Gov Mark Sanford mysterious disappearance

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DealMonkey

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Welp, as I predicted, Sanford is clinging to his job. I'm sure there's a bible verse that he can quote that's appropriate for this situation:

The governor, who said he initially considered resigning, is now holding on to his turf, saying he will complete his remaining 18 months in office in full and work to repair both his public and private relationships.

"Given everything that has gone on, it's obviously something he considered, but he's determined to serve out his term," Sanford's communication director Joel Sawyer told ABC News.

http://abcnews.go.com/Politics/story?id=7954371&page=1
 

DealMonkey

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Breaking news:

AP NewsBreak: SC Gov Admits Additional Liaisons
AP NewsBreak: SC governor admits more liaisons with Argentine mistress

South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford admitted Tuesday that he saw his Argentine mistress more times than previously disclosed, including what was to be a farewell meeting in New York chaperoned by a spiritual adviser soon after his wife found out about the affair.

In a lengthy and emotional interview with The Associated Press in his Statehouse office, the governor described five meetings with Maria Belen Chapur over the past year, including two romantic, multi-night stays with her in New York before they met there again intending to break up.

He said he met her two other times ? their first meeting in 2001 at an open-air dance spot in Uruguay and a coffee date in New York in 2004 during the Republican National Convention. He said neither time was romantic.

It was the first disclosure of any liaisons with Chapur in the United States and contradicted a public confession last week during which Sanford admitted to a total of four encounters over their eight-year relationship.

Sanford can't seem to keep his story straight. :roll:
 

her209

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Originally posted by: Harvey
Originally posted by: ProfJohn
It is funny watching all you libs preach about the 'sanctity' of marriage and how he should resign etc etc.
Marital infidelity is an equal opportunity temptation across party lines. The difference is, Republicans are the hypocrites whose sales pitch pimps "the sanctity of marriage" and other "family values" as uniquely their own.

It's not the tragedy of Sanford's private life. It's his hypocrisy because his colossal ethical failure is diametrically opposed to the public position he spewed to pimp his own election to a position of public power and responsiblity.

By putting quotes around the word 'sanctity,' you imply that you don't support or believe in "the 'sanctity' of marriage" or "family values," the buzz words of your own party... at least as long as you think you can use the those words to point your faux outrage at the other side. :roll:
In other words: don't throw objects made of glass in your stone house. You might cut yourself on the broken glass.
 

Zedtom

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Sanford has an appetite for self destruction. He faded off the front pages last week with Farrah and MJ grabbing the public's attention, but suddenly he's back looking to extend his fifteen minutes of fame.

Rolling around in the mud is not the best way to get clean.
 

seemingly random

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Originally posted by: Zedtom
Sanford has an appetite for self destruction. He faded off the front pages last week with Farrah and MJ grabbing the public's attention, but suddenly he's back looking to extend his fifteen minutes of fame.

Rolling around in the mud is not the best way to get clean.
Maybe he's following the palin strategy: the more you act like a fool, the more attention you get.
 

BoomerD

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http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/200...n_re_us/us_sc_governor

AP Newsbreak: SC gov 'crossed lines' with women

"COLUMBIA, S.C. ? South Carolina Gov. Mark Sanford said Tuesday that he "crossed lines" with a handful of women other than his mistress ? but never had sex with them. The governor said he "never crossed the ultimate line" with anyone but Maria Belen Chapur, the Argentine at the center of a scandal that has derailed his once-promising political career.

"This was a whole lot more than a simple affair, this was a love story," Sanford said. "A forbidden one, a tragic one, but a love story at the end of the day."

During an emotional interview at his Statehouse office with The Associated Press on Tuesday, Sanford said Chapur is his soul mate but he's trying to fall back in love with his wife.

He said that during the encounters with other women he "let his guard down" with some physical contact but "didn't cross the sex line." He wouldn't go into detail.

Sanford said the casual encounters happened outside the U.S. while he was married but before he met Chapur, on trips to "blow off steam" with male friends.

Sanford also admitted he saw Chapur more times than previously disclosed, including what was to be a farewell meeting in New York chaperoned by a spiritual adviser soon after his wife found out about the affair.

He described five meetings with Chapur over the past year, including two romantic, multi-night stays with her in New York before they met there again intending to break up.

He said he saw her two other times, including their first meeting in 2001 at an open-air dance spot in Uruguay.

"There was some kind of connection from the very beginning," he told The Associated Press, though he said neither that meeting nor a 2004 coffee date in New York during the Republican National Convention were romantic.

His interview was the first disclosure of any liaisons with Chapur in the United States and contradicted a public confession last week during which he admitted to a total of five encounters over their eight-year relationship.

He previously announced he would reimburse the state for money spent during a government trip to Brazil and Argentina in June 2008 when he saw Chapur. It was then, he said, that their relationship became physical, and the e-mails they'd exchanged for years reflected their anguish over what they had done.

"Now I am frightened," he told the AP, describing his state of mind at the time. "It was before safe. But now it's not safe. We gotta put the genie back in the bottle."

He insists no public money was used for any other meetings with her.

He saw Chapur again in mid-June of this year, visiting Argentina without telling his staff he was going to be out of the country. He instead led them to believe he was hiking on the Appalachian Trail.

By the time he returned to a puzzled public, staff and family, his public image and emotional state had unraveled. He admitted the affair at a rambling press conference.

Now Sanford is attempting to salvage his personal and professional lives. He and wife Jenny, parents of four sons, say they are trying to reconcile their 20-year marriage but have not been sharing the same house for several weeks. Jenny Sanford found out about the relationship in January when she discovered a letter the governor had written to his mistress. She did not immediately return a message seeking comment Tuesday.

