Girls.

[chiwawa626]

<< Well what do you talk to your male friends about?

now minus the computers, sports, cars, and sex and talk about that.
(*waits for the sarcastic remarks *) >>

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yeah she brought up computers for a sec talking about how she sucks at them and never used the internet until like a while ago...she told me about how she was forced to get an email addy for a class....so ill just leave out computers cuz i dont think she likes em ....

 

[Orsorum]

<<

<< Well what do you talk to your male friends about?

now minus the computers, sports, cars, and sex and talk about that.
(*waits for the sarcastic remarks *) >>

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yeah she brought up computers for a sec talking about how she sucks at them and never used the internet until like a while ago...she told me about how she was forced to get an email addy for a class....so ill just leave out computers cuz i dont think she likes em .... >>



<--- I sense great tribulation ahead...

 

[Aves]

<<

<< Well what do you talk to your male friends about?

now minus the computers, sports, cars, and sex and talk about that.
(*waits for the sarcastic remarks *) >>

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yeah she brought up computers for a sec talking about how she sucks at them and never used the internet until like a while ago...she told me about how she was forced to get an email addy for a class....so ill just leave out computers cuz i dont think she likes em .... >>


You could always teach her.

 

[Cheesemoo]

<< I think the reason im shy is im scared of rejection, even when i goto parties and stuff i bearly dance beacuse im too scared to ask a girl....I dunno...mabey i should smoke out to lax me lol....but anyways...well last time i called and i said we should all do somehting as a group (all firends from prom) and she said she was gonna go outa town for the week so i havent called her this week....when u talk to girls, do u talk about them, urself or both? I been watchin MTV blind date thingy magigy....and the girls are very self centerd and want all the talk about them.... jeeze..mabey i should go find a forum for this kinda stuff thanks for the advice guys. >>




DONT GO OFF OF MTV, they only put people on the show that will make it a good 30 mins of TV with good rating , people want to see that i guess.

 

[melly]

you ever watch "Malcolm in the Middle"? Do the opposite of what Reese does.

 

[Smacksmackums]

Don't get so worked up about it. Just act like she's a guy type of friend and talk to her normally. It's not that big a deal and as for asking her out, just do the same, don't make a big deal out of it, just call her up and say "hey, do you wanna hang out, like go to a movie or something?" Done deal. Try and relax, just act normally and everything will be fine.

 

[nihil]

girls hate me. thus, in my mind, they are pure evil. i'm the nicest guy in the world (almost a sucker) and they still feel the need to screw me over. although being single for a long time really does suck, i just hang out with my comptuers on the weekends instead of girls or friends. *sigh*

 

[dababus]

you are afraid of rejection, i got slaped on my face and am still not afraid of getting rejected. what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, i guess.

it doesn't take a genius to ask a girl out. don't say would you like to go out kind of crap. be aggressive, say let's go to a movie tonight, let go to lunch, blah blah.

don't give girls a choice, because they will always make a wrong one.

 

[MrDingleDangle]

yeah when u get rejected or seems like u are going to just walk away talking about how much of a bitch the girl is...that always makes u feel better =)

 

[wasssup]

being shy sucks...I got asked to go by FIVE (5) girls to the senior prom (only two were sorta hot), but I still didn't go...

even now while in college everytime someone invites me to a party i make some bullsh*t up...man i'm fvckin sad

 

[Orsorum]

<< being shy sucks...I got asked to go by FIVE (5) girls to the senior prom (only two were sorta hot), but I still didn't go...

even now while in college everytime someone invites me to a party i make some bullsh*t up...man i'm fvckin sad >>



No shame, dude, no shame... I'm the same way.

 

[oLLie]

<< being shy sucks...I got asked to go by FIVE (5) girls to the senior prom (only two were sorta hot), but I still didn't go...

even now while in college everytime someone invites me to a party i make some bullsh*t up...man i'm fvckin sad >>


:Q!
Why didn't you go to your prom?

 

[gwlam12]

be urself

 

[chiwawa626]

bumpo thanks for the advice

 

[A5]

<< being shy sucks...I got asked to go by FIVE (5) girls to the senior prom (only two were sorta hot), but I still didn't go... >>


That's sad. You must have NO IDEA how rare it is for a girl to actually ask, do you?

It's guys like you that make it hard for us ugly shy people to get any :|

 

[ohtwell]

Tell her that you really enjoyed the prom and that you would like to go out with her again.

Don't be so concerned with how you ask. Women know you are nervous even if you act confident.

Just be natural.




<< Well what do you talk to your male friends about?

now minus the computers, sports, cars, and sex and talk about that. >>



Some women enjoy talking about those things.

