Most people are reasonable and fair, and understand that abortion is one of the important but unusual cases where two fundamental rights are in conflict: the right to life and the right to choose what is done with one's own body. The problem is that discussions of the topic are always hijacked by extremists and propagandists, who try to oversimplify the situation to put forth their agenda, and derail debate by focusing on rare events. They don't want to discuss the issue holistically, so we get the usual bullshit about "human beings" consisting of 4 cells and abortion at 364 days.
The argument does tend to gravitate towards the extremes of both sides, but I think that makes sense. It's reasonable for people to feel out the endpoints of the opposing argument. Asking to what extent abortion is permissable, and why, is a fair question.
However, if could agree on
some limits to abortion, while leaving some abortion procedures in place, I don't think many pro-lifers would disagree.
I believe that life begins at conception. I also believe that women have the right to decide what to do with their own bodies. It is alright to believe in things that contradict. It is better to accept that honestly than to lie to oneself about reality or whitewash over the difficulty.
I think that sometimes it's necessary to accept two truths that nonetheless contradict, but I don't think this problem is irreconcilable. If a woman has a right to decide what to do with their own body, is the child inside her "her own body"? Strong arguments could be made that the child is physically connected to and dependent on her, but apart from that is an entirely distinct human being; it's own DNA, blood type, organs, etc. Furthermore, (and this gets back to the extremes you mentioned), if the mere physical connection is enough to justify abortion, then there is no argument against partial-birth abortion or even killing the child right up until the umbilical cord gets cut.
We place too much emphasis on the value of the child merely because of its location, rather than what it
is.
The fact that I believe life begins at conception doesn't mean I think a fetus has the right to impose on a woman to carry it to term. And the fact that I believe women have the right to their bodies doesn't mean I think they have the right to behave capriciously towards a fetus that is in their bodies when there are other options available.
Reasonably stated, but except in cases of rape, the fetus imposed exactly nothing on the mother.
When rights are in conflict, reasonable people prefer reasonable solutions. Thus, I support early-term abortion in most cases. When the fetus really is little more than a ball of cells, I believe the woman's right to choose is more important. This also takes care of nearly all cases of rape and incest.
That's perfectly reasonable. If we could outlaw all abortions after about 20 weeks, we'd be a far more humane country. Would you agree to that?
In the third trimester, I oppose abortion unless the life of the mother is at risk. Why? Again -- because it's the most reasonable answer. At this point the fetus is viable, and since the woman has already carried the baby this far, the best solution is for it to be delivered.
There are no simple answers when it comes to abortion. The people who try to claim they exist are usually the ones not interested in discussing the issue seriously at all.
I think there are some simple answers. Partial-birth abortion is simply wrong. Forcing a woman to give birth at risk to her life is simply wrong. Forcing a woman to give birth to a child conceived in rape...my conscience reels at that. Lives can be taken if they are taken in self-defense; when something is forced on you. Abortion in cases of rape falls partially into that category.
The Catholic church may vehemently disagree with me on that. So be it.