(Guy Thread) Your ex-girlfriend turned into a slut, but won't give you any...does this bother you?

[Spamela]

She's torturing you. Plain and simple.

 

[eakers]

everytime i read a post by you micheal i get so angry.

you are such a womanizer

STOP IT. WE'RE PEOPLE TOO DAMMIT.

 

[PlatinumGold]

everytime i read a post by you micheal i get so angry.

you are such a womanizer

STOP IT. WE'RE PEOPLE TOO DAMMIT.

Eakers, u really mean it?? ur not just a big hand?

 

[Draco]

Keep trying, she'll come around. My ex is/was a big slut. Who knows how many lineal miles of d1ck she's had in her, but she is great in the sack Always good for an occasional booty call. Just make sure you protect yourself

I think women get a bad wrap for having sex with a lot of guys, because any guy who is able to rack up 20-30 women is usually praised by his male friends, but a female... well she's just a dirty slut. Not really fair.

 

[Fausto]

Serious answer: I think those who have posited that she's wary of killing the friendship by getting physically involved with her are probably on the right track. Friendships are a lot harder to come by than sex IMO, so perhaps it's all for the best (although Mike Jr and the Twins probably think otherwise).

Non-Serious answer: Does she have any good friends you could hook up with? That'd learn her. :Q

 

[eakers]

Originally posted by: PlatinumGold

everytime i read a post by you micheal i get so angry.

you are such a womanizer

STOP IT. WE'RE PEOPLE TOO DAMMIT.

Eakers, u really mean it?? ur not just a big hand?

money.
that is the trick to gettin the us young ones i hear.

 

[PlatinumGold]

I think women get a bad wrap for having sex with a lot of guys, because any guy who is able to rack up 20-30 women is usually praised by his male friends, but a female... well she's just a dirty slut. Not really fair.

classic. such guys are called STUDS and such women are called SLUTS.

studs = sluts but in the eyes of society, stud is good slut is bad. go figure.

 

[kassy]

But the GUY in me feels that there's nothing wrong w/casual sex. Lots of people (men AND women) have that "Partner Under Glass." You know, "In case of emergency, break glass?"

You say you find nothing wrong with casual sex, obviously that is only if you are male, because you refer to yourself as 'studly' but describe her as a slut?

You refer to her as a slut and loose - and yet you say you respect her?

Perhaps she realizes that you don't respect her on that level and therefore finds any pole other than yours exciting.

 

[propellerhead]

Originally posted by: MichaelD
She's been meeting guys at clubs, on the internet etc

Oh yea, gimme her email address. What chat rooms does she hang out in?

[just kidding]

 

[MichaelD]

Originally posted by: kassy

But the GUY in me feels that there's nothing wrong w/casual sex. Lots of people (men AND women) have that "Partner Under Glass." You know, "In case of emergency, break glass?"

You say you find nothing wrong with casual sex, obviously that is only if you are male, because you refer to yourself as 'studly' but describe her as a slut?

You refer to her as a slut and loose - and yet you say you respect her?

Perhaps she realizes that you don't respect her on that level and therefore finds any pole other than yours exciting.

Maybe I should have said "slut-like behavior" instead of "slut?" Possibly, my choice of words was incorrect. I DO respect her...I wouldn't consider her a good friend if I didn't respect her.

I still stand by my convictions that if she purposely doesn't "settle down" with one guy and is "out and about" then she can share. So there.

 

[AU Tiger]

Just curious, is this the same ex-girlfriend that was either naked or throwing things when she was drunk?

 

[kassy]

I still stand by my convictions that if she purposely doesn't "settle down" with one guy and is "out and about" then she can share. So there.

Yep, she can share, with the people that she decides to share with.
Why you feel that just because she is a sharing, caring kinda gal that she should 'share' with you is beyond me.

If someone that you werent attracted to said to you 'hey if you can fvck anything thats breathing then you can fvck me', you would tell them to naff off.

The facts speak for themselves - it appears that she is no longer attracted to you and obviously doesnt find you as 'studly' as you find yourself.

 

[MichaelD]

Originally posted by: AU Tiger
Just curious, is this the same ex-girlfriend that was either naked or throwing things when she was drunk?

Negative. Last I heard, she was living up in Dallas somewhere. I have zero desire to see that one ever again.

The facts speak for themselves - it appears that she is no longer attracted to you and obviously doesnt find you as 'studly' as you find yourself

Well, you may just be right. I am, however, still studly.