I like talking about sports and cars!


btw--- Go Packers!!




: ) Amanda

 

[RGN]

<< I think that someone around here has a sig w/ something along these lines from American Pie 1

"Suck me Beautiful"

hehehehe, yeah, THAT will DEFINATELY do the trick! hehehehehehe

maybe I shouldn't be giving advice on this... hmmmmmmmmmmm >>



Or the line from Face Off: "If I were to send you flowers... no, strike that, if I were to let you suck my tounge, would you be greatful?"

 

[linuxboy]

Just be natural.

WOOOOO. WOOGA. OOOHAA TONK. ARGGHHH. OOOGA.

me linuxboy, naked, natural and raw. Come and get it.

*licks eyebrows*, begins mating rituals of Alawa tribe

there you have it chiwawa626, advice by a female and a male response to her query (that would actually work in some cultures). The game begins, ah the fun of seduction... and making it the object of exaggerated ridicule.

and please please..no neffing or stupid posts

Alright, alright, let me add some "words of wisdom" or whatnot.

I'm human. I think you're human. Females are human. We are human. HUZZAH ! Now as humans we have certain shared characteristics. For example, we have the need to love, we have the need to be loved, we have the need to communicate and the means to do so. Also, we have biological functions, cultural and social rules, learned behaviors, norms, standards, and all sorts of crazy stuff (like a taboo against being naked that I am still trying to unsuccessfully repeal). Now you go and talk to a female and you do not know what to say. The bloody are you, inhuman? The established rules of mating, of courtship, and of interaction come secondary to knowing yourself and to knowing people. If you focus on the norms, you'll miss the point of seeing people as they ar, meeting them in life, and sharing with them pieces of your world in hopes of their doing the same.

So you ask me how to engage in the pursuit of a female and I think I will leave you with this tidbit: When an Inuit adolescent decides to marry and wants to pick a mate, he will go and grab the belt of his chosen female. This signifies to them and to the others that they are to be married and live together, sharing life. An Inuit can spend 12 hours sitting in a kayak and waiting for a seal to come near enough so he could club the seal and have food. Meanwhile, back in the civilized world, you worry about the mating rituals of your own culture. Learn from the Inuit. Grab her belt (or a reasonable facsimile thereof that will not get you arrested for sexual harrassment) and get your groove on !

And if you're confused, why not ask what the expectations are and how you should act to not violate norms. I still say you do what the Inuit do and tell others you are experimenting with your cultural identity. HeHe. I'm in a silly mood tonight.

Realistically, just interact, share what's on your mind, and stop caring what others perceive you to be.

Cheers !

 

[Danman]

<< "sup b!tch, [what you want from her]?"

Works like a charm. Try it. >>



Werd to that. All that earns from my girlfriend is a huge "FVCK OFF DANIEL!"

 

[kami]

<< I'm 22 and have the same problem... or is it really a problem??? Hmm... life is sweet without a ball and chain
>>


There is ups and downs. You're a good guy, silly that you haven't dated!! Go get 'em tiger!

 

[Orsorum]

Linuxboy - great post! True words. If I were more outspoken in terms of advice to other people, I'd try to add on... You pretty much covered it, though.

 

[HappyPuppy]

Gurlz is gooood! They be more better than chicken mcnuggets sometimes.

 

[RGN]

<< Gurlz is gooood! They be more better than chicken mcnuggets sometimes. >>




OMFGLMAO! I haven't had Chicken Nuggets (do they have a soul?) in like 15 years...

 

[gopunk]

well we can post all we want, but i think the best way to learn is by example. next time you watch a movie, try to watch how these things work... swingers for example listen to loveline... they get calls like this all the time, and sometimes they'll role play

 

[stevens]

I am 15 and i have the exact same problem. I have had chances with girls that i really like but i get so nervous that i make up these excuses why i cannot do something with them. There was a girl that i liked alot and she really really liked me. We had everything in common and so i finnaly worked up the nerve to ask her to the semiformal, but to compensate for my lack of confidence around girls, i got absolutley baked of my a** and really drunk. Because i was so f***ed up she dance with one of my best friends the whole night. At the end i had a perfect chance to kiss her but i didnt and so she left with out saying by to me. Then a few weeks ago i learned that she had been going out with that same friend of mine for like 2 months. I havent really gotten over it yet so for all those that say rejection isnt that bad, i happen to diagree. It hurts. I talked to the girl agian at a track meet and i could tell that she kinda still like me so i may try one more time when they break up. I cannot give you much advise at all ecxpet to not to get F***ed up on a first date.