Humans are not animals - we can change and control our behavior, at least to some degree. People have a choice about their sexual activities, in spite of the desires and temptations they face.
		
		
	 
i feel really, really and honestly bad and sad for you since i definetly believe you do NOT post this with a "bad' intention - but instead really believe that yourself.
Not only is this of course highly doubtable ("choice of my sexual orientation ?") but also highly....NAIVE with a very subtile (but nevertheless present) intention of saying ("*This* behavior is *bad* - therefore there should be efforts to change it).
The "THIS IS BAD!" comes necessarely FIRST - otherwise there would be no reason for various efforts to change it in the first place.
A gay person would only make an effort to "change" (wrongly) realizing its own "guilt" and the "doing bad and forbidden things" - the problem ONLY is that the "guilt" and feeling of doing bad things is externally triggered - it is created by intolerance of the society and, also, people like you.
If there wouldn't be people like you, there wouldn't be "efforts to change" because the gay person COULD just continue living its life.
I can very well see that a gay person can have fullfillment in a gay relationship. 
If --->YOU<--- cant, then its maybe rather time YOU take some counceling and get rid of your problems and mental blockades - instead of coming up with false "This is RIGHT - this is WRONG !" ideas and "Solutions how to turn the wrong things into the good ones" - "a wrong behavior " which (i guess) is mainly seen by you. (I mean, YOU are the one supporting the "behavior change"...ever wonder why ?
Again, reading your posting leads me to believe you are genuine...then i read how you proclaim to be tolerant...but still EVERYONE clearly sees the undertone of your entire postings that you believe that gays are "on the wrong side" and "would benefit from turning around, the sooner, the better".
Your posting just shows me your very own insecurity and problems dealing with that subject since you keep alternating your "support and tolerance" phrases" with other sentences where you basically say that "not being gay is the better/healthier way".