Help me make the biggest decision in my life.

Hector13 · May 11, 2003

Originally posted by: iwearnosox
At 16 you're fortunate your dad doesn't plant his foot in your arse and impose his will.

$10,000?

You're spoiled, go whine somewhere else.

that is exactly what I was thinking. If I was your dad, you choices would be:

1) Move, stfu and be happy about it
2) stay in detriot, pay your own rent, and never ask me for anything again (ie, you will be disowned).

Jeez, being bribed to move... talk about spoiled

Ylen13 · May 11, 2003

stay , i see no reason to move

Chaotic42 · May 11, 2003

This is the funniest thing I've read all year.

Paying you to move with the family? Hell, I'd say you'd better be in the damn car or you'll live on the street.

What the hell is wrong with parents these days?

RavnShield · May 11, 2003

I say move and get the experience. Before I moved to Troy, Michigan, I lived in 3 other countries, 6 different cities and 7 different schools...don't regret it one bit and didn't have a choice either.

Chaotic42 · May 11, 2003

My friend has an even better idea. He needs to spend the $10,000 and send your ass to military school. Look out for the soap-in-a-sock.

Ylen13 · May 11, 2003

Originally posted by: Chaotic42
This is the funniest thing I've read all year.

Paying you to move with the family? Hell, I'd say you'd better be in the damn car or you'll live on the street.

What the hell is wrong with parents these days?

i do not see anything wrong with his parents. They decided that the move will affect him the most and decided that he should have the decision on this matter. If he moves, he will be in a city, will lose al of his friends, starting school with out knowing anyone. Not have any to hang out with then parents, not know anything about the city and having any friends will make him bored etc

cyclistca · May 11, 2003

Help me make the biggest decision in my life.

baha, baha,baha. Spolled brat.

jonmullen · May 11, 2003

don't move, get kicked out on the street. Lose that internet connection I bet your parents are paying for say hello to the homeless guy in the box next to you and stop posting.

Ylen13 · May 11, 2003

Originally posted by: jonmullen
don't move, get kicked out on the street. Lose that internet connection I bet your parents are paying for say hello to the homeless guy in the box next to you and stop posting.

something tells me if the don't move they will not move so dont' have to worry about that.

Hector13 · May 11, 2003

Originally posted by: Ylen13

Originally posted by: Chaotic42
This is the funniest thing I've read all year.

Paying you to move with the family? Hell, I'd say you'd better be in the damn car or you'll live on the street.

What the hell is wrong with parents these days?

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i do not see anything wrong with his parents. They decided that the move will affect him the most and decided that he should have the decision on this matter. If he moves, he will be in a city, will lose al of his friends, starting school with out knowing anyone. Not have any to hang out with then parents, not know anything about the city and having any friends will make him bored etc

it will affect him the most? How do you figure? What about his parents who will have to start new jobs without knowing anyone? Or who will have to financially support the family? What if their new job(s) doesn't work out? Who will have to pay the mortgage?

Won't they not know anything about the city and also have no friends there yet?

Chaotic42 · May 11, 2003

Originally posted by: Ylen13

i do not see anything wrong with his parents. They decided that the move will affect him the most and decided that he should have the decision on this matter. If he moves, he will be in a city, will lose al of his friends, starting school with out knowing anyone. Not have any to hang out with then parents, not know anything about the city and having any friends will make him bored etc

What a joke.

Moving is reality. Ask any military kid. What, we're going to start paying a teenager 6 months wages of some families so that he doesn't have to deal with life?

Jejunum · May 11, 2003

wheres the "your a spoiled brat" option in this poll?

EDIT: wait this must be a parody of something?

slackerinabox · May 11, 2003

Hey, kid.. Whoever you are.. Lemme say that I'm glad that you're not moving to my part of the world... Now, hear me out here.. I don't blame you for being spoiled.. No one is born spoiled nor did you make yourself spoiled.. That's why I think any anger/frustration focused onto you by memebers of this forum is slightly unjustified.... But, please, understand this: it is not normal, healthy behavior for parents to pay-off their own child in order to move... Even if your parents had 2.5 billion dollars in the bank I would say that it's wrong.. Think about the situation - they worked their entire lives and THEY feel the need to move. They love you so much that they would like your input.. That's wonderful.. Sit down with them and talk this out.. The mature thing to do is to realize that, barring unusual circumstances (disabilities, etc.), your parents hopes and wishes should come before yours. The fact that they're willing to pay you $10,000 is testament to their strong desire to move. If you were a mature individual, reject the bribe.. Understand that your parents will help you out if the move terribly inconveniences you (if you need a car I'm sure they'll help you out at that point) and taking a bribe for something that you should be doing anyways speaks volumes about your character and your love (or lack of) of your parents.. I'm rambling now but, please, do the mature thing for the good of your parents.. As far as friends go - I did move from one state to another when I was in highschool - the casual friends from my old evaporated but I did make new and better friends.. My best friend remains my best friend and we speak everyday via email /im (and see each other whenever possible).. Change is what life is about..

