Goodbye to WoW.... GF related *update* I want to play

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Doboji

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So I've been playing WoW since the day after it's release. I average about 2 hours per night. In the beginning this was more like 4 hours a night, with occasional much longer days. Well the GF fvcking hates that I play... she thinks of it as mind-rot at it's worst. My feeling up til now has been screw you, I'm an adult, I should be able to spend my free time however the hell I choose. Well tonight we got into a massive argument about it, as I was mid-instance when she called and said come down and see me. I choose not to go, but instead to fulfill my duties (troll priest) and get my group through the rest of the instance.

Well the massive argument ensues, during which she actually succeeds in convincing me that I play way too much, and I haven't been doing anything with my spare time OTHER than WoW, and I really havent been involved with other stuff. I've been meaning to play Rugby, but havent put the time forward to do it. I haven't been taking my tech cert exams. I haven't been doing the extra work at home I used to do. WoW truly was taking over too much of my life. So blam I delete the installation off the PC, with the intention of never putting it back.

What are some of your opinions on the WoW phenomenon, is it indeed an unhealthy obsession? Or am I pussywhipped, and allowing my interests to be manipulated?

Flame away....

-Max

*UPDATE*
Tommorow will be 2 weeks since I gave up WoW. I am currently feeling no withdrawl symptoms.

I walked away from a 54 NE Hunter and a 38 Troll Priest. At this point not only am I not feeling the need to play. I actually don't feel like playing.

Let me be an example for all... you can walk away. It can be done.

-Max

*UPDATE 6/23*

Next month the fiancee will start her q4 call schedule. This means that every 4th night she'll be on call at the hospital for loooong hours up to 30. I'm considering taking WoW back up again, but limiting my playing time to when she's on call.

What y'all think?

*UPDATE 7/17*

The game has been reinstalled.... fully patched and is ready to go....
 

frank84

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I played WoW for 3 months and i quit.
reason?
because i couldn't do anything else but WoW.

in your case, i can't believe you choose WoW over sex...well that is if your gf put out..
 

RudeBoie

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Didn't you answer your own question?

"My feeling up til now has been screw you, I'm an adult, I should be able to spend my free time however the hell I choose"

This is true, but she can also choose not to be with you.

"I haven't been doing anything with my spare time OTHER than WoW, and I really havent been involved with other stuff. I've been meaning to play Rugby, but havent put the time forward to do it. I haven't been taking my tech cert exams. I haven't been doing the extra work at home I used to do"

If that's true, and you don't like those aspects of yourself, then there you go.
 

chrisms

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I used to be the same way with Rogue Spear... I played that damn game all the time, got involved in the clans on The Zone and basically wasted a lot of time. I don't play computer games anymore because they are too damn addicting
 

hg321

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If it's something you truly enjoy playing , why not just cut back on your playing time
 

mindwreck

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The game is very addicting. Your not the only one that plays like crazy. I'm not into these types of games buy my friend.. ooohhh man, from the end of school to maybe 1 to 2 am is WoW time for him. Weekends for him is nonstop WoWing.
 

Doboji

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Originally posted by: hg321
If it's something you truly enjoy playing , why not just cut back on your playing time


Tried that already..... the game just doesnt allow for it... if you intend to do an instance the damn things take you at least a couple of hours, plus another hour to actually put the group together.... and if you intend to actually make friends in game you're gonna need to consistently level with them... which requires playing. So it really is impossible to cut back on the hours. The game eats you alive.... it's fun as all hell... but damn. It is just a massive timesink.

-Max
 

Stark

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half of the nerds in my department are addicted. you can do what one guy did... sign his wife up for her own account and get her addicted also. :p
 

hg321

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Originally posted by: Doboji
Originally posted by: hg321
If it's something you truly enjoy playing , why not just cut back on your playing time


Tried that already..... the game just doesnt allow for it... if you intend to do an instance the damn things take you at least a couple of hours, plus another hour to actually put the group together.... and if you intend to actually make friends in game you're gonna need to consistently level with them... which requires playing. So it really is impossible to cut back on the hours. The game eats you alive.... it's fun as all hell... but damn. It is just a massive timesink.

-Max

I have never played, I didn't realize it took so much time....I would say you made the right choice with a extra bonus of keeping the GF happy

 

MikeMike

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dude you wanted to play a comp game instead of getting it on? seriously.

i am addicted to CS:S but i sure as hell will drop it whenever my girl wants me over normally cuz that means action.

MIKE
 

Jeff7181

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MMORPG's are addicting. I was the same way with Motor City Online and Horizons. Horizons pisses me off so much because it's crappily designed though so I don't have a hard time putting it down.
 

arod

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Originally posted by: Nitemare
Why not just cut em off and put them in a mason jar for her... ?

yup... its one thing to scale back your playing, quite another to let her dictate your life and "perusade" you into thinking you are doing this on your own.
 
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