 

[Rainsford]

Real Answer: Maybe she's just messing with you, but my guess would be that she really values your friendship and doesn't want to wreck it my sleeping with you. Believe it or not, that is a big mistake for a lot of friends. It just changes something about the friendship, and she probably doesn't want to risk that. The other guys she has no attachment to, so one night stands with them is just fine, she looses nothing and it never becomes "weird". But trust me, once you are in the friend zone, most girls don't want to mess it up unless they are serious about wanting to get back together. And I know most guys dread the "friend zone", I'd have to say that it isn't too bad sometimes. Girls are a ton of fun to just have as friends, so just enjoy that and stop wanting something that probably won't work out anyways. Just enjoy her friendship and get a girlfriend if you need to be sleeping with someone. If you really like her as a friend, I don't think you should want to mess it up either. You might not care if you sleep with her or not, but she probably would.

Smartass Answer: What do you mean she's not giving you any? She's already screwing you.

 

[CrazyDe1]

I'd be more bothered that she turned into a slut than that she wouldn't give me any...I don't like nice innocent girls becoming sluts. I've seen it happen twice, one girl I was dating turned into a stripper, and it bothered me more she turned into a stripper than that I never got any from her. The other girl became a slut and kept offering it to me as in one day she goes I lost my virginity, but I'm not loose enough so it doens't feel good yet, can you come help me out...I declined...becuase again it makes me kinda sad to see nice girls like that turn slutty...
I'd rather never get any and have a nice girl stay nice, than get some from some girl I knew as nice that turned into a slut

 

[Stark]

So you don't want to make a committment to this girl because she has cats and you're whining because she won't share her p@ssy...

make up your mind already!

Seriously though, you are a greasy dirtbag.

 

[MichaelD]

Originally posted by: Stark
So you don't want to make a committment to this girl because she has cats and you're whining because she won't share her p@ssy...

make up your mind already!

Seriously though, you are a greasy dirtbag.

I am not greasy!

 

[Azraele]

If she doesn't want to, she doesn't want to. Just because you want it doesn't mean she should "cave."

She rebuffed me with "our friendship would suffer for it...not worth it." And she's probably right.

Your answer is there.

Sex is about a couple, your attitude does not include a couple, you're thinking only of what you want.

She says "yes, it will be great and then I won't be able to look at myself in the mirror without feeling guilty."

You would really put her through that? She's told you what giving in to what you want would do to her. You're being selfish and inconsiderate imho.

 

[TuffGirl]

Did it occur to you that maybe she still has feelings for you? After all, you are the one that ended the relationship, not her. I'm not saying she is friends with you in hopes of getting back with you; you describe her as a genuinely good friend. But perhaps she thinks if she sleeps with you again, she will get attached and she knows that will suck so she avoids it understandably. Maybe she's just protecting herself.

 

[narzy]

why should it bother me, she's my ex, I hate her guts, I stick axes in her car, I burned down her house, I ate her cat and sent her the pictures, she now has no house, no car, no cat, and VD, her life couldn't get any worse...

 

[NikPreviousAcct]

Your ex-girlfriend turned into a slut, but won't give you any...does this bother you?

It would if I was into using people. But since I'm actually a decent human being, no. Wanna jump her bones? Mend the relationship and get right with her first.

nik

 

[Beowulf]

Tell her you want to hit it and that she can even put on a bag and pretend she isn't there with you.

 

[amnesiac]

Get her out of your life; it's not worth it. My ex is the same way.. I went out for drinks with her on Friday.. and she kissed me, after which she told me she cheated on her boyfriend (again!) the night before with some trashy guy (the type she once swore she's NEVER sleep with) and said she could never "do that to me" because it would "hurt me too much."
Add to that she blamed her promiscuity on her medication (BS! She could care less about helping herself) and the worst part was that she didn't consider sleeping with other guys "cheating" anymore because she'd made such a habit out of it.

Whatever. Slut. I told her I never wanted to talk to her ever again, and tossed her to the curb in front of her house.

The relief I had of never having to worry about that bitch again is like pinching a gigantic loaf. Good riddance.

 

[tcsenter]

haha, you're the only one not getting any freebies? This can only be for a couple reasons, I mean think about it. You broke up with her for having a cat! Remember, you said any one of those is a good enough reason. Every time she turns you down, she is loving it.

Or, you're just not all that in bed and she can get it better elsewhere.

 

[Geekbabe]

Hmmm.. can't speak for her but when I'm done with a dude,I'm done.. no booty calls.