that group is bad.

In the court of public opinion, guess what?

This is a dumb question. What do you even mean by something good happening? Do you want a Muslim saving a kitten from a tree? How about the fact that Turkey's economy has expanded rapidly since 2001, attracting lots of foreign investment, and massively reducing inflation that was once a big problem? As shown here. That's great news for Turkey, as they may be able to enter the EU soon, and the quality of life of their citizens is going up. Or how about tales of incredible compassion and decency coming out of Iraq where whole neighborhoods are banding together to help people injured? As shown here?

Just asking for good things coming out of Muslim countries is really dumb. Any anecdotes I give you (and certainly there are millions upon millions) are just as stupid and worthless as the ones you are basing your opinions on. That's not how you make an informed opinion.

To take a bunch of unrelated bad things that people do in a religion that has a billion people in it, and to try and make a larger point about them using anecdotal evidence is stupid. Really really stupid. It doesn't take a naive person not to use 100 anecdotes to make a decision on a religion of a billion, it takes a person with a functional brain.

I did notice in your post now that you're trying to say that it's just a function of what people hear... that betrays the fact that you know the point you're trying to make is dishonest.

Was going to say good job, but noticed on the same page:
On Deadly Ground: The Women of Iraq
Doctor, divorcee, prostitute, prisoner -- these women risk their lives to talk about the reality of terror and hope in Iraq.
Saturday & Sunday, 8 p.m. ET
# Women killed in Iraqi city for wearing makeup
# Iraqi moms turn to prostitution

and yes Turkey is doing really well, but they are a secular Muslim nation who recognizes freedom of religion and separation of religion and government policies.

Turkey prohibits the wearing of religious headcovers and religious apparel within government buildings and schools. Personally, I'd like to see alot more of seperation of church and religion in the US

They are a perfect example of a Muslim nation that is currently in the 21st century. I learned a few things about the country, thanks for pointing it out. However, they still have the "Kurd problem" withing their borders.

 

fskimospy

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Originally posted by: Nitemare

Was going to say good job, but noticed on the same page:
On Deadly Ground: The Women of Iraq
Doctor, divorcee, prostitute, prisoner -- these women risk their lives to talk about the reality of terror and hope in Iraq.
Saturday & Sunday, 8 p.m. ET
# Women killed in Iraqi city for wearing makeup
# Iraqi moms turn to prostitution

and yes Turkey is doing really well, but they are a secular Muslim nation who recognizes freedom of religion and separation of religion and government policies.

Turkey prohibits the wearing of religious headcovers and religious apparel within government buildings and schools. Personally, I'd like to see alot more of seperation of church and religion in the US

They are a perfect example of a Muslim nation that is currently in the 21st century. I learned a few things about the country, thanks for pointing it out. However, they still have the "Kurd problem" withing their borders.

Well there you go then, a nation based on Islam that is doing just fine. (and don't try to convince yourself that it isn't..)

EDIT: fixed quotes.
 

Skyclad1uhm1

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Originally posted by: Skoorb
What the hell kind of skull does she have for bullets to shatter on impact?

Maybe protection from a higher power?

Or maybe she's a distant relative of Chuck Norris? :p
 

Hayabusa Rider

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Originally posted by: Jaskalas
Originally posted by: Hayabusa Rider
At least this can't be blamed on Islam. This is completely a cultural phenomenon. I'm not saying it's right, but if someone wants to start a "muslim" thread, they can look elsewhere.

I see the Islamic Supremacist apologists arrived.

Amina Said and her sister Sarah might have disagreed with you, if Islam Said didn't kill them in Texas. Must have been totally cultural eh? Ideology having noting to do with why the violent supremacist cancer spreads to our land?

Also, it?s safe harbor and fostering couldn?t have anything to do with your fervent defense of it eh?

LOL at the fervent defense. I assume that anyone who has a different thought than you is a "supporter" :roll:

A few years ago in Africa, there were a bunch people going around with machetes. Remember that? Well, many of those happened to be Christians. So Christianity had them doing that? No, but there were and are deep tribal differences which are CULTURAL that were really responsible. Shockingly enough Islam wasn't the problem. You've got your panties in such a knot that if anything happens in the ME, you will automatically blame it on the religion, completely neglecting any other factors. You've hamstrung your ability to discern as a result.
 
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We have about 13 honour killings in GB a year, about 13 of them are Indians killing their daughters.