The governor said he met Chapur in Punta Del Este, Uruguay, in 2001 after his final term in Congress and before his first term as governor. He said the two struck up an e-mail correspondence after meeting on a dance floor ? a chance encounter during which he counseled her into the night about her failing marriage.

For the next seven-plus years, Sanford said, the two exchanged messages, sometimes sporadically.

They met in New York two more times in 2008: two nights in Manhattan in September and three nights in the Hamptons in November. Each time, Sanford claims he flew coach, paid for it himself, paid for the hotels in cash and told his staff he was reachable via cell phone.

"At that point I was very careful, everything was paid for in cash," Sanford said. "And you won't find a credit card record."

In early 2009, after Jenny Sanford discovered the affair, the couple went into counseling. She has told The Associated Press that he asked her several times to visit the mistress and she refused.

But the governor claims he wanted to end the affair in person and, with his wife's permission, went to New York with a "trusted spiritual adviser" serving as chaperone. The three went to church and dinner together and parted ways the same night.

But he visited Chapur again in Argentina on June 18, the trip that brought the whole affair to light."




It sounds like he's been looking for an affair for quite a while, but never had the balls to actually do it...until he met the Argentinian lady...Makes me wonder if she can suck a bowling ball through a garden hose, or what? She's not "drop-dead gorgeous," although she isn't bad looking...but IMO, not worth "fucking away" a 20 year marriage with...
I'd bet their marriage has been in trouble for far longer than they are admitting...but maybe his wife just didn't realize how badly...
 

Mursilis

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Originally posted by: Harvey
Originally posted by: DealMonkey

Jenny Sanford is the stupidest woman alive if she takes him back. The Republican MO seems to be: Chat up the sanctity of marriage your entire career, have a sexy affair on your wife, quote scripture, turn into a sniveling crying little baby in front of the MSM while begging for forgiveness, hope to hang onto your job. Rinse. Repeat.

Mark and Jenny Sanford have four sons together. That gives her four good reasons to be open to whatever works between them in their private lives. Giving and accepting forgiveness and rebuilding trust between two individuals and their children is a matter for them to resolve between themselves. It will take time if it is to happen at all.

Good stuff, Harvey, especially the explanation of why she'd even consider taking him back.

Rebuilding trust on a public level is another matter. Sanford lied and abandoned his responsiblities to his wife, his office, his staff and the citizens of South Carolina, and his affair marks him as a hypocrite with respect to his previous public pronouncements about "family values," especially considering his previous condemnation of Bill Clinton's extra-marital affairs. Those are good reasons for him to resign, now and issues voters should remember should he choose to try to run for office again in the future.

Trust on a public level? To heck with that - were I a voter in that state, I can't see ever voting for his sorry rear again. He needs to go away now and NEVER come back.
 

DealMonkey

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Originally posted by: CaptnKirk
And now he says that he's a Serial Sportfucker

Says he didn't really 'do it' - but with a 'handful of other women' . . . and we know now how he fabricates stories.

I don't think Jenny Sanford can quote bible verses fast enough to stop this train wreck.
 

UberNeuman

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Originally posted by: loki8481
news at 11, married men cheat, christians commit sins.

Follow up report: People that preach family values and attack others over it should keep their dick in their pants....

and just in: People just can't walk away from their job and come back when they feel like it....

/stop mitigating.....
 

HomerJS

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Originally posted by: CaptnKirk
And now he says that he's a Serial Sportfucker

Says he didn't really 'do it' - but with a 'handful of other women' . . . and we know now how he fabricates stories.

Possibilities of not "crossing the line"

Hand job
Checking for oil
Nude massage

BTW - Since Sanford suggested Clinton resign during Lewinsky he should take his own advice.

 

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Originally posted by: sactoking
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And he lies yet again...
He's like a 20yo who's discovered romantic love for the first time. It's made him stupid happy.

Oh, he's a republican. It could be for the first time. At least he got to experience it once (or a few times?) unlike most of his repressed party.
 

Harvey

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Originally posted by: jonks

"but her tits were THIS BIG!"

The photos of her I've seen suggest this is just another of his lies, but lying about her boobs is certainly serious enough to justify impeachment. :laugh:
 

Lemon law

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Oh come on, maybe as a partisan democrats, I should be blowing woo pie whistles and delighting at the prospect of another republirat caught in a sex scandal. And maybe use Limbaugh logic and say, its typical of all republicans.

But in a grander scheme of things, I have to realize that men and women are sexual being and are driven by that, and if Gov. Sanfort is judged only by his sex scandal, its a symptom and indictment of the American people.
 

0marTheZealot

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Originally posted by: Lemon law
Oh come on, maybe as a partisan democrats, I should be blowing woo pie whistles and delighting at the prospect of another republirat caught in a sex scandal. And maybe use Limbaugh logic and say, its typical of all republicans.

But in a grander scheme of things, I have to realize that men and women are sexual being and are driven by that, and if Gov. Sanfort is judged only by his sex scandal, its a symptom and indictment of the American people.

I think it's more to do with that these Republicans tout family values as being a core ideal, but then turn around, and solicit gay sex in a men's bathroom or cheat on their wives or solicit sex from underage pages, etc etc. You can't say it one way then act another, that just makes you hypocritical. The maddening thing is that most conservative commentators turn a blind eye or even defend these people when they would absolutely pounce on Democratic politicians that commit the same acts. You can't be a critic of cheaters on one side of the isle without being a critic for the other side. Again, this just makes them look petty and biased, notwithstanding the fact that they are petty and biased.
 

sapiens74

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Family values are important, If your own wife cant trust you neither can I

Impeach if he won't resign.

He also owes the money for the trips, if taxpayers footed the bill.