Ylen13 · May 11, 2003

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Hey, kid.. Whoever you are.. Lemme say that I'm glad that you're not moving to my part of the world... Now, hear me out here.. I don't blame you for being spoiled.. No one is born spoiled nor did you make yourself spoiled.. That's why I think any anger/frustration focused onto you by memebers of this forum is slightly unjustified.... But, please, understand this: it is not normal, healthy behavior for parents to pay-off their own child in order to move... Even if your parents had 2.5 billion dollars in the bank I would say that it's wrong.. Think about the situation - they worked their entire lives and THEY feel the need to move. They love you so much that they would like your input.. That's wonderful.. Sit down with them and talk this out.. The mature thing to do is to realize that, barring unusual circumstances (disabilities, etc.), your parents hopes and wishes should come before yours. The fact that they're willing to pay you $10,000 is testament to their strong desire to move. If you were a mature individual, reject the bribe.. Understand that your parents will help you out if the move terribly inconveniences you (if you need a car I'm sure they'll help you out at that point) and taking a bribe for something that you should be doing anyways speaks volumes about your character and your love (or lack of) of your parents.. I'm rambling now but, please, do the mature thing for the good of your parents.. As far as friends go - I did move from one state to another when I was in highschool - the casual friends from my old evaporated but I did make new and better friends.. My best friend remains my best friend and we speak everyday via email /im (and see each other whenever possible).. Change is what life is about..

do not listen to him or anyone else stay were u are!!!

slackerinabox · May 11, 2003

Do you happen to live in Arizona?

I'm sure once he realized that he needs to grow up a bit that he'll be a fine neighbor!

Originally posted by: Ylen13

Originally posted by: freedomsbeat212
Hey, kid.. Whoever you are.. Lemme say that I'm glad that you're not moving to my part of the world... Now, hear me out here.. I don't blame you for being spoiled.. No one is born spoiled nor did you make yourself spoiled.. That's why I think any anger/frustration focused onto you by memebers of this forum is slightly unjustified.... But, please, understand this: it is not normal, healthy behavior for parents to pay-off their own child in order to move... Even if your parents had 2.5 billion dollars in the bank I would say that it's wrong.. Think about the situation - they worked their entire lives and THEY feel the need to move. They love you so much that they would like your input.. That's wonderful.. Sit down with them and talk this out.. The mature thing to do is to realize that, barring unusual circumstances (disabilities, etc.), your parents hopes and wishes should come before yours. The fact that they're willing to pay you $10,000 is testament to their strong desire to move. If you were a mature individual, reject the bribe.. Understand that your parents will help you out if the move terribly inconveniences you (if you need a car I'm sure they'll help you out at that point) and taking a bribe for something that you should be doing anyways speaks volumes about your character and your love (or lack of) of your parents.. I'm rambling now but, please, do the mature thing for the good of your parents.. As far as friends go - I did move from one state to another when I was in highschool - the casual friends from my old evaporated but I did make new and better friends.. My best friend remains my best friend and we speak everyday via email /im (and see each other whenever possible).. Change is what life is about..

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do not listen to him or anyone else stay were u are!!!

slackerinabox · May 11, 2003

To original poster: lemme also add that I would have never met my gf if I had stayed in my old 'hood.. I'll also add that my old neighborhood has gone to hell now and I may have been the victim of a drive by had I stayed.. Get out of detroit!

BadNewsBears · May 11, 2003

Whatever dudes. Im not retarted. The family isnt going to move without me? Ya dad "Kick me out of the house please!" Smacktards

BadNewsBears · May 11, 2003

Also by my life i dont mean that there wont be anything bigger. Jezus. I think it has been the biggest decison I had ever to make since im only 16!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! . I never had to choose to move across the USA before. Hey btw my dad doesnt want to move that much either. Its all mom because of her piss poor additude during the winters here. And wtf is wrong with being spoiled. Brat? Are you some pansy a88 women? Calling other men brats? COME THE FRIK ON!

Krakerjak · May 11, 2003

I just can't believe your parents are trying to bribe you to move.
I have had to move with my family to 3 different cities, and even more times within the same cities. I didn't want to move but i had no say.

It will suck at first but you will make new friends

Muzzan · May 12, 2003

You're actually going to accept 10 grand from your parents just for moving? WTF!?

Kerouactivist · May 12, 2003

There are way to many assclowns on this board.

Anyway regardless of the money I would move, it will be good for you it'll teach you how to adjust to change and prepare you for college if that is something your planning on doing.

You should take the 5k and buy a car and then take the 10k and invest it in the stock market, bonds, or cd's and use it for college.

Xionide · May 12, 2003

Tell your dad that anything under $20,000 is Toilet paper

iwearnosox · May 12, 2003

Originally posted by: Munchies
Whatever dudes. Im not retarted. The family isnt going to move without me? Ya dad "Kick me out of the house please!" Smacktards

Send your ass to military school. You asked for opinions, you got them. Was everyone supposed to agree with you?

I wish it was my foot in your ass right about now.

Sunburst · May 12, 2003

I live in Tucson right now, UofA, and I have to say the weather is very nice. It is hot, but not too hot, a few degrees cooler than phoenix. From what i've seen of tucson, around the campus, it is pretty ghetto, however I hear that further form campus it is a lot nicer. So go for the move, nice whether, very nice girls at UofA (have to wear less, so hot

). Go for it, meet new people
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Sunburst

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