- Feb 27, 2003
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My GF lives in NYC. I heard from her last on Friday night before she was going to go out with some friends.
She hasn't come back to her apartment since.
I've tried getting in touch with some of her friends and got in contact with 1 person who hasn't since her since Thursday.
The last activity on her bank account was on early Friday evening. She hasn't checked her e-mail since then either.
There is the possibility that she might have dumped me but she's not the kind of person who do that without a phone-call. Also, that's no reason for her not to access her bank account or check her e-mail.
At this point, I"m only concerned about her safety.
I don't live in NYC and have never been in this kind of a situation before.
Should I call the police or the hospitals? I have no idea what to do next.
Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated.
Updated:
She was in a car wreck with a friend. She was rushed to hospital and regained consciousness this morning & is in a stable state & out of any danger. She had a work-permit id on her which did not list her address and having moved recently, no one could figure out where she lived. Thankfully, she had insurance and so did the driver of the car.
Thanks to one of the helpful members on this board, I was able to contact a hospital hotline and track her.
She's been my girlfriend for 4 years and yes, in real life.
Why did I come to ATOT with this? Because there are helpful people here, people who may have experienced similar situations. I got the hotline number within a few minutes of posting.
Everyone who cared and was concerned, thanks - I appreciate it.
To the people who made a mockery of the situation, I hope that you never have to go thru a similar situation involving a loved one.
She hasn't come back to her apartment since.
I've tried getting in touch with some of her friends and got in contact with 1 person who hasn't since her since Thursday.
The last activity on her bank account was on early Friday evening. She hasn't checked her e-mail since then either.
There is the possibility that she might have dumped me but she's not the kind of person who do that without a phone-call. Also, that's no reason for her not to access her bank account or check her e-mail.
At this point, I"m only concerned about her safety.
I don't live in NYC and have never been in this kind of a situation before.
Should I call the police or the hospitals? I have no idea what to do next.
Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated.
Updated:
She was in a car wreck with a friend. She was rushed to hospital and regained consciousness this morning & is in a stable state & out of any danger. She had a work-permit id on her which did not list her address and having moved recently, no one could figure out where she lived. Thankfully, she had insurance and so did the driver of the car.
Thanks to one of the helpful members on this board, I was able to contact a hospital hotline and track her.
She's been my girlfriend for 4 years and yes, in real life.
Why did I come to ATOT with this? Because there are helpful people here, people who may have experienced similar situations. I got the hotline number within a few minutes of posting.
Everyone who cared and was concerned, thanks - I appreciate it.
To the people who made a mockery of the situation, I hope that you never have to go thru a similar situation involving a loved one.
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