I understand this sympathy completely. Unfortunately as I grew up with an odd habit of questioning everything, having been exposed to the notion that most people including myself had an arrogance issue that caused me to believe that my opinions as to what I thought I wanted anctuslly amounted to forcefully inculcated demands of others around the that I regard what the wanted me was what they told me I should believe was what I wanted but really wasn’t.
In short, I realized that what I was told to believe what was best for me was to accept being a go along get along sheep, because I would be beaten to death if I failed to conform.
Owing to such unconscious pressure, therefore, I now believe that people can easily be programmed to believe their self interest is things that will wind up biting them in the ass.
This turned me into a bleeding heart liberal who is of the opinion, owing to the tremendous sacrifice of the respect of all those who tried to mold me in their image I suffered losing by telling them to fuck off. I paid a huge price and gained with great struggle final equanimity. As a person incapable of doubting the advanced nature of my understanding of such matters, and as a liberal my brothers keeper, I needed to tell you this. Of course I know you can’t hear me and that what I’m telling you will sound like arrogance. My responsibility ends in the telling. Nobody can be made to see. It isn’t everybody who knows we are our worst enemy. That’s a painful insight.