Find a range you like.
Take the NRA Basic Pistol Shooting Course.
The instructor may have a variety of pistols in a variety of calibers that you can shoot.  He may not.  If he doesn't, spend some time at the range renting a variety of pistols.  Find what is comfortable 
for you.  
Price ammunition.   You'll find 9mm is about a third less than .40.    It adds up.  
Backups?  Having identical guns isn't really needed.  Instead of 3 of the same gun, I'd rather have.....
-.22  pistol, like a Ruger Mark III.  Cheap ammo allows for plenty of range time.  
-something small for concealed carry in whatever caliber you find you like.  
-something in a larger frame, probably in the same caliber as your carry gun, for around the house.  
That's not carved in stone, just a thought.  
It's important to be a responsible gun owner.  This means a gun safe, or at least gun locks.
Also, 
listen to Clint Smith.