going out with ex-gf's

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Listen when the masses say run. This trick is scandalous. My ex wife was the same way. She invited me to lunch on the day of our divorce. We had been seperated for 2 years, so I thought nothing of it. The entire time in the resteraunt she babbled on about "One last time, for old time's sake.". The whole while she's seeing this other guy who she <quote> "Is madly in love with" <unquote>.

Anyhow, I say "Let's go back to my place", and on the way there we get into a head on collision (She was driving, I was the passenger, the other guy was at fault). To top it off she calls me two weeks later saying she is:

a)Pregnant, and b)Remarried....in that order.

Found out a little later she was a few weeks pregnant when she wanted MisterJacksons sh1t. She was trying to set me up to be the baby's daddy.

I thank God everyday for causing that car accident.
 

toant103

Lifer
Jul 21, 2001
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Originally posted by: yllus
Originally posted by: keystroker
She says she wants to marry me and have my kids (she tried to slip it in without a condom last night) and stuff
No, you should just stop there. Run fast, run far.

i'll drink to that
 

gigapet

Lifer
Aug 9, 2001
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Originally posted by: BAMAVOO
if its good hit it for as long as possible........

Never had any huh?



It is all good!

def not. someone just laying there like a board is not really my idea of a good time. God bless you though if you actually get the same joy from every partner you have had.
 

Encryptic

Diamond Member
May 21, 2003
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The simple answer to this situation: Run as fast as you can. This chick has serious issues. In the end, all that's going to happen is that you'll probably lose this chick's brother as a friend and you'll be stuck with a child that neither you or the girl can take care of.
 

yllus

Elite Member & Lifer
Aug 20, 2000
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Originally posted by: MisterJackson
Listen when the masses say run. This trick is scandalous. My ex wife was the same way. She invited me to lunch on the day of our divorce. We had been seperated for 2 years, so I thought nothing of it. The entire time in the resteraunt she babbled on about "One last time, for old time's sake.". The whole while she's seeing this other guy who she <quote> "Is madly in love with" <unquote>.

Anyhow, I say "Let's go back to my place", and on the way there we get into a head on collision (She was driving, I was the passenger, the other guy was at fault). To top it off she calls me two weeks later saying she is:

a)Pregnant, and b)Remarried....in that order.

Found out a little later she was a few weeks pregnant when she wanted MisterJacksons sh1t. She was trying to set me up to be the baby's daddy.

I thank God everyday for causing that car accident.
Hell of a story, glad it worked out for you. :Q
 

jjones

Lifer
Oct 9, 2001
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Originally posted by: silverpig
Hit it. Hit it and don't stop hitting it until she goes totally psycho. But remember, double wrap it, and flush immediately. Leave NOTHING usable behind.
I agree up until the part of her going totally psycho. I usually dumped them when they start showing prevalent signs of psycho, any later than that and it usually gets messy.
 

alkemyst

No Lifer
Feb 13, 2001
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the 'I want to marry you' sounds just like a rebound / drunk thing. Depending on the situation I would just tell her you aren't interested in a long term deal and see if she is ok with just being sex buds....
 

Soybomb

Diamond Member
Jun 30, 2000
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She has some problems, but you do to because you say she's a cool friend and then immediately ask if you should just use her for sex. If you are friends you would be honest with what you want and let her decide if thats what she wants or not.
 

ProUser

Senior member
Apr 6, 2000
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Normally I might say just keep hitting it an enjoying it.

But, after years of doing that, I think my viewpoint has changed. If there is other drama, etc going on - forget it. Hitting it every now and then is not worth the constant BS crap. Unless you are in a happy committed relationship, or have a cool casual relationship going - forget hitting it, it's really not worth it in the long run.

Drama + Hitting it = It will bite you in the ass
 

djs1w

Senior member
Apr 17, 2001
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there's a reason why she's your ex, so keep it that way. If she weren't your friends sister, then I'd say PIITB, but play it cool since he's your buddy and just peace her out.
 

gigapet

Lifer
Aug 9, 2001
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She tried to pull my rubber off with her pu$$y muscles that was wrong
The b!tch is no good like lesbians with no tongues
You fvcked around and knocked her up and now you say she the one
N**ga you dumb, you should have pulled it out and squirted on her eyelash
And let her face be holdin' the baby, now she after yo a$$!
Yeah, I told y'all n**gaz
about god damn takin' them hoez to the Cheesecake Factory
Lettin' them hoez order strawberry lemonade and popcorn shrimps
They ain't goin' do nuthin'
but try to take all your motherfuckin' cheese! (Yeah!)

From the weave to the fake eyes
to the fake nails, down to the toes
Ha ha ha ha! We luv deez hoez


- Outkast - we luv deez hoes
 

Muck

Senior member
Feb 16, 2003
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We miss ya, Barry White. You were more subtle, less offensive. And yet you got the same message across.
 

fastman

Golden Member
Oct 9, 1999
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Be up front with her about the booty calls and make sure she doesn't trap you.
 

psianime

Golden Member
Mar 16, 2002
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YAIJGLATINPTTT = Yet another I just got laid and there is no point to this thread.

Cheers mate, hit that b!tch.
 

n0cmonkey

Elite Member
Jun 10, 2001
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She sounds like a class act, and you're up there yourself. Keep seeing her. Nothing bad could ever happen.
 

Ernieb

Senior member
Jan 13, 2002
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Just keep the relationship....as long as both of you like...
keep it safe, clean and healthy.
 

Wooster

Golden Member
Oct 21, 1999
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Just keep it simple. Sex and no serious relationship. She's not truthworthy since last incident (cheat). She had her chance when she's with you in the past.