no, don't.
If he did, then he'd be able to contribute back to the already polluted enough gene pool we swim in.
Have you thought about counseling? Maybe there's some group therapy near you for people with social anxiety. Also you should seriously consider getting a gym membership. A little over a year ago I was around 180 lbs. (I'm about 5'8") and feeling pretty tubby, even though my arms and legs didn't show it. I finally decided that I wouldn't use my appearance as an excuse to hate myself, so I started dieting and doing cardio/weights 4-5 times a week. So far I've lost about 30 lbs. and gained some muscle, and feel much more comfortable about my image. I'm still apprehensive about walking around without a shirt though, lol.
Also, I think you've been brainwashed about women from your folks/environment. You should be concerned about the possibility of being single for the rest of your life if you don't change your perceptions about them. I strongly recommend some counseling.
Also, I think you've been brainwashed about women from your folks/environment. You should be concerned about the possibility of being single for the rest of your life if you don't change your perceptions about them. I strongly recommend some counseling.
MartyMcFly3
Lifer
ah, this thread won't die because we love to give advice and OP's picking for sympathy. He even admits the right to just listen and not change.
I agree w/ most people, it's the attitude/perception. In due time (since OP's a Christian?) God will use circumstances to break that down and you'll be a new man in Christ. Keep on praying for the Lord to open your eyes to what He wants you to do, instead of what you want.
IMHO, "just friends" is the step to "girlfriend" (the reverse of OP's priorities, by his own words) If OP is always aiming for "girlfriend" then he's mentally and emotionally accelerating the relationship from accquaintence to girlfriend, which has a low success rate, isn't good for long term, and most girls are not into.
my 2 cents ends for this thread.
I agree w/ most people, it's the attitude/perception. In due time (since OP's a Christian?) God will use circumstances to break that down and you'll be a new man in Christ. Keep on praying for the Lord to open your eyes to what He wants you to do, instead of what you want.
IMHO, "just friends" is the step to "girlfriend" (the reverse of OP's priorities, by his own words) If OP is always aiming for "girlfriend" then he's mentally and emotionally accelerating the relationship from accquaintence to girlfriend, which has a low success rate, isn't good for long term, and most girls are not into.
my 2 cents ends for this thread.
what i dont understand is how he is saying that I've been brainwashed by my environment about women. and how my perceptions are going to keep me single.
Well Skywalker66 is no more so we may as well let it peacefully die and go off to the great archive in the sky....
JulesMaximus
No Lifer
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No. Banning him would be too easy and I think the mods know that. As long this halfwit is allowed to stay here he'll keep coming back to us because he is an attention whore of colossal proportions. He's even said it himself, "I need to be banned so I can get a life". I hope you do stay, Skywalker, because you're a sorry parody of yourself. Your complete and utter lack of introspection will keep you in that perpetual hole you're stuck in, and the further down you go the more amused I am by it.
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