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GF no-longer missing, updated & matter closed

Vonkhan

Vonkhan

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My GF lives in NYC. I heard from her last on Friday night before she was going to go out with some friends.

She hasn't come back to her apartment since.

I've tried getting in touch with some of her friends and got in contact with 1 person who hasn't since her since Thursday.

The last activity on her bank account was on early Friday evening. She hasn't checked her e-mail since then either.

There is the possibility that she might have dumped me but she's not the kind of person who do that without a phone-call. Also, that's no reason for her not to access her bank account or check her e-mail.

At this point, I"m only concerned about her safety.

I don't live in NYC and have never been in this kind of a situation before.

Should I call the police or the hospitals? I have no idea what to do next.

Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated.

Updated:

She was in a car wreck with a friend. She was rushed to hospital and regained consciousness this morning & is in a stable state & out of any danger. She had a work-permit id on her which did not list her address and having moved recently, no one could figure out where she lived. Thankfully, she had insurance and so did the driver of the car.

Thanks to one of the helpful members on this board, I was able to contact a hospital hotline and track her.

She's been my girlfriend for 4 years and yes, in real life.

Why did I come to ATOT with this? Because there are helpful people here, people who may have experienced similar situations. I got the hotline number within a few minutes of posting.

Everyone who cared and was concerned, thanks - I appreciate it.

To the people who made a mockery of the situation, I hope that you never have to go thru a similar situation involving a loved one.

 
Call the police - even if she is not there and she has dumped you, it will show her that you care about her. And... Omg just ring the police.

I wish you luck, really.
 
Check with her parents maybe? Or give it till tonight? Maybe shes bunking for a friend for the weekend?

Edit - wait your in Zimbabwae?
 
You have access to her bank account? SCORE!!😉

j/k. I'd say it might be a good idea to contact her parents, and the cops.
 
I'm in Charleston, WV.

She's from Serbia, I dont have her parents' phone number who live there.

She's bunked with friends before but always given me a call or sent me an e-mail
 
Called the missing persons hotline, they told me that her roomate has to file the report.

Please don't post jokes in here, what may seem unimportant to you is a very traumatic situation for me.
 
How long have you been seeing her? 2 days isn't long to be out of touch with a friend, but if she's really your girlfriend and you talk daily, been steady for a long time, etc. you call the police.

Since you have to ask this, I assume it's more of a casual relationship and she probably just went somewhere or this thread is a parody of some sort.
 
Call either 212-741-4626 or 886-856-4167. <-- both missing persons hotlines
If that doesn't work, I assume you know her address. Find her precinct from here then call them and try again. If that doesn't work, post her general area of living and maybe one of us can point you towards her local hospitals.
 
Originally posted by: 91TTZ
I think she's probably hanging out with a new guy. Sorry to tell you that, but someone's hitting it...
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Unless you're engaged, I think this is the most likely scenario. Keep trying to contact her NY friends.
 
The fact you don't know what to do in the event of a missing persons scenario and posting on the AnandTech forums as your very first source of advice is pretty laughable and honestly a little disturbing. I'd like to believe anyone with half a brain would call his or her local police department, explain the situation, and ask for advice on what to do from there on out.
 
ok... how long have you been going out with her?

is there a chance that there is someone else?

where in ny does she live?
 
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