Originally posted by: JohnOfSheffield
Originally posted by: LunarRay
Originally posted by: JohnOfSheffield
Originally posted by: LunarRay
Originally posted by: Moonbeam
JoS, what I think you are saying is that it is bad to be a bigot and that because bigotry is bad it follows rationally one should be bigoted against bigots, to which Corn replies that it isn't OK if it is bigotry. So who is right? I don't know but I would say that bigotry is bad and whether you or Corn is right you both agree on that.
So the real issue, as it always really is, is what is really bad and what is bigotry, the irrational feeling that something is bad that isn't.
Is there any real truth in life or is everything what you were taught and individual opinion. Hehe.
Oh boy!... Is it rational for a person to hate all bigots? I don't think so, however, it is rational to look upon A bigot with contempt for their actions and belief. So... Is it OK for Corn to hate the haters as a group and be free of the bigot label? A yes vote would contradict the rational aspect and a no vote would sustain it, and that is a conundrum. I think.
But, If we define a Bigot within my narrow parameters and accept the notion that we as a society justify lots of double standards like killing the killer, etc. it not only becomes appropriate but also expected if not demanded. Perhaps!
I don't think it is, we, as normal empathic people do realize equal worth. What we do not accept are people who believe or act upon beliefs that people are NOT equal or share the same rights with the rest of us.
Naturally, this excludes people who step outside of that definition since they, by beliefs or actions, cannot belong within that definition and as such they are defined as criminals or even enemies.
Isn't this really what every nations court system is based off of? (i know the military protocol that i have served under for over 20 years is based off of that)
Or am i wrong in that assessment? I don't think i am.
In general I've not issue with your thinking.
I recall another thread that I wrestled with but can't recall if it was yesterday or 5 yrs ago.. Had to do with Gays in Military. AND, how I felt about that from
A pov. I concluded I had to include military folks as part of society and Gay folks too no matter their location or function.
If I
didn't like the 'Don't ask, Don't tell' position was I having rational feelings or somewhat bigoted ones toward the Gays on this issue.
To be rational I'd have to be able to reject the notion that Gays could be good soldiers regardless of my knowledge of their Gayness. That I couldn't do. I would have to reject all the info about folks being Gay and being good soldiers. IF I knew they were Gay and had the attitude they could not be good soldiers it was then MY bigotry at play, I figured.So why then can't Gays be open about their gayness and be in the military. I know I'd not have minded having a girl on a PBR with me... Might have made the time pass more um.... comfortably but a gay guy on board 'hitting' on me - notice I presumed 'hitting' on me, no way. That is what gay guys do, right? (rhetorical) I'd might have 'hit' on the girl, but that is different, I figured. So is my dilemma one where I'm afraid of a gay guy's advances and turned that into being a bigot to maintain my distance and dislike or what.
So... after pondering, I concluded that the DADT regulation was a bigoted position against Gays. The issue is not that the Gay can't be a good soldier but the non Gay in a foxhole with a known Gay can't be a good soldier because he'd be distracted or worse and no amount of training can alter that. Maybe he is bigoted but made so by society's majority and that it is, therefore, ok to be bigoted in this situation. Ergo, the regulation is ok too. (State sponsored bigotry)
The sense of that still eludes me. I support it because what is is... and I'd rather have a live soldier and a ticked off Gay than the opposite.
Wait, wait, wait, is it arrogance or idiocy you are portraying when you automatically assume that a gay guy would be attracted to you, a heterosesual male? Why would he be if he prefers a sex you don't, that would be like you hitting on a man, would it not? That is a hangup in this discussion that is not relevant to the important part of the discussion but i had to remark on that. Especially as my first Liutenant in Kosovo was a female and i didn't hit on her (and yeah, she was definently "hittable").
Well the rest is just related to what i just wrote and it's rubbish, complete and utter rubbish.
It's like thinking that if there are women where soldiers are going they will all get shot because they are distracted by women who don't want anything to do with them.
I don't support DADT and the UK SAS does not support it. If you do your duty i don't give a sheit if you are a woman or a gay, you carry out my orders because that is what soldiers do regardless of gender or sexual orientation, if you can't do that, it doesn't matter if you are heterosexual or half horse, you don't belong in the military.
Now the view you portray is that of a homophobe who thinks that every gay man, just because he is gay, is attracted to you in such a way you are a distraction for him, you are either extremely beautiful for gays or just plain stupid.
I'd rather have a good solder who follows orders and is gay than a fucker who spends his days thinking about gay men and if there are any in the platoon.
For fucks sake, they don't get less gay because they can't say they are gay, everyone still fucking knows. shape the fuck up Lunar and discard this bullsheit where it belongs, behind you.