Guys & Gals: Your reaction to this scenerio

[Namuna]

This happened in a past relationship, but I still get different reactions from different people. See what you think...

I was in a new relationship with this girl. The apartment she was living in is very close to an ex-boyfriend's place and the guy makes a point to always involve himself. She speaks of him quite LOWLY, basically making this guy out to be a real lowlife and how she hates dealing with him. We'll say his name is Richard.

One night, I get a late call from her. She had just gotten home after being stranded at the Train Station because her car wouldn't start. Feeling bad about that I of course express my concern for her and ask how she got home. She says she called Richard and got help.

Think about that for a second, she called a person she so clearly said she despised. Her reasoning was she didn't want a hassle and that Richard lived close by and it was the easiest way.

So, anyone besides me, think that's a bit 'suspect'?

 

[bigbootydaddy]

if it doesnt bother her it shouldnt bother you.

 

[FettsBabe]

VERY interesting. I think he dumped her and still had the hots for him! He maybe even decided he wanted her back and thats why he bothered the "new" couple. Makes ya wonder doesn't it!!!!!

 

[Isla]

Sounds like she and Richard are perfect candidates for marriage...

JK! JK!

 

[Shack70]

I think that a relationship is based on trust...If you can trust her then it's ok. If not, you guys got problems.

 

[fdiskboy]

Let's see, if I despised someone, I'd call a cab before I called them for help.

If that person was also an ex? I'd walk.

Trust no one.

 

[Namuna]

I KNEW she was a 'shady' chick after that instance. I even tried to break-up with her after that cause I knew that was just a MILD omen of worse things to come.

But she talked me out of it, and of course it turned out like I thought and we broke up soon after anyway.

But to me there's no bad relationships, it's all learning experiences.

 

[tinneric]

Sounds like she has some issues. She is still hot for Richard.

 

[sawdust]

Namuna, you said it happened in a past relationship seems to me that you have figured it out. if it was a relationship that was not to get serious about, it was ok but other than that you was on your way to get your feelings step on.

 

[Yo Ma Ma]

What fdiskboy said.

 

[nippyjun]

Honesty and open-ness are cornerstones of a relationship. You need to tell her of your jealousy. Get it out in the open. Just my opinion...

 

[Zedfu]

'not making any conclusions here, but it doesn't take a genious to figure something's not right