The second and third generation Indians are keeping up with the first generations values, it's cultural.

Before the US invaded Iraq the overwhelming majority of terrorist attacks were made by the LTTE (somewhere around 80%) and the LTTE consists of mostly Hindus.

These are the fact and yet Muslims (even in Iraq though it is well known that before the US invasion 99.9% of the honour killings were commited by Kurds who were not Muslim) get blamed for both things.

If the US had not invaded Iraq, the LTTE would still be on top.
 

Nitemare

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Originally posted by: eskimospy
Originally posted by: Nitemare

Was going to say good job, but noticed on the same page:
On Deadly Ground: The Women of Iraq
Doctor, divorcee, prostitute, prisoner -- these women risk their lives to talk about the reality of terror and hope in Iraq.
Saturday & Sunday, 8 p.m. ET
# Women killed in Iraqi city for wearing makeup
# Iraqi moms turn to prostitution

and yes Turkey is doing really well, but they are a secular Muslim nation who recognizes freedom of religion and separation of religion and government policies.

Turkey prohibits the wearing of religious headcovers and religious apparel within government buildings and schools. Personally, I'd like to see alot more of seperation of church and religion in the US

They are a perfect example of a Muslim nation that is currently in the 21st century. I learned a few things about the country, thanks for pointing it out. However, they still have the "Kurd problem" withing their borders.

Well there you go then, a nation based on Islam that is doing just fine. (and don't try to convince yourself that it isn't..)

EDIT: fixed quotes.

Yes, but it is a Muslim nation that has taken religion out of the government. Most nations would be better if they took religion out of the government.
 

Nitemare

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Originally posted by: SoundTheSurrender
I thought a lot of Islamic countries feel that Turkey is corrupted due to the way it is.

they are, they aren't ruled by religious nuts like the rest of the area.
 

fskimospy

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Originally posted by: Nitemare

Well there you go then, a nation based on Islam that is doing just fine. (and don't try to convince yourself that it isn't..)

EDIT: fixed quotes.

Yes, but it is a Muslim nation that has taken religion out of the government. Most nations would be better if they took religion out of the government.[/quote]

So what you were really saying was that theocracy has a negative influence, and that has nothing to do with Islam specifically as compared to other religions.
 
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Originally posted by: Nitemare
Originally posted by: eskimospy
Originally posted by: Nitemare

Was going to say good job, but noticed on the same page:
On Deadly Ground: The Women of Iraq
Doctor, divorcee, prostitute, prisoner -- these women risk their lives to talk about the reality of terror and hope in Iraq.
Saturday & Sunday, 8 p.m. ET
# Women killed in Iraqi city for wearing makeup
# Iraqi moms turn to prostitution

and yes Turkey is doing really well, but they are a secular Muslim nation who recognizes freedom of religion and separation of religion and government policies.

Turkey prohibits the wearing of religious headcovers and religious apparel within government buildings and schools. Personally, I'd like to see alot more of seperation of church and religion in the US

They are a perfect example of a Muslim nation that is currently in the 21st century. I learned a few things about the country, thanks for pointing it out. However, they still have the "Kurd problem" withing their borders.

Well there you go then, a nation based on Islam that is doing just fine. (and don't try to convince yourself that it isn't..)

EDIT: fixed quotes.

Yes, but it is a Muslim nation that has taken religion out of the government. Most nations would be better if they took religion out of the government.

No shit? Could that be why every secular country that follows the ideals of liberalism is a successful country?

But this isn't exclusive for Muslims.
 
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Originally posted by: SoundTheSurrender
I thought a lot of Islamic countries feel that Turkey is corrupted due to the way it is.

Actually, to be against Turkey would be considered Heresy by most Islamic sects.

They are also very happy about them fighting Kurds, at one point it was the only real threat and it has not yet bean forgotten.

I think you are forgetting history, and so are others.
 

Nitemare

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Originally posted by: eskimospy
Originally posted by: Nitemare
Originally posted by: eskimospy
Well there you go then, a nation based on Islam that is doing just fine. (and don't try to convince yourself that it isn't..)

EDIT: fixed quotes.

Yes, but it is a Muslim nation that has taken religion out of the government. Most nations would be better if they took religion out of the government.

So what you were really saying was that theocracy has a negative influence, and that has nothing to do with Islam specifically as compared to other religions.

Islam amplifies it more, especially the Fundamental flavor of it.