Help me catch that cheatin' wife

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idNut

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Originally posted by: mbeach
I need help, every chance she gets, she?s online with her boyfriend (she even admits it).

That makes me physically ill. I HATE the idea of online relationships, I HATE IT!
 

rudder

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Originally posted by: n0cmonkey
Originally posted by: PG
How would he be an ass for trying to gather proof that she's cheating on him? Isn't it his computer too? I guess it might not be, we don't know that. But she's the one doing something wrong, not him. He's just asking for help and I'd rather see him spend money on something other than the software.

I agree that he should spend his money elsewhere. Invading her privacy, no matter how much it means to him, is an evil thing to do.

Maybe he wants a divorce. Rather than get court ordered marital counseling he would rather present evidence of her infidelity. Hiring a PI to take pictures costs mucho $$$, capturing some emails and chats would be a lt cheaper. But I am no lawyer and don't know how that evidence would stand up anyway.
 

n0cmonkey

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Originally posted by: rudder
Originally posted by: n0cmonkey
Originally posted by: PG
How would he be an ass for trying to gather proof that she's cheating on him? Isn't it his computer too? I guess it might not be, we don't know that. But she's the one doing something wrong, not him. He's just asking for help and I'd rather see him spend money on something other than the software.

I agree that he should spend his money elsewhere. Invading her privacy, no matter how much it means to him, is an evil thing to do.

Maybe he wants a divorce. Rather than get court ordered marital counseling he would rather present evidence of her infidelity. Hiring a PI to take pictures costs mucho $$$, capturing some emails and chats would be a lt cheaper. But I am no lawyer and don't know how that evidence would stand up anyway.

Computer evidence is typically a pain in court. Not to mention there are typically ways to gather evidence, and doing it improperly can make it inadmissable.
 

MrDudeMan

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what the hell is wrong with you mbeach?

you are seriously her b!tch if you are going to let her say that to you and then take it


omg
 

Soybomb

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Originally posted by: Mrburns2007
You guys are soooooooooooo full of crap, PI's invade people's privacy everyday. A lot of people get PI's to check up on the spouses to see if there is something going on.


It can save you a bundle in a divorce and it's legal too.

The guy who can't afford to buy a piece of spying software needs to protect his assets? It can't save what you don't have. If he does have anything to protect than he needs to consult and attorney to see if any of this information could help him and how to collect it legally.

I'm with noc, I don't see the need for this software, she's already admitted she had a boyfriend. He knows what he needs to know. Privacy aside, whats the point? He needs to spend his energy in better ways now. It might well be time for some counseling so he can decide what he wants to do (I'd leave) and how he can deal with it emotionally since from this thread I'm guessing it would help.
 

ROTC1983

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Where is Mbeach? He hasn't said anything else than the first post? You still there mbeach?
 

psianime

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Thats messed up man. Nothing is preventing you from getting a GF of your own! =D

-psianime
 

Vampirrella

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i think ppl should just mind their own business instead of flaming the thread starter here.. he has his own reasons and simply asked a very valid question about spy-software. Leave it at that.. he didnt ask your opinion about his personal matters.
 

rickn

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Where is Mbeach? He hasn't said anything else than the first post? You still there mbeach?

dead perhaps? hell hath no fury like a woman scorned, or her chat coversations compromised..teehee
 

n0cmonkey

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Originally posted by: Vampirrella
i think ppl should just mind their own business instead of flaming the thread starter here.. he has his own reasons and simply asked a very valid question about spy-software. Leave it at that.. he didnt ask your opinion about his personal matters.

And for the price of an answer I threw my $0.13 in there. If I hadnt, this thread would have been in the wrong forum. Plus, if he didnt want us to know and discuss, he would not have said why he needed the software.
 

Orsorum

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Originally posted by: Dudd
Originally posted by: Red Dawn
Originally posted by: luvly
It is things like these that make me give men a hard time and rule out marriage for now.
Yeah right, a supposed Statuesque Super Model like yourself probably doesn't have to deal with the Clearasil Cowboys who post about their relationship problems here

Damn Red, you owe me a Dr. Pepper. Clearasil Cowboys, classic.

Haha, me, too. Good thing I wasn't drinking anything or else I'd have a new laptop monitor/board to buy. :D
 

Orsorum

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Originally posted by: Geekbabe
Originally posted by: Aceshigh
To all the people cracking on this guy for asking about this, have you ever had someone you love cheat on you? There is no worse feeling in the world than being deceived and cheated on by the woman you love.


Having a husband do it is no bed of roses either...

It hurts when anyone does it. It's a breach of the most intimate of trusts.
 

BD231

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There's really no use for question here, trying to find ways of allegation on someone who has already admidtted wrong doing is childish and pointless. Get a divorce and leave her nothing, women get away with robery in divorces, but if you have jack to begin with then she wont get much out of it.
 

NOSOUP4U

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mbeach is a troll

I would not be surprised if he doesnt even have a wife, much less a g/f.
 

AkumaX

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Originally posted by: oldsmoboat
Originally posted by: Ime
This guy sounds like a troll to me.

he probably just made up some story so that he can get links to the spyware and probably put it on someone's computer so he can get cc info, pws, etc...
 

ROTC1983

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Originally posted by: rickn
Where is Mbeach? He hasn't said anything else than the first post? You still there mbeach?

dead perhaps? hell hath no fury like a woman scorned, or her chat coversations compromised..teehee

Yup, you might be right on that....:p
 

vladgur

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alternatively, why dont you try to settle the score. Im sure there are hundreds of hot babes here on AT that will help the poor husband like you to get back at your wife