Capt Caveman
Lifer
- Jan 30, 2005
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Screw up the army? Leave during basic or get booted out?
Oh, and you live in Alberta, U.S of A.?
Oh, and you live in Alberta, U.S of A.?
silverpig
Lifer
- Jul 29, 2001
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You could put spanish guy's number on the call blocker.
Start walking around in your underwear.
Leave stuff in her room often and find reason to go in there.
Have a loud party on Saturday or Sunday morning at 8 am, preferably just after she got home from one.
Start walking around in your underwear.
Leave stuff in her room often and find reason to go in there.
Have a loud party on Saturday or Sunday morning at 8 am, preferably just after she got home from one.
Unless you nip this in the bud, it can only end badly...... You have to find out where your GF stands in all this. If she thinks like you do, you should be able to set some rules and boot the sister out if she doesn't abide by them. If the GF is not on the same page, it's time to start thinking about a different GF. Remember, you'd be marrying into the whole family, including loser sister.
Crusty
Lifer
- Sep 30, 2001
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I had some roommates who were way into the world cup and decided it would be a good idea to throw parties for the majority of games no matter what time. Was a hell of a time, but trying to get to work for 9AM was a bit hard when there are 15 drunk people in the living room
Paladin3
Diamond Member
- Mar 5, 2004
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PLEASE, PLEASE READ THIS!
I have a younger brother who could be this woman's male twin, so I've learned this the hard way. PROTECT YOURSELF!
- Set a deadline for her to get out. The sooner the better. She's obviously a user and you are just the next sucker she will use as long as you let her. Do NOT feel sorry for her. Do NOT believe her excuses. Ever.
- Don't giver her a dime.
- Don't let her steal from you. No more phone privileges. Don't leave cash, checks, credit cards, bank statements or even spare change laying around. For God's sake (pun intended, you atheist, hehe!) don't co-sign for her!
- Don't leave her home alone in your house. EVER!
- Be very clear that the dirtbag Mexican boyfriend is NOT allowed in your home.
- Do not let her insult your life, morals, GF, family or anything else. Do not buy into her guilt and be prepared for her anger when she learns she can't leech off of you.
- Talk about your concerns with your GF now so she knows you are treating her sister like this to protect both of you. Make sure your GF is on board with the plan and doesn't do anything stupid for her sister behind your back.
- Protect your self-esteem. Don't buy into the guilt she, and maybe even your GF, will throw your way. People like her and my brother need to learn they can't leech their whole lives.
I know your OP was just a rant, and you didn't really ask for advice, but I feel compelled to write this. My brother caused my family a lot of pain and put a lot of pressure on my marriage before I showed him the door for good. I hope you can avoid such. Good luck.
I have a younger brother who could be this woman's male twin, so I've learned this the hard way. PROTECT YOURSELF!
- Set a deadline for her to get out. The sooner the better. She's obviously a user and you are just the next sucker she will use as long as you let her. Do NOT feel sorry for her. Do NOT believe her excuses. Ever.
- Don't giver her a dime.
- Don't let her steal from you. No more phone privileges. Don't leave cash, checks, credit cards, bank statements or even spare change laying around. For God's sake (pun intended, you atheist, hehe!) don't co-sign for her!
- Don't leave her home alone in your house. EVER!
- Be very clear that the dirtbag Mexican boyfriend is NOT allowed in your home.
- Do not let her insult your life, morals, GF, family or anything else. Do not buy into her guilt and be prepared for her anger when she learns she can't leech off of you.
- Talk about your concerns with your GF now so she knows you are treating her sister like this to protect both of you. Make sure your GF is on board with the plan and doesn't do anything stupid for her sister behind your back.
- Protect your self-esteem. Don't buy into the guilt she, and maybe even your GF, will throw your way. People like her and my brother need to learn they can't leech their whole lives.
I know your OP was just a rant, and you didn't really ask for advice, but I feel compelled to write this. My brother caused my family a lot of pain and put a lot of pressure on my marriage before I showed him the door for good. I hope you can avoid such. Good luck.
alkemyst
No Lifer
- Feb 13, 2001
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sounds like you are doing it wrong...she needs you, work it.
You may want to bounce this off the wife as you fell sorry for her and she needs loving too and even though you don't really like her you'd be willing to take one for the team...shed a tear at this point.
FTMFW!
You may want to bounce this off the wife as you fell sorry for her and she needs loving too and even though you don't really like her you'd be willing to take one for the team...shed a tear at this point.
FTMFW!
Get the FUCK out of my House!
I gave you ample warning and you're taking advantage of everything! BYE!
No hard feelings C**T!
I gave you ample warning and you're taking advantage of everything! BYE!
No hard feelings C**T!
- Aug 9, 2000
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Thanks for the advice. It was just a rant really. I have already set the ground rules with my gf...and she has agreed with me before her sis even came. Truthfully, my gf has been a little pissed about her attitude as well.
I will have updates if anything major happens. If you are all patient, there WILL BE PICS posted at a later date. Stay tuned.
I will have updates if anything major happens. If you are all patient, there WILL BE PICS posted at a later date. Stay tuned.
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