The attitude is comparable. "It's expensive so we shouldn't do it" is a terrible attitude for a society to have that wants to advance.
The fact that you're talking about mining the moon shows how utterly clueless you are about this. Barring some truly revolutionary advancements in space launch technology that will never be feasible.
I'm in favor of NASA's manned spaceflight program and would like to see it get more money, but we need to be honest and say that it would be about exploration, NOT colonization or mining or anything of that nature. Until we find a vastly more efficient way to get things out of Earth's gravity well then any talk of colonizing other parts of this solar system are nothing but fantasies.