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Gave co-worker my credit card to pick up something

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There is no good reason in the world why you can't just discuss this him in a totally non-accusatory way since it took you by surprise. Just be low key and matter of fact.

It's amazing how much direct communication helps.

Edit: Also, if the cost of this tip was evenly paid for by all, then we're really talking about a trivial amount and you may as well let the whole thing go.
 
There's nothing trivial about the co-workers action. The only thing trivial is why the OP is asking an internet forum when he should be communication with his co-worker on the matter.

Originally posted by: Aimster
I am not responsible for any unauthorized charges so it's not a big deal.

What? You authorized the charges when you gave the co-worker your card. I hope you aren't thinking about calling the card company to dispute the charge.

What was the total bill and how much cash did everyone give you?
 
Originally posted by: Hacp
Originally posted by: dbk
yeah that sux... but it's only $5 so no big deal. have him buy you a beer or something

Beer costs like 1 buck. If you want, I'll sell you as many 5 dollar cans as you need 😛

not 'near beer' ... real beer...

 
Maybe he typically does this with his own money. And he didn't think twice because this comes naturally to some people.
 
While i wouldnt be pumped about this, he did use gas/time to go and pick up the wings. If it was more than five dollars then i might worry about it.
Also to those who dont tip for takeout, i think its called for in some situations. Obviously not a full 20% type deal, but a few bucks for packaging the food up and including sauces/ silverware why not.
If its thrown in a bag and handed to me, possibly any non paper change i get back.

All in all lesson learned, i'm sure you wont be giving him your card again.
 
I don't think the OP was trying to say that the tip amount was an unauthorized charge. He was saying that, while some may view the mere act of giving his co-worker his credit card as being dumb, because of his fraud protection, it wasn't as dumb as some may make it out to be. I think this was an unrelated tangent to the rest of the post, hence the parenthesis. I may be wrong, but that's how I read it.
 
I am not calling my credit card company to dispute anything. I am simply saying if anyone uses your credit card for an unauthorized transaction then the cardholder is not responsible. I added that because people in here think if someone has your credit card information and they use it you are SOL. So if my co-worker decided to stop by Best Buy and get a large 65" Plasma T.V I wouldn't be responsible for the bill.

The total was $48 and he gave $53.
 
Originally posted by: ironwing
He tipped 10%. When's the last time you got laid?

So you want to start tipping the McDonald's people for giving you food too?
It was carryout. You don't tip for picking up food.
 
Originally posted by: Aimster
Originally posted by: ironwing
He tipped 10%. When's the last time you got laid?

So you want to start tipping the McDonald's people for giving you food too?
It was carryout. You don't tip for picking up food.

It depends, sometimes I do. Is the $5 really important or is this a control thing? If the $5 is really important and you feel you paid the full freight on it as opposed to the group splitting the $5 then talk to the guy. If it is just a control thing then consider it a lesson learned and don't be handing your credit card to nobody.
 
Originally posted by: StinkyPinky
Yes, let it go. Not worth getting high blood pressure over 5 $

It is weird but I agree w/ above statement

And for some reason I thought the co-worker tipped you $5 for some reason
 
Originally posted by: Aimster
Originally posted by: ironwing
He tipped 10%. When's the last time you got laid?

So you want to start tipping the McDonald's people for giving you food too?
It was carryout. You don't tip for picking up food.

He was put in a socially awkward position and reacted (in your estimation) poorly.
There was a tip line on the CC receipt and he had to decide whtehr to put nothing or something. In a way he knew he was being observed (by you the CC owner) so he erred on the cautious 10% tip.

Maybe you should explain to him that you don't need to tip for carryout, instead of taking it as a personal insult.
 
Originally posted by: suse920
While i wouldnt be pumped about this, he did use gas/time to go and pick up the wings. If it was more than five dollars then i might worry about it.
Also to those who dont tip for takeout, i think its called for in some situations. Obviously not a full 20% type deal, but a few bucks for packaging the food up and including sauces/ silverware why not.
If its thrown in a bag and handed to me, possibly any non paper change i get back.

All in all lesson learned, i'm sure you wont be giving him your card again.

It's not the card borrowers money to do with as they please. That said, certain situations call for on the spot changes, but if someone is borrowing my money tips and surcharges better be paid back as well.

In reality the $5 amount is something most of us would gloss over depending on the total cost, but this is more of an "analyze the mechanics of your finances and what gratuity means to you" BEFORE you allow this to happen without your consent.

For a pickup I never tip and would rag on my buddy if they did.
 
Originally posted by: Aimster
4 of us at work decided to get wings for a party. I was busy at work and I didn't have any cash on me to go pick up the wings so I gave my credit card to a co-worker to go get the wings and he gave me the cash.
(I am not responsible for any unauthorized charges so it's not a big deal.)

Anyways I find out today he decided to tip the people $5 and he never told me. $5 tip for picking up wings for carryout.. wtf?

Would you bring this up? I think that's a pretty a-hole move on his part. I'm thinking I should just let it go and take it as a lesson learned.

Let it go. You'd be a huge douche to bring this up at all.
 
Originally posted by: Capt Caveman
It's $5, who gives a shit.

you would if the $5 was on a debit card, and that extra $5 you didn't know about caused you to bounce a check or overdraft on the account or something.

 
Originally posted by: guyver01
Originally posted by: Capt Caveman
It's $5, who gives a shit.

you would if the $5 was on a debit card, and that extra $5 you didn't know about caused you to bounce a check or overdraft on the account or something.

Not everyone lives paycheck to paycheck and if you are you'd have to be the biggest dumbfuck on the planet to hand your debit card over to someone to pay for take out knowing you only have exactly the amount of the check to cover it.
 
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Originally posted by: Aimster
4 of us at work decided to get wings for a party. I was busy at work and I didn't have any cash on me to go pick up the wings so I gave my credit card to a co-worker to go get the wings and he gave me the cash.
(I am not responsible for any unauthorized charges so it's not a big deal.)

Anyways I find out today he decided to tip the people $5 and he never told me. $5 tip for picking up wings for carryout.. wtf?

Would you bring this up? I think that's a pretty a-hole move on his part. I'm thinking I should just let it go and take it as a lesson learned.

Let it go. You'd be a huge douche to bring this up at all.

A douche only because it would be their own fault [and unfair to the borrower] for not clearing it up in the first place:

"and don't tip"
"leave 10%"
"$45+tax and not a penny more"

Try it, it's easy...
 
Originally posted by: JulesMaximus
Originally posted by: guyver01
Originally posted by: Capt Caveman
It's $5, who gives a shit.

you would if the $5 was on a debit card, and that extra $5 you didn't know about caused you to bounce a check or overdraft on the account or something.

Not everyone lives paycheck to paycheck and if you are you'd have to be the biggest dumbfuck on the planet to hand your debit card over to someone to pay for take out knowing you only have exactly the amount of the check to cover it.

agreed on both points but I cannot as easily forget $5 as it undercuts my entire savings goals.
 
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