I recently got bored and tossed in a second graphic card in my rig for dual monitors =
that should be a normal thing. when your computer posts, it will only display on the primary monitor and your secondary should be in power saving or standby. As soon as xp begins to load, then your secondary will activate before the GUI finally boots. I have a couple of buddys with the same issue - to us, its normal! if you swap "priorites" of your monitors, the same thing should happen.
if you want to have both screens displaying info on post, I suggest you get into programming and after you write a decent piece of code, freeware it for us to try out!
hey i could be wrong and there may be a way to have both post = but i belive what your going through is normal behaivor... unless xp fully boots up and after you bring up your dvd player the sec kicks on -