moshquerade
No Lifer
- Nov 1, 2001
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they would have to proove that he hacked the account.. all he would have to say is she left the account logged in and he saw them ;p
moshquerade
No Lifer
- Nov 1, 2001
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i know we want to side with this guy b/c we are hearing his side of the story BUT she has a story to tell too.
Yep and it was me. I had a similiar situation but it was pretty different this one. I posted that thread shortly after my wife moved out last May. And now, almost a year later, I'm filing for divorce next month. The first few months were one step away from me going off the deep end but back in December, I met someone who has shown me what it's like to have a real relationship. When I look back on my time with my ex, I can't believe that we lasted as long as we did. It was a great learning experience though. And if someone wants to dig up that old thread, those that felt she was seeing someone else were correct. It was a temporary thing for her but she was in fact fooling around. I was in complete denial at the time however. Guess you just never want to believe something like that can happen to you.
Anyway, my apologies to the OP for getting off on a personal tangent there but I did want to comfirm Lonyo's speculation. Good luck and hang in there. Take from someone who has gone through it: It DOES get better. Won't happen overnight. Took me a few months (and some good meds) but it will make you a stronger person in the end. So hang in there and do what's in the best interest of your daugther. She's the one that could end up with some residual effects from this that could be tough for her to overcome. Just let her know that she is not to blame in any way because sometimes, kids get that impression.
Yup, her side of the story is that she was sick of being married to this unemployed pothead and there was this really cute guy at work...
Oh yea - if you want to have any hope at a decent custody deal and have any sense at all, stop the weed now. She can and likely will request a drug test to establish fitness for custody.
Or maybe just ignore this as the kid may be better off.
Or maybe just ignore this as the kid may be better off.
moshquerade
No Lifer
- Nov 1, 2001
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good luck with that. you had to get your first marriage out of the way at some point. Hopefully you dont have alot she can take from you in court.
see sig link .
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^^^ I'd like to know this as well. I don't have a moral objection to marijuana usage, but getting high around your 3 year old I do have a problem with. Anyways I hope that's not the case. Best of luck to you.
I guess you and your wife need to try to remain calm and a bit mature so this whole thing doesn't fvck up your daughter too much
Whoozyerdaddy
Lifer
- Jun 27, 2005
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I sympathize with the OP. Divorce sucks.
But seriously... How many women are going to put up with a jobless pothead? My woman would drop me like a bad habit... and vice versa.
But seriously... How many women are going to put up with a jobless pothead? My woman would drop me like a bad habit... and vice versa